Hi,
I am 26 old male. I am having sex regularly, about 3 times a week with my girl friend. but I have got one huge problem which makes me exteremely unhappy: usually I have a normal erection for the first time and I have a good, or normal orgasm on the first time. BUT on the second try, I have a bit weaker erection, but cannot come in any ways... its getting impossible for me. as to thrd try, I evend don't do that... I mean, we have sex only onec during a meeting, and I cannot do anymore... I just cannot come even if I have a good erection.
what could be a possible problem? what should I do? is there any medication for this kind of problem?
PLEASE, PLEASE, HELP ME,... GIVE ME SOEM INFORMATION...
I am 26 old male. I am having sex regularly, about 3 times a week with my girl friend. but I have got one huge problem which makes me exteremely unhappy: usually I have a normal erection for the first time and I have a good, or normal orgasm on the first time. BUT on the second try, I have a bit weaker erection, but cannot come in any ways... its getting impossible for me. as to thrd try, I evend don't do that... I mean, we have sex only onec during a meeting, and I cannot do anymore... I just cannot come even if I have a good erection.
what could be a possible problem? what should I do? is there any medication for this kind of problem?
PLEASE, PLEASE, HELP ME,... GIVE ME SOEM INFORMATION...
Not being able to ejaculate after the initial ejaculation (within an hour or so) is perfectly normal. Your body must produce more ejaculate fluids and that takes time. I don't know exactly how long, but it takes awhile.
There is nothing wrong with you. You are perfectly normal.
There is nothing wrong with you. You are perfectly normal.
Thank you for your response. But what if i cannot ejaculate say even after 2 hours?
is there any medication/drugs to help me to increase my ejaculation 'performance'?
is there any medication/drugs to help me to increase my ejaculation 'performance'?
It takes time to recover from an orgasm. While it's possible to ejaculate twice within an hour or so, don't depend on it. If you can manage two or three times a day you're doing perfectly fine. I think your problem is that you've actually been reading the spam that comes into your mailbox. It's all garbage. Your penis is NOT too small, you don't need to produce more sperm, etc, etc.
The good news is that there is much more to sex than just ejaculating. And the more you learn about the OTHER things you can do the happier you'll make your girlfriend. If you really want to amaze your girlfriend, it's not going to be by having a 9 inch penis with half a gallon of cum, it's going to be by taking the time to get to know what makes her feel good and then doing those things at the right time. Now start practicing. :-)[/enc]
The good news is that there is much more to sex than just ejaculating. And the more you learn about the OTHER things you can do the happier you'll make your girlfriend. If you really want to amaze your girlfriend, it's not going to be by having a 9 inch penis with half a gallon of cum, it's going to be by taking the time to get to know what makes her feel good and then doing those things at the right time. Now start practicing. :-)[/enc]