Me and my boyfirend have been together 6 months, and i love him to peices, spend all out time together, a few weeks in he told me that an ex had got in touch and told him that he was her babies father, once the child was born he requested a dna as he was not sure, she took her time about doing it, in the mean time while waiting for his ex i fell pregnant with his child, it has now come back that this child is his daughter, he hasnt had anything to do with her for four months and hasnt seen the child for 12 months, he is not sure if he wants anything to do with her. I don't know how i feel, i really want my child and will not give it up for the world but now moneys tight i dont know what to do?
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Hi Guest,
He may not want to have anything to do with his daughter but he IS the father.
Personally, I think this shows a lot about his personality. Think about it, what if it was your daughter that he didn't want to have anything to do with.
He needs to support his daughter, and not just financially. He needs to be there for her. Unfortunately he's going to have to deal with his ex, but that's just too bad.
You've just had a clear look at his heart and it's cold. You can raise your child on your own, just like his ex is. While it may be a struggle at times, you can do it.
Sorry about how this sounds. It upsets me that anyone can make a baby and then just not want to have anything to do with it.
Good luck in your future.
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