I've tried to ignore this but now I've turned 18 I am worried and curious.
I seem to have hit puberty ok, I have hair in all of the right places. I get the morning erection. I get the random erections. Erections looking at very pretty ladies etc. But,
My problem is, I cannot seem to ejaculate while trying to masturbate. I can and do get good erections that last for good time. It is also harder for me to masturbate as I have no foreskin.
I get wet dreams every now and again, so I know I can produce sperm. I do get sensation in the wet dreams as I usually begin to waken up whilst its happening, or just after. This happens when I have very arousing dreams, some of which I can still remember even now.
Why am I having these problems? It seems wrong that I am 18 and I'm having these problems.
Please help!
I seem to have hit puberty ok, I have hair in all of the right places. I get the morning erection. I get the random erections. Erections looking at very pretty ladies etc. But,
My problem is, I cannot seem to ejaculate while trying to masturbate. I can and do get good erections that last for good time. It is also harder for me to masturbate as I have no foreskin.
I get wet dreams every now and again, so I know I can produce sperm. I do get sensation in the wet dreams as I usually begin to waken up whilst its happening, or just after. This happens when I have very arousing dreams, some of which I can still remember even now.
Why am I having these problems? It seems wrong that I am 18 and I'm having these problems.
Please help!
Maybe you are being too stressed up..
Hey thanks for the reply. What do you mean by too stressed up? Like too stressed whilst trying to masturbate? Or too stressed long term (like constant?)
Replies greatly appreciated as this is the only place I've asked about this.
Replies greatly appreciated as this is the only place I've asked about this.
I agree, you need to relax. It could be either from trying to hard to masturbate or from something else, maybe guilty feelings.
Get yourself someplace where you know nobody will walk in on you or hear you and just relax. Enjoy the feelings that your body will give you. It also can take some while so be patient. You might be stopping too early. You may think you're going to urinate so it might be a good idea to do that before you start.
Relax and it WILL happen. Masturbation is normal and everyone does it.
Good luck
Get yourself someplace where you know nobody will walk in on you or hear you and just relax. Enjoy the feelings that your body will give you. It also can take some while so be patient. You might be stopping too early. You may think you're going to urinate so it might be a good idea to do that before you start.
Relax and it WILL happen. Masturbation is normal and everyone does it.
Good luck
IF YOU HAVE NO FORESKIN,LIKE ME,YOU NEED TO USE LUBE.USE ENOUGH OF IT TO COVER YOUR penis AND TAKE IT SLOW,WORKING ON THE HEAD MORE THAN THE SHAFT.HAVE FUN!