Hi. I'm afraid to say no there isn't a way to get rid of a large labia without surgery. I take it that it's your labia minora your talking about that's long and sticks out past your labia majora, you shouldn't be embarrassed about any part of your body just like your looks are different to anyone else then so can any other part of your body be different to any one else's, guys love girls that have long labia as they are able to suck on them when giving oral and it can also give you great pleasure to, they as sometimes known as flaps or angel wings.
You say you can't wear tight clothes or swimsuits is that because it shows through or because it's painful? If it's because they show you can always try wearing a thin panty liner in tight clothes or I have read that some woman even tuck them in so they don't show so much but again guys love to see what is known as a camel toe through clothing.
Be proud of your body hunny :-)
Hi , I have a very large labia and its embarrassing to get changed. I can't were tight clothes. I can't even where swim suits. Is their anyway of getting rid of my labia with out surgery?