Do you have to do anything?
Its completely up to you if you want to desensitise your glans or not. I recommend it whilst treating phimosis as it can help the process and is useful in an emergency. There are many problems that are related to trouble ejaculating, this one of them but there could also be an underlying issue.
If you decide you want to desensitise your glans a good way is to handle it under water in the bath. The feeling of the warm water confuses the nerve endings and makes that feeling less acute. You should look to grip your glans between your thumb and index finger until the feeling subsides and then grip another area until you get bored. Also get used to holding your penis by the glans when you take a pee when you can. You should see some improvement after a couple of weeks.
Its completely up to you if you want to desensitise your glans or not. I recommend it whilst treating phimosis as it can help the process and is useful in an emergency. There are many problems that are related to trouble ejaculating, this one of them but there could also be an underlying issue.
If you decide you want to desensitise your glans a good way is to handle it under water in the bath. The feeling of the warm water confuses the nerve endings and makes that feeling less acute. You should look to grip your glans between your thumb and index finger until the feeling subsides and then grip another area until you get bored. Also get used to holding your penis by the glans when you take a pee when you can. You should see some improvement after a couple of weeks.
hi i am 15 and also have this problem, i was wondering why i cant pull it all the way back (i get half way and it starts to hurt) and how i can stop it or help ease it back
Where does it hurt?
The glans is sensitive to the touch because it has been hidden all it's life. That's one way in can hurt.
The tip of the foreskin may just be tight and it hurts because it's being stretched when you try to get it over the larger part of your glans.
When you get it part way back the frenulum may be getting pulled so it hurts. That's a piece of skin on the under side that goes from just under the tip of your glans to the foreskin. It looks much like the one that's under your tongue which is also called a frenulum.
So any or all of those may be contributing to the pain you feel. The trick is to figure out which one is first or most important to you.
My foreskin had always been pulled back for cleaning from the time I was born so it went behind the head easily. When I got to my teen years and my erections became larger, the tip was too tight if it happened to get caught behind the glans as an erection came on. To relieve that I stretched it by inserting two fingers in the tip and stretching it wider while I was in the shower. Stretch it until it hurts a little and hold it as long as you can. This probably will cause stretch marks that are a little sore, especially when urine gets on them, but it's not really bad. It took several months to stretch it enough.
Bambi has another very good stretching description here:
https://www.steadyhealth.com/topics/cant-pull-foreskin-back-at-13&highlight=
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My frenulum wasn't a problem until I got married and began having sex every day. It tore and then the ends healed back together so it was still too short. The next time it tore I wrapped it to keep the ends from healing back together and it was a little longer. It tore a few more times but eventually it was long enough to allow my foreskin to retract all the way back. At that point the tip was able to roll all the way down the shaft nearly to my abdomen. It is truly a joy to have a foreskin that rolls all the way back there easily and comfortably, so what little pain was involved was definitely worth it. Mine tore naturally during sex but you can have a doctor cut it after numbing it if that's the problem. Just make sure he cuts it so it will no longer interfere with your foreskin retracting all the way. I have read about guys who had that done and it was still too short. I can't see having to go back and do it again. Make sure they get it RIGHT the first time.
Eventually I got tired of the glans being so sensitive and I decided to desensitize it. When I was a kid I had several friends with whom I masturbated who were circumcised. I was surprised to find their glans was no more sensitive than my finger tips. I surmised that was because it had always been getting rubbed by whatever came near it so all I should need to do was make mine get used to being touched. I reasoned that since it was sticky, that caused more irritation, so I began by cleaning it so it would dry completely and not be sticky when I touched it. I did that by pulling my foreskin all the way back and cleaning the glans and inner foreskin with cotton balls that were soaked in rubbing alcohol. The alcohol feels cold at first then it tingles and feels hot. After the alcohol dried the skin was no longer sticky and my now super clean fingers could rub it gently to work on the desensitization. Between the foreskin being pulled back and the tingly feeling and touching it I would get pretty turned on so it resulted in a lot of masturbation and I worked on desensitizing it often.
I suppose because of the method I used to desensitize it, since then I have always masturbated by dry rubbing it with my foreskin pulled all the way back. I find I like that much better than rolling the foreskin up and down. Also, having a foreskin that rolls all the way back comfortably is great during intercourse.
Have fun, I did.
The glans is sensitive to the touch because it has been hidden all it's life. That's one way in can hurt.
The tip of the foreskin may just be tight and it hurts because it's being stretched when you try to get it over the larger part of your glans.
When you get it part way back the frenulum may be getting pulled so it hurts. That's a piece of skin on the under side that goes from just under the tip of your glans to the foreskin. It looks much like the one that's under your tongue which is also called a frenulum.
So any or all of those may be contributing to the pain you feel. The trick is to figure out which one is first or most important to you.
My foreskin had always been pulled back for cleaning from the time I was born so it went behind the head easily. When I got to my teen years and my erections became larger, the tip was too tight if it happened to get caught behind the glans as an erection came on. To relieve that I stretched it by inserting two fingers in the tip and stretching it wider while I was in the shower. Stretch it until it hurts a little and hold it as long as you can. This probably will cause stretch marks that are a little sore, especially when urine gets on them, but it's not really bad. It took several months to stretch it enough.
Bambi has another very good stretching description here:
https://www.steadyhealth.com/topics/cant-pull-foreskin-back-at-13&highlight=
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My frenulum wasn't a problem until I got married and began having sex every day. It tore and then the ends healed back together so it was still too short. The next time it tore I wrapped it to keep the ends from healing back together and it was a little longer. It tore a few more times but eventually it was long enough to allow my foreskin to retract all the way back. At that point the tip was able to roll all the way down the shaft nearly to my abdomen. It is truly a joy to have a foreskin that rolls all the way back there easily and comfortably, so what little pain was involved was definitely worth it. Mine tore naturally during sex but you can have a doctor cut it after numbing it if that's the problem. Just make sure he cuts it so it will no longer interfere with your foreskin retracting all the way. I have read about guys who had that done and it was still too short. I can't see having to go back and do it again. Make sure they get it RIGHT the first time.
Eventually I got tired of the glans being so sensitive and I decided to desensitize it. When I was a kid I had several friends with whom I masturbated who were circumcised. I was surprised to find their glans was no more sensitive than my finger tips. I surmised that was because it had always been getting rubbed by whatever came near it so all I should need to do was make mine get used to being touched. I reasoned that since it was sticky, that caused more irritation, so I began by cleaning it so it would dry completely and not be sticky when I touched it. I did that by pulling my foreskin all the way back and cleaning the glans and inner foreskin with cotton balls that were soaked in rubbing alcohol. The alcohol feels cold at first then it tingles and feels hot. After the alcohol dried the skin was no longer sticky and my now super clean fingers could rub it gently to work on the desensitization. Between the foreskin being pulled back and the tingly feeling and touching it I would get pretty turned on so it resulted in a lot of masturbation and I worked on desensitizing it often.
I suppose because of the method I used to desensitize it, since then I have always masturbated by dry rubbing it with my foreskin pulled all the way back. I find I like that much better than rolling the foreskin up and down. Also, having a foreskin that rolls all the way back comfortably is great during intercourse.
Have fun, I did.
Yep completly agreed with njoynlife.
Great post as always :-)
Great post as always :-)
hey guest(s),
I compleatly agree with nojoyinlife, i my self have given bambies methood to several people. although i have never had to try it, i have read it and agree 100%. it is VERY important for all uncircumcised guys to be able to retract their forskin 100% over the head of the penis and that they clean it every day with a mild soap and warm water when you are in the shower/bath. if not smegma builds up, smells looks disgusting and also can lead to infection, extream sensitivity and some studies suggest and increase chance of penile cancer. so please if you are uncircumcised make sure you retract in your forskin and clean it every day or as often as possible.
I compleatly agree with nojoyinlife, i my self have given bambies methood to several people. although i have never had to try it, i have read it and agree 100%. it is VERY important for all uncircumcised guys to be able to retract their forskin 100% over the head of the penis and that they clean it every day with a mild soap and warm water when you are in the shower/bath. if not smegma builds up, smells looks disgusting and also can lead to infection, extream sensitivity and some studies suggest and increase chance of penile cancer. so please if you are uncircumcised make sure you retract in your forskin and clean it every day or as often as possible.
Hey! Hey! That's not NOjoyin life :-( Help me out here Bambi, and where's bb when I need her?
That head cheese is surely a psychological problem if not really a physical one. When I was in my teens there was always cheese on it when I rolled back my foreskin. It seemed to grow by the minute. I was always worried about what a girl would think of that stuff --- if I was ever lucky enough to find one to share it with.
I didn't need to worry too much because that didn't happen until I was in the army. She loved to play with that thing so much I don't remember if she even noticed the head cheese. 8-| I kept a rag under the seat of my car for her to wipe it off but I think it only got used to clean up after the fact. This was the girl who kept my face tucked between her legs almost all time when I wasn't driving. 8) As soon as she got in the car she had me unzipped and was playing with it. She used to love to do it in traffic where someone in a truck might see what she was doing. :-S Colonel's daughters are the best ! ! :-D
That head cheese is surely a psychological problem if not really a physical one. When I was in my teens there was always cheese on it when I rolled back my foreskin. It seemed to grow by the minute. I was always worried about what a girl would think of that stuff --- if I was ever lucky enough to find one to share it with.
I didn't need to worry too much because that didn't happen until I was in the army. She loved to play with that thing so much I don't remember if she even noticed the head cheese. 8-| I kept a rag under the seat of my car for her to wipe it off but I think it only got used to clean up after the fact. This was the girl who kept my face tucked between her legs almost all time when I wasn't driving. 8) As soon as she got in the car she had me unzipped and was playing with it. She used to love to do it in traffic where someone in a truck might see what she was doing. :-S Colonel's daughters are the best ! ! :-D
:o Terrible!!
Just thought I'd add to the 'head cheese' discussion and say I've never suffered from it. I've even experimented not washing it for a few days and I still don't get it. Must be one of those, "happens to some people and not others" things.
Just thought I'd add to the 'head cheese' discussion and say I've never suffered from it. I've even experimented not washing it for a few days and I still don't get it. Must be one of those, "happens to some people and not others" things.
hahahaha I'm sorry..... i for some reason kept mis reading it.... now that i look at it more closely (enjoying life) :$ that is a much better user name. I was always curious why you would have it say NO joy in life when you seem so up beat. yea but the smegma thing is real and it can pose a real hazard if good hygiene is not practiced.
Ok, I had the same problem not too long ago and i am 18 so just about at your age i had the same problem. With me it was always easier to pull it back when it wasnt erected and flimsy and then it got erected shortly after. When your in a calm state and your not erected lie down and stritch the foreskin back, then let it erect and you keep holding it back and it shouldnt hurt much and just keep it like that for a bit. Every time you do this your skin stretches more, keep doing it until your directly under the head and then youve made it! Good luck, just dont over stretch it, then it really hurts. ;-)
No, definitely not! This works for some people like yourself, but for others it is a sure-fire way to paraphimosis (where the foreskin gets trapped behind the glans) and a trip to A&E.
I was going through the same thing at one point six months ago (15 yr/o). I only then figured out that the foreskin was retractable, so i followed the common direction of pulling it back as far as I could whenever I got the chance (e.g.: bathroom, masturbation, etc). Three months later I was doing progress, having gotten to halfway down the head, but only when I was not erect.
Today I finally managed to go past the head and unto the shaft, and it was the most uncomfortable thing I have ever experienced. I had a hard time pulling it back up because I was getting slightly aroused, but when I did, I just left it alone. I suppose I have more work to do before getting it to the point of smoothly going down the head and shaft comfortably.
A small note: it may seem like smegma is not accumulating under the skin (I thought so as well), but today when I pulled it back, it was horrible; there was tons. I'll be regularly pulling the foreskin back and cleaning it bit by bit. Just wish I had a functional bathtub to help out.
Today I finally managed to go past the head and unto the shaft, and it was the most uncomfortable thing I have ever experienced. I had a hard time pulling it back up because I was getting slightly aroused, but when I did, I just left it alone. I suppose I have more work to do before getting it to the point of smoothly going down the head and shaft comfortably.
A small note: it may seem like smegma is not accumulating under the skin (I thought so as well), but today when I pulled it back, it was horrible; there was tons. I'll be regularly pulling the foreskin back and cleaning it bit by bit. Just wish I had a functional bathtub to help out.
Some very good progress there guest. Yeh just keep it up and you should be fine.
Keep us updated :-D
Keep us updated :-D
Yep, when you get it back it is uncomfortable at first because the head isn't used to being exposed or touched. That makes it uncomfortable to pull it forward if you have to grab ahold of it to do that.
That smegma was a real pain for me. It seemed like it grew by the pound over night. I'd have it nice and clean when I masturbated at night and when I skun it back in the morning I would have a ton of it under there.
Just keep at it. Mine was tight when I got erect, but it loostened up nicely.
That smegma was a real pain for me. It seemed like it grew by the pound over night. I'd have it nice and clean when I masturbated at night and when I skun it back in the morning I would have a ton of it under there.
Just keep at it. Mine was tight when I got erect, but it loostened up nicely.
ew dude that kinda grosses me out and make me think forskins are nasty like no offense
it makes me glad im cut
it makes me glad im cut
Fore skins can be nasty to some people, but they are the minority so don't get scared uncut guys, in fact the majority of men in the world are uncircumcised or uncut, you just have to be more aware of hygiene.... here are some tips for men with an uncut penis:
1) skin back or pull the foreskin back when urinating
2) after urinating use tissue to dry off any urine remaining on the penis (urine left in the foreskin can cause the penis to smell)
3)always wash the penis when taking a shower, skin back the foreskin and wash with soap and water
You may notice (especially teenage boy) a white matter that accumulates on the penis, called Smegma, this is quite normal in younger men, Smegma refers to the dead cells, moisture or skin oil and bacteria time and again gathered in this unseen and congested space. To clean this space, you need to pull the foreskin and wash as much area as you can with warm water. Take special care while washing both the glans and the foreskin area because this area is usually not exposed but when you are having sex, there will be no bigger turn-off for a woman than a man who takes off his shorts showing his unhygienic penis.
I hope this helps your issues with an uncircumcised or uncut penis :-D
1) skin back or pull the foreskin back when urinating
2) after urinating use tissue to dry off any urine remaining on the penis (urine left in the foreskin can cause the penis to smell)
3)always wash the penis when taking a shower, skin back the foreskin and wash with soap and water
You may notice (especially teenage boy) a white matter that accumulates on the penis, called Smegma, this is quite normal in younger men, Smegma refers to the dead cells, moisture or skin oil and bacteria time and again gathered in this unseen and congested space. To clean this space, you need to pull the foreskin and wash as much area as you can with warm water. Take special care while washing both the glans and the foreskin area because this area is usually not exposed but when you are having sex, there will be no bigger turn-off for a woman than a man who takes off his shorts showing his unhygienic penis.
I hope this helps your issues with an uncircumcised or uncut penis :-D