PLEASE do not abort your baby! my husband and i are happily married with four children. we would love to adopt your baby if you will let us!
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I am 23 and i have just found out i am 6 weeks pregnant. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and he is my soul mate we love eachother so much. We have always talked about having kids but later on in life. So he is devastated he has told me that he is not ready for a baby and he really doesnt want me to go through with it. To make things worse his family are telling me that i am ruining his life and i am being selfish because i dont want to get rid of it. Termination is something i have always been so against i think its selfish and mean, i have always looked forward to having a baby i admit it is sooner than i expected but part of me is so excited. I dont know what to do i dont want to loose my boyfriend but i dont think i can terminate. He says he will stay with me n stick by me but im scared he will rezent me down the line and il have to do it all by myself. Is that a risk i should take? x
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You need to do what you think is right for yourself and your child! If you want it and he'll help you out now, than that's what you should do. If he leaves later down the line, you still have that beautiful child that you can love and take care of! And nothing else will matter. You shouldn't listen to his parents telling you that you are ruining his life by keeping the child you BOTH created. If you feel against abortion, most likely you'll regret it forever if you end up doing it. Just make sure you think about all your options before you go and do something you don't want to actually do.
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I'm 20 and I have a 2yr old son and I don't have any help with him and now I'm 5wks pregnant and considering abortion because the father doesn't want it and I'm so confused I don't know what to do I don't want to make the wrong decisions I need help please help me decide
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I'm sorry but only you can decide what is best for your life and your situation. I know that it must be hard having no help at all and it does make you consider things you thought you never would. Look at your two year old and how much your life has changed since having him. How different would your life be if you got an abortion with him? That's what you've got to think with this child. How different your life would be after having it or deciding to terminate the pregnancy. There is a lot to consider in this situation and you need to think about it all before you make sure a life changing decision. I hope that you don't let anyone persuade you into doing something you don't want to do. I wish you the best of luck with your decision.
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i need people opinions on this :-( and what to do !! iam 18 years old and have a boyfriend who is 19 we have been together a year past in augast there, he has a little girl from a one night stand a few months before we got together he sees his baby at the weekend over night. everythings fine for us wee get along great both us are working etc, october last year i fell pregnant with his child when i found out i was so scared i didnt know what to do or who to tell because his baby was due in feb 2010 for the best we decided to go through with an abortion. dec 10 2009 i got an abortion i kind of regret it now that i see him with his child and i had a chance :-( but we finaly got over that. now nov 2010 i just found out im around 5 weeks pregnant i know most of you will be saying why not use protection?? i am on the pill. am so scared what to do! deep down i want this child more than anything and if my boyfriends family were alright i know he would want it to. its just his family will be dissapointed on us and be raging for the face his little girl is only 9 months. if yous were in my shoes what would yous do please helpppppp :-(!!! "also i do not want anyone like his little girls mother thinking it was planned or i have planned it deliberatley as me & the childs mother do not get on" she has loved my man ever since there one night stand i know he does not have feelings for her as he hates her i know thats harsh but the things shes put us both through!
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i need people opinions on this :-( and what to do !! iam 18 years old and have a boyfriend who is 19 we have been together a year past in augast there, he has a little girl from a one night stand a few months before we got together he sees his baby at the weekend over night. everythings fine for us wee get along great both us are working etc, october last year i fell pregnant with his child when i found out i was so scared i didnt know what to do or who to tell because his baby was due in feb 2010 for the best we decided to go through with an abortion. dec 10 2009 i got an abortion i kind of regret it now that i see him with his child and i had a chance :-( but we finaly got over that. now nov 2010 i just found out im around 5 weeks pregnant i know most of you will be saying why not use protection?? i am on the pill. am so scared what to do! deep down i want this child more than anything and if my boyfriends family were alright i know he would want it to. its just his family will be dissapointed on us and be raging for the face his little girl is only 9 months. if yous were in my shoes what would yous do please helpppppp :-(!!! "also i do not want anyone like his little girls mother thinking it was planned or i have planned it deliberatley as me & the childs mother do not get on" she has loved my man ever since there one night stand i know he does not have feelings for her as he hates her i know thats harsh but the things shes put us both through!
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i need people opinions on this :-( and what to do !! iam 18 years old and have a boyfriend who is 19 we have been together a year past in augast there, he has a little girl from a one night stand a few months before we got together he sees his baby at the weekend over night. everythings fine for us wee get along great both us are working etc, october last year i fell pregnant with his child when i found out i was so scared i didnt know what to do or who to tell because his baby was due in feb 2010 for the best we decided to go through with an abortion. dec 10 2009 i got an abortion i kind of regret it now that i see him with his child and i had a chance :-( but we finaly got over that. now nov 2010 i just found out im around 5 weeks pregnant i know most of you will be saying why not use protection?? i am on the pill. am so scared what to do! deep down i want this child more than anything and if my boyfriends family were alright i know he would want it to. its just his family will be dissapointed on us and be raging for the face his little girl is only 9 months. if yous were in my shoes what would yous do please helpppppp :-(!!! "also i do not want anyone like his little girls mother thinking it was planned or i have planned it deliberatley as me & the childs mother do not get on" she has loved my man ever since there one night stand i know he does not have feelings for her as he hates her i know thats harsh but the things shes put us both through!
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If any of ya'll are thinking of abortion please please rethink and ***this post is edited by moderator *** *** private e-mails not allowed **
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Me and my partner have been trying to have a baby for years now and have not had any luck. So if you would just re think your choice and think about me and my partner who can not have what you can. Thank you this means alot to us!! Felicia
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Me and my partner have been trying to have a baby for years now and have not had any luck. So if you would just re think your choice and think about me and my partner who can not have what you can. Thank you this means alot to us!! Felicia
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bluedog wrote:
i believe its more selfish killing someone for your benefit, yes they will have some damages, but dont we all, i was raised by mother and father and im not perfect, how many drug addicts had a "perfect" home. you just cant go around having abortions because the time isnt right. just be a woman about it and sacrifice what you have to sacrifice so that child can grow up like any "normal" one!
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I Terminated a pregnancy because for me it was the right thing to do I felt guilt and remorse initially but it went away (I hate to say) fairly quickly. Sometimes it is more selfish to keep a baby especially in a world that is overpopulated with lots of neglected and abandoned children to begin with. In my opinion to give a child the best chance you need a stable home with a mother and father. Although you can raise a healthy citizen without these there will be damages. More so if its a female without a strong positive male influence, it can lead to promiscuous behavior, drug abuse etc. If you do have a father (would be her grandfather) to fill this role and be a constant presence it would suffice. Do all your research before picking a decision based on others opinions and moral values. But mostly do what is right for you and what you think you can live with!
I'm really glad to read this post because it sounds to me like you are doing really well and that you have been able to handle the stress of the situation. Thanks for posting this!
i believe its more selfish killing someone for your benefit, yes they will have some damages, but dont we all, i was raised by mother and father and im not perfect, how many drug addicts had a "perfect" home. you just cant go around having abortions because the time isnt right. just be a woman about it and sacrifice what you have to sacrifice so that child can grow up like any "normal" one!
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anonymous wrote:
i see you wrote this a while back, im also 20 and 6 weeks pregnant, the dad wants me to get an abortion and probably hates me, which i dont care because i already love dis baby more than anything, has it gotten better? is he there for ur child?
im 20 years old i've been with this guy for 3 yrs off and on and in April i found out i was pregnant. Im now 3 months pregnant and he's making it the worst experience of my life. He never wanted it from the beginning but i dont believe in abortions. i dont know how to handle this situation because iv'e always been there for him when he's had no one else to turn to, so i just dont understand why he's putting me through all of this heart ache. And im pretty much certain he hates me now, and blames me for all thats going "wrong" in his life right now. is this normal for guys to go through this stage of a young pregnancy? is this situation going to get better or worst with time? PLEASE HELP :cry:
i see you wrote this a while back, im also 20 and 6 weeks pregnant, the dad wants me to get an abortion and probably hates me, which i dont care because i already love dis baby more than anything, has it gotten better? is he there for ur child?
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Dearie, terminating a child's life is not only horrible for your body and in the long run, but it would be basically murdering a baby's life. I don't want to sound harsh, but it's reality, and it bites. I just want to say that if your boyfriend truly wanted to be with you, or loved you, he should stick by your side if you keep the baby. You said he told you he would stay beside you, then tell him you want to keep the baby. And if you don't want to keep the baby, put the little dear up for adoption, that would be much better than taking the baby's life. I know it is a horribly hard decision to make, but do remember, you are now caring for two lives, not only your own.
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Hello Everyone! I noticed there are a few young ladies on here who are in a rough place facing an unplanned pregnancy. If you would please consider adoption rather than abortion you could make a world of a difference in the life of your child and in that of a family like ours. Rather than having an abortion and facing the severe regret and depression many women do, consider a selfless option. Consider that tiny little baby growing inside your belly. Consider a family like ours. My husband and I have been trying to get pregnant and have a child for over 8 years now. After falling in love with a 4 year old girl last summer and nearly adopting her because she was in an unfit home we have decided to adopt. We know after that experience that we can love any child unconditionally, not only our own. We have completed the requirements to get certified and looking for a child to welcome into our family. We are so excited to have a child to share our love with, play with, cherish, nurture, and raise. If you would like to know more about us please visit our website where you can read our story! Or feel free to email us _[removed]_
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Hi I know this post wasn't for me but it really helped. I'm going through the same thing expect my parents are really dissapointed in me. Abortion is were difficult. Plz email also if you need someone to talk to
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hi, i have just found out i am 6 wks pregnant, i already have an 8 year old daughter from a different relationship, when my daughter was 1 years old i found out i had chorns, the doctors told me that i couldnt get pregnant again and that i should be happy that i already have a child. i have been with my new partner for nearly 2 years now. he doesnt want anymore kids (he already has a 4 year old son) when we got together we talked about kids and told him i couldnt have anymore. now that i am pregnant i am happy but very very scared because of my health and the babys. my partner really wants me to have a termination, but i am not sure what to do. i know if i carry on with the pregnancy i will lose the love of my life, but if i have a tremination will i end up hating him? please help me xx
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