First of all, don't panic. Fingering can break the hymen but only if they're big and you use them to do so. You can bleed a little because the hymen is skin and a little rip of nothing can cause you to bleed. But when you grow up it will stretch and you can become "larger". Let me tell you that if a man were to put his penis inside of you, you would be in pain at first and then the hymen would break. Some people have sexual intercourse and the hymen doesn't break. But if your culture says that only your husband should break the hymen of there wife... how come your sexually active? Sexually active means having sex... completely having sex... so that would mean your not a virgin anymore but if it was only fingering than it's not really sexually active. A hymen can't grow back. it will break and then stay that way and heal that way.
Hope this helps.
I agree. I mean, there is no reason for you to panic about this. Now, when you did this you can only assume was your hymen broken or not. I know that the most common question is can the hymen be broken by finger and the main truth is that it can. On the other hand, you are still a virgin even if you have broken your hymen. Yes, you are a virgin! To stop being one, you need to have intercourse and you do know what the intercourse is. A lot of girls actually break their hymen when they are very young and often that happens to those girls who are playing some sports.
Lively my advice to you is to say that before you do something,you must be very well informed about it and its implications.Some things may permanently damage you if you are not well informed about them.Sexually active is having sexual intercourse,meaning that you are no lomger a virgin.a hymen definetely cannot grow back.
Please dont risk with your feminine parts and risk being disonwed by family because of experimenting
So you probably are still a virgin, I don't mean any disrespect but don't use sexually active as a term, it's really more like I am romantically involved. But your boyfriend is an id**t, don't listen to someone who doesn't know what he's talking about. It's normal to be scared of that but 2 fingers are nothing compared to a fully large and erected penis. The biggest I have seen is 7inch long and 3 or 4inchs in diameter. So believe me, without having had sex with someone, your hymen is completely safe.
You probably are a virgin. The way to know is only to look at the hymen and check for splits, I'm pretty sure I would not find any splits. They usually split in the corners.
Hope this helps you out! :)
It sounds as though you boyfriend is controlling if he "wanted me to do that every other day". Your masturbation shouldn't be for his pleasure or satisfaction but it should be for yourself. I agree with Kim on your boyfriends "opinion". He doesn't know what he is talking about and he is a m***n for thinking he does.
In no way is masturbation gross or disgusting. It is a natural part of life and is completely normal.
Also, I think that this should be mentioned because no one else has commented on it. You 18 now, and your boyfriend is 28. You were fingered when you were 15 and if you were with the same boyfriend, he would have been 25. Depending on where you are, the average age of consent is 16-17. Because he fingered you, that would constitute rape weather it was consented or not. It sounds to me and hopefully others as well, but your boyfriend is a pedophile and a pervert. I do have a longer point in mind, however, I do not want to state it at this time.
I hope to whoever you pray to that you answer so you can clear this up because this would cause for concern.
I'm sorry this is straight forward but you should dump your boyfriend, he is making you freak out too much, it's not good for you.
But for your hymen, it's normal, it's skin, it's supposed to be squiggly, what I meant by cracks it's the it's completely split in some places and from your way of describing, you have your hymen intact.
So stop worrying darling or move to Canada, you won't be worried here ;)
Many girls cannot even locate their hymen even though they are virgins, and not all girls bleed. I didn't. So I think the rule of "you must bleed" is wrong in terms of human anatomy.
Also, your bf is an id**t. Masturbate if you want to but if you don't want to, just tell him you did. Plenty of woman say things like that just cos men like to hear it. There's no way you should be set into a masturbation schedule just cos he says so. But if you enjoy it then don't feel guilty. Everyone does it, not everyone admits it.
I want to know if i'm a virgin or not. I'm 24 in a half years old and i have been fringering and masturbating since 18 yrs old and when i was 22 i used different pennis like objects for the first time. I bleed just a tiny bit. I don't know if i broken my own hymen or not. since the last few month I stoped masturbating But I never have sex or oral sex with a guy. i last dated in 10yrs and had one boyfirend in mylife and we only kissed. anm i a virgin or not
in my opinion you are still a virgin until you have had sex. it shouldnt matter whether your hymen has been broken or not. from what i have read someone can have sex and still not break their hymen. if you bleed a little bit during masturbation you are probably creating tiny tears. if you full on tear your hymen you will know it. it will hurt and bleed at least more then a couple drips.
Hi i had done sex with my b.f and we are in relationship from past 3 yrs .but we were doing intercourse once in a 6 months not regular!but now i m worried i will get married n my husband shldnt know tht i m not virgin so please please some remedy for this .