No matter what your religious, political or moral beliefs are, you should not force them onto others. What makes us unique in our own individualism is that we are all different. Fate nor faith has anything to do with living life. Just look at the animal kingdom. ;-)
I personally am pro-choice and am 22 weeks pregnant, after having a planned abortion 11 years ago. My husband and I hadn't planned this pregnancy yet we're not regretting it. It was hard in the beginning with the hormones having me act out in various ways but now that I am half-way there, my main concern is to create a healthy FETUS (as it is still developing and cannot survive outside the womb) into what will be a human life soon, and the pain of the delivery in the end. o.O
I believe that it would not be a very safe procedure for any woman to abort a fetus so far along in the pregnancy. And unless there were some life-saving, medical reason to do so, I do not believe there is a legitimate doctor who would perform such a procedure. Good luck in your future and I hope you make the right decision for you. :-)
I personally am pro-choice and am 22 weeks pregnant, after having a planned abortion 11 years ago. My husband and I hadn't planned this pregnancy yet we're not regretting it. It was hard in the beginning with the hormones having me act out in various ways but now that I am half-way there, my main concern is to create a healthy FETUS (as it is still developing and cannot survive outside the womb) into what will be a human life soon, and the pain of the delivery in the end. o.O
I believe that it would not be a very safe procedure for any woman to abort a fetus so far along in the pregnancy. And unless there were some life-saving, medical reason to do so, I do not believe there is a legitimate doctor who would perform such a procedure. Good luck in your future and I hope you make the right decision for you. :-)
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Obviously your view has gotten in the way of any compassion for the situation.
I have had an abortion in the past. It's a hard decision to make and something you have to deal with the rest of your life. Before you make the decision please make sure you are sure. It's been 6 years and I still look back on my choice and wonder what could have been. But I'm thankful I live in a place that allows me to make that decision.
I had a medical abortion. You're to far along for that now, but for anyone 11 weeks or less that has decided they want to have an abortion it is cheaper and less likely to cause infertility in the future. Be prepared that it is very painful, you will vomit and have severe diarrhea along with severe stomach cramping.
Adoption also is a great option. My husband is adopted and his mother tried to have a child for many years and couldn't.
Again, please remember abortion is not always as easy as in and out and it's forgotten. It's hard on your body and hard on your mind. You most likely will not walk away from it saying "Oh well, glad that's over with." make sure you're sure before you do it. I was not in a situation at the time where I should not have had a child, and my boyfriend at the time (now my husband) deffinately wasn't. I had been told by numerous doctors I would never be able to have kids, then suddenly I was pregnant. I was high risk and probably wouldn't have made it to 5 months, but I look back now and think I could have done it had I just tried.
If you didnt want to have a baby you shouldnt had,had unprotected sex
an abortion at 20 weeks is MURDER
women find out the sex of the baby at 19 weeks for petes sake
if you dont want the baby then give it up for adoption
there are so many women that cant have children who would love to have that baby....
I realize some people are going to think my reply is absurd but isnt the original question just as absurd?!?!?!?!
Obviously your view has gotten in the way of any compassion for the situation.
I have had an abortion in the past. It's a hard decision to make and something you have to deal with the rest of your life. Before you make the decision please make sure you are sure. It's been 6 years and I still look back on my choice and wonder what could have been. But I'm thankful I live in a place that allows me to make that decision.
I had a medical abortion. You're to far along for that now, but for anyone 11 weeks or less that has decided they want to have an abortion it is cheaper and less likely to cause infertility in the future. Be prepared that it is very painful, you will vomit and have severe diarrhea along with severe stomach cramping.
Adoption also is a great option. My husband is adopted and his mother tried to have a child for many years and couldn't.
Again, please remember abortion is not always as easy as in and out and it's forgotten. It's hard on your body and hard on your mind. You most likely will not walk away from it saying "Oh well, glad that's over with." make sure you're sure before you do it. I was not in a situation at the time where I should not have had a child, and my boyfriend at the time (now my husband) deffinately wasn't. I had been told by numerous doctors I would never be able to have kids, then suddenly I was pregnant. I was high risk and probably wouldn't have made it to 5 months, but I look back now and think I could have done it had I just tried.
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Ok SO i can't believe this, here i am 20 weeks pregnant looking to see how my pregnancy is going and i came across this. EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON. People like you make me cry. I almost lost this baby, this is my second one and i want him or her like crazy. Why god would give you a baby i don't know, but he did, consider it a blessing! How could you even live with yourself killing a baby that has ten fingers and toes and a heartbeat.
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No. o.O Don't do it, give the child up for adoption! you have a human life growing inside of you. can't you feel him/her kicking? what if your mother did that to you. what would you feel about that? you're selfish.
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if you live in California and have medical they will pay for the abortion. I only know this because my sister in law just got her abortion paid for and she was 21 weeks pregnancy.
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I am sorry but i am 27 years old , I have a 7 year old and was consistently on birth control after my first child . I stopped taking my birth control and within 2 months I was happily pregnant. You need to deal with it at this point . Why wait til this long into your pregnancy???? get professional help . trying to do some stupid thing like causing yourself a miscarriage is very dumb....you might end up F***ing up and doing a half job and end up in the hospital anyway , because now you put yourself at risk as well...and guess what , you still have to pay the hospital bills....screw the bills a life is worth more that those bills.
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I must agree that if you shouldnt have had unprotected sex, you should especially know at the age of 41 about the different ways to prevent this, if not im sorry....I know that it is a personal decision for all females, but at that point in your pregnancy that baby is a human being also and deserves a chance I was watching what an abortion look liked for farther termed pregancy and it is monsterious they poke at the baby "WHO CAN FEEL PAIN" until they have punctured the baby's skin and take scissor instruments and cut up the baby while the baby is still ALIVE..WHICH RESULTS IN THE SILENT SCREAM!!!!!! and they cut the poor humanbeing into pieces like a f*****g horror movie...so it is a disgrace or a woman at your age especially to think of life that way, BUt hey we are all entitled to our own opinion too. even ME
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I am not proud of this, but my daughter had an abortion at 20 weeks, she had to because of the enormous amounts of illegal drugs in her system. So Eternity, the description that you have painted is not tru as i was in the room with her when the procedure was done.
I can't go into detail but if you are that far along and for some reason have to have an abortion, the medical staff sees to it that the baby does not feel pain. If there is any pain at all, it is very brief and consists of an injection which is a prick of a needle. It sickens me to say that the contents is already at rest before the actual surgery is done.
The Silent Scream is a horrible video and much of it, i believe is fake.
I can't go into detail but if you are that far along and for some reason have to have an abortion, the medical staff sees to it that the baby does not feel pain. If there is any pain at all, it is very brief and consists of an injection which is a prick of a needle. It sickens me to say that the contents is already at rest before the actual surgery is done.
The Silent Scream is a horrible video and much of it, i believe is fake.
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Um, did anyone consider adoption? My best friend is trying to adopt right now. If anyone is considering abortion, especially at 20 weeks, try to hold out for a few more months and give this baby, which is fully developed, to someone who will love and raise it. Please!!
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Are you kidding me? "Is there a safe way to have a miscarriage?" That is the most disgusting question Ive EVER heard in my life, go to the doctor Thats murder and you should be charged if you choose to go that route.
***edited by moderator***please refrain from name calling***
***edited by moderator***please refrain from name calling***
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It wouldn't miscarry, its too large at 20 weeks to pass. If a baby dies at that point in a pregnancy, which is sad and can happen, it takes a medical procedure to remove it.
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Any attempts to induce miscarriage are extremely dangerous, both for you and the baby. If you're not successful, the baby could be seriously damaged. Please seek the help of a professional or consider adoption. I know so many folks who have adopted and are profoundly grateful that someone was able to help them realize their dream to parent.
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I am 20 weeks pregnant with my 3rd child I have little money as well but I could NEVER let me repeat NEVER kill my child. If I didnt want this baby I would give her up for adoption but I could never kill a part of me what is wrong with you people, you should have never had unprotected sex it is your fault not the baby's grow up and take responsibility gesh I am only 23 and I have more sense than you!!!
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That is digusting to even try and think of giving yourself a abortion at home. Who even thinks of that. You should have been more responsible at your age and had an abortion before it formed into an actual baby. Go to week by week pregnancy newsletters and see what your baby looks like. Yes I am being judgemental because its about time out country wakes up and sees what kind of people we are today god we deserve to all die and have the end of the world happen. Just look at people wantyed to have abortions at home, thats just sick. shame on you.
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why would you wait this long...i mean 21 weeks is too much time...an abortion at this time could cause life threatning results especially if you are considering self aborting the fetus. I am not judging and i don't believe in abortion. only you know your situation, and only you can make that decision, but it was me i would never. am currently 20 weeks pregnant i feel the baby move everyday, i can't even imaging miscarrying at this point muchless and abortion, But hey to each its own, we all have to answer individually when the time comes.
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