hi.i'm 22 yr old female..it is the 1st tym i"m starting a topic..i hv 1st mastuRbate about 2 month ago.. now i fequntly do this .. now m in relation from lst 1 year,but never done sex.. during talking with my boyfrnd at night i rub in my clit & lebia.and enjoying it a lot..........but frnds i m worried abt ,heard that masturbation can causes serious prob in sexul life aftr marrige..& causes wrinkes in face ..is this right... plz Help me...
That is not correct and just a myth. In fact, when you are with your male partner and he comes, a lot of women believe that sperm is the miracle cream to a flawless face with no wrinkles. Swallowing sperm is not unhealthy either and doesn't really have a taste. Masturbation during a relationship can be quite a turn-on by having your partner watch you or masturbate you while you watch him and yourself. Remember guys masturbate too and some even 2 or 3 times a day so you are normal and alright. I'm happily married and still love to masturbate.
Hope this helps
Liz is certainly correct and I'd like to add another benefit.
When you know what feels good for YOU, you can show or tell your partner how you like to have him do it. You know us guys aren't born knowing what pleases you, we have to be taught. Even if we have some experience with other girls it may not be what you like best.
The only problems I can think of would be if you find masturbation by yourself is more pleasurable than having your guy do it and I think that's pretty rare. I know that even though I know just how to get the best feeling for myself, the touch of a female hand is immensely better. I expect that would be true for you girls too, you would like the touch of a guy better.
So true, so true. Thanks for add-on.
Sexual pleasure is a brain game if you feel guilty it can affect you during the time when you are with your partner either dont feel guilty or dont masterbate if it makes you feel guilty.....