I guess I messed up with my hymen , my BF fingered & he might break it

What about that little flappy part that hangs out a little...my bf fingered me hard and now it has little brown spots on it.

yeah that is my case also last night i screwed her for the first time using my penis because most of the time i used only my fingers maybe 2 or 3 fingers because her vagina is so tight and we are just being safe.like i say i screwed her for the first time using my penis and i dont know if the penis is the reason why there is a blood do you think the penis or my fingers?because for the first time also i used 4 fingers on her vagina and i dont think my penis is the reason because i only have a small penis.

hi. I m simar .and I have already had sex with my bf.but now I m getting merried within 2 months .now I m fear from that what will happen...

my husband wants to a virgin vagina... I m in deep strees.please help ne

thanks

Helloo everyone...I'm 17, I have never had sexual intercouse..i hv been fingered..smtyms, just 1 whole finger goes in2 my vagina without any pain..does this mean I'm not virgin??? Well, I would like to know how a virgin's vagina luks like....please help

Why don't you marry your boyfriend then? If you are in a relationship with him for the past 3 years, well... marry him so you won't have to worry about your future husband finding out you are not a virgin anymore. You could suture your hymen, but that may not be an option where you live. Remember, bleeding when the hymen breaks during intercourse is not always a must. In my first time, I did not bleed at all! I hurt a lot, yes, but I did not bleed. Perhaps he was very carefull and slow, or maybe my hymen was more "stretchy", I don't know. So lack of bleeding doesn't mean no virginity. Maybe you can use that line with your future husband and show him on the web that lack of bleeding is not always a sign for lack of virginity. You would have to pretend during intercourse that you are in pain and you would have to lie to him, but that is your choice. I am just brutally honest about your options: marry your boyfriend; suture your hymen; fake it and lie to your husband.

You are still a virgin. One finger would not cause pain, just pleasure. And you can look up pictures on the internet. But why don't you just make an appointment with your doctor? If you don't want anyone to know, noone will know. Make it yourself and ask the receptionist that it is kept confidential from your family (i.e., tell her in a clear way that you do not wish that she/he calls your house to remind you of the appointment because you are not discussing this appointment with your parents, simple as that). When you see your doctor, although she/he is bound to confidentiality, just re-iterate again that you have made this appointment without letting your family know and that you would like to discuss so and so. This is the best way to go about it instead of posting online and having a bunch of strangers (and misinformed at times) individuals responding to your questions. You are 17; you will be sexually active soon. You should have all the information you need to know about and protect yourself from a reputable, responsible source, your doctor.

and sometimes when i masturbated when i removed my finger it has some pinkish fluid(it has blood? right?) do you think i over did it? I never ever had a boyfriend cause im afraid to discover im no longer a virgin,, but you all says that unless a penis was inserted in my vagina it means i no longer a virgin.. am i right?

iam in real trouble, too much depressed....

Iam 25yrs old gal. i was in relationship with a guy since 2007 till 2010. that was a internet based relationship. we both loved each other and his family knew about our relationship and they were all okay with it. it was almost sure that we would be getting married in future. so we tried getting intimate and. we dint have sex, only we tried to have and in that i lost my virginity(it was about 1/4th of his penis inside my vagina.and i bled a little). after that whenevr we met we did lovemaking of all sort but dint have sex,we tried many times to have sex but because of my pain problem it was not possible.so after sometime we stopped trying and did only lovemaking.he told me about masturbation also and i used to masturbate 5-6 times a month(never used any object for it,only clitoris stimulation). now that he cheated me,so we brokeup. but iam worried about my marriage when at first night there will be no bleeding cos hymen is already ruputured(i guess) and in no way i can tell it to my husband that i was in any relationship. iam here to get counselled and to get some positive response. kindly help me with this problem and some alternate reason for hymen rupture other than sex so that my life after marriage is okay! i know i have done wrong but it was not meant to be like that. please help.

Hello dear I would like to give you an openion that your friend my harmfull for you, if consider agewiz or his experience-wise...

So it would be good for you to leave him away and make a new friend of your age...... Keep yourelf away from bad habits otherwise all will be harmfull for you after your merriage life.

 

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Hello Everyone... M 26 n a half years old but never had sexual intercourse.. but i have a boyfriend n we did oral sex n he fingered me 4 years back. since then i like to masturbate n finger myself n i do it almost every day. i used tooth brush n alike things also but from last 2 years m just using my fingers to masturbate. In the starting days of masturbation (i.e. 3 n a half years back) i bleed-ed once but after that i never bleed.. M worried that m still virgin or not coz m not married n i have the same issue of being virgin in front of my husband on our first night. And i also wanna know is there any issue if i keep masturbating .. i mean does it make any change to my first intercourse in future..?? Please help me friends...

hi ,

iwant help from please my boy friend put his finger in my vagina  two time and in this two time i have blood then after certain week he try to enter his penis in my vagina but it is very painful and i can not tolerate it then he leave me and not insert his penis only the tip of the penis and not enter these mean that i lost my virginty please help me

 

hi am very tens kindly help me actually i do fingering in my back holl n get bleed i m worried i m still a virgin?

K I know UR Jewish, and according to that virgin is defined as anything that ruptures the hymen

I am fourteen and. I'm upset because. My hyem is. Covering my vagina opening is that normal I'm a virgin and I haven't started yet help pleeese