i need elp im 24 weeks pregnent bt theres no way in dis world dat i can keep dis baby... i luv my parents soo much n i dnt want to hurt them... i cnt live wivout my mum.. n i dnt want eny problems because of me... i cnt gv birth ether... i was goin to hav n abortion bt i didnt av enouf money bt wen i got the money i was ment to b 23wekz n 4 days... dats wot the clinc sed b4 bt on the da i was ment to av abortion they sed i was oredy 24 weeks... nw i dnt knw wot to do.. im rely scared.. :'( :'( :'( ? ?
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Guest, you will have to have this child, you are 6 months along for cryin out loud. I am neither yay or nay as far as abortion is concerned as i have had two procedures myself, but 24 weeks is a little to late. Your better than half way home at this point.
What do you mean that you meant to have the abortion, i don't understand.
I am about as understanding as any person could possibly be but i would have to say that it's to late to have your pregnancy terminated, and i honestly don't think that you will find any doctor with any kind of reputation to do it now.
You are going to have to have a talk with your mom and tell her whats up, whats the worse that could happen? A few tears, maybe some harsh words, but it will all work out i'm sure. We moms are very resilient and bendable and once she knows that she is going to me a nana in a few months, i'm sure she will accept it and be ok. Just take a deep breath and go for it.
Oh and for the future of your postings. If you are going to return and keep us informed of your progress, please post your comments and concerns in English. Short cuts and slang is fine if your texting but it makes it very hard for us to read. If someone gets impatient and can't fully read your posts, they just may get over looked.
What do you mean that you meant to have the abortion, i don't understand.
I am about as understanding as any person could possibly be but i would have to say that it's to late to have your pregnancy terminated, and i honestly don't think that you will find any doctor with any kind of reputation to do it now.
You are going to have to have a talk with your mom and tell her whats up, whats the worse that could happen? A few tears, maybe some harsh words, but it will all work out i'm sure. We moms are very resilient and bendable and once she knows that she is going to me a nana in a few months, i'm sure she will accept it and be ok. Just take a deep breath and go for it.
Oh and for the future of your postings. If you are going to return and keep us informed of your progress, please post your comments and concerns in English. Short cuts and slang is fine if your texting but it makes it very hard for us to read. If someone gets impatient and can't fully read your posts, they just may get over looked.
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Im sorry u dont want the baby, but abortion is NEVER the answer. if you dont want him or her by birth, put the child up for adoption. I hope you decide to keep the baby, but if you don't, please save the childs life.
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Ohh, Well im only 15 year's old.
I Lost My Virginity For My Boyfriend 3 day's ago.
and Im Extremely worried, cause he jizzed ALOT in the Condom.
But He Put It on Wrong.
And i can't face my parents with this.
So, I've looked up how to have a miscarrage. Cause I Can't Have It, Not Right Now.
So Is it true? Can Ibupfrone prevent Cause a miscarrage?
I Lost My Virginity For My Boyfriend 3 day's ago.
and Im Extremely worried, cause he jizzed ALOT in the Condom.
But He Put It on Wrong.
And i can't face my parents with this.
So, I've looked up how to have a miscarrage. Cause I Can't Have It, Not Right Now.
So Is it true? Can Ibupfrone prevent Cause a miscarrage?
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why you want to lose your baby people are dieing to have a baby help someone i would love to my daughter died 3 years ago and pray everyday for a baby please think about it
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hi,
i have been through an abortion myself....and it is heart breaking....i can't forgive myself till date! and i dont ever want for anyone to go through this...so if anyone out there has any better hope of keeping the child than i did...PLEASE DO!....i now am trying to get pregnant....& have had a miscarriage.....now i blame myself for wat i've done....please do not put urself in this situation.....like i said...& im sayin it again....if u do stand a better chance please go for having the baby!
All you mothers are in my prayers!
i have been through an abortion myself....and it is heart breaking....i can't forgive myself till date! and i dont ever want for anyone to go through this...so if anyone out there has any better hope of keeping the child than i did...PLEASE DO!....i now am trying to get pregnant....& have had a miscarriage.....now i blame myself for wat i've done....please do not put urself in this situation.....like i said...& im sayin it again....if u do stand a better chance please go for having the baby!
All you mothers are in my prayers!
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Why in the world would you wait until you are 20-21 weeks to decide you want to end your baby's life???????????? Just live with it. If you dont want it after it is born give it to someone who does. I am 20 weeks pregnant right now and have been feeling my baby girl move for sometime now. I could never ever imagine even thinking about killing her. Your baby is ten inches long from head to toe right now. You cant even have a miscarriage after 20-22 weeks...it is called a stillbirth once the baby reaches a certain weight. The baby is almost at the point where if it were born it might be able to survive outside of the womb with a lot of time in the nicu. Get over your feelings and think about the child growing inside of you.
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I'm 22 and I had an abortion at 17.. Everyday I think about that child. It wasn't the babys fault :-( there are sooooo many people that can not have kids and would love your baby soo much! God wanted that baby and I just think you should really think it over before you do something you will forget! It will probably be hard to think that you have a child somewere in the world and it's not there with you but it would have to be better than knowing you ended that childs life. Yes there is a high number of what people say is ''UNWANTED CHILDREN'' but there are SOOOOO Many more parents that will take a newborn baby before a grown one...your child will be wanted by another family I promise :-) and he or she will be able to live life... The child is way to developed and it will be able to feel the abortion :-( I'm sorry if I sound like all these other people but I swear having an abortion messed me up everyday now for the last 5 years... Think about it please
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I would also just like to ad that miscarrage was out of the question after you hit the 2nd trimester. Adoption or abortion are your only choices. Abortion is so wrong after 13 weeks! They inject poison into the amniotic fluid, embillical cord or directly into the heart and pull the fetus out piece by piece :-( adoption would be sooo much better please do what's best for you and your baby. But please don't be selfish. I had an abortion years ago and it still affects me everyday!
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Oh my god....that is SO horrible..
I don't know what part of the world you are from, but here is Australia, if you try to self abort your baby that far along, you will be charged with MURDER! That is so horrible that you want to do that to a human, and a child, and not only a child, it's your child...
If you didn't want a baby, why are you being irrisponsible?
Horrible..
I don't know what part of the world you are from, but here is Australia, if you try to self abort your baby that far along, you will be charged with MURDER! That is so horrible that you want to do that to a human, and a child, and not only a child, it's your child...
If you didn't want a baby, why are you being irrisponsible?
Horrible..
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I can't stand people who judge others like this! This woman was reaching out for help, for what ever reason! There doesn't have to be a medical reason for not wanting a child. Just not wanting a child is a big enough reason. Bringing a child into te world when u are not ready is wrong. You need to be fully prepared to give your life to a baby. And If you are not then it is bad for your mental and physical health as well as the fact the baby will not have a mother that is completely into motherhood.
Well done to any woman/girl who is BRAVE enough to admit they are not ready to have someone elses life in their hands. Be pro life all you want, but don't force your out dated stupid views on everyone else. Loosing a baby whether it's your choice or not is still harder then imaginable.
The door to the real world is open when you small minded people want to come in and see life the way it actually is and not the airy fairy perfect world view you see!
Well done to any woman/girl who is BRAVE enough to admit they are not ready to have someone elses life in their hands. Be pro life all you want, but don't force your out dated stupid views on everyone else. Loosing a baby whether it's your choice or not is still harder then imaginable.
The door to the real world is open when you small minded people want to come in and see life the way it actually is and not the airy fairy perfect world view you see!
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Why not have the baby and put it up for adoption? There are a lot of ppl, including myself, who cannot have children & would give anything to be pregnant. To me at 20 weeks the baby is living & breathing just like us. Would you kill a dog? A cat? Or any living thing for that matter? Than why kill your baby?
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I am currently pregnant and it was a big mistake, and accident. I couldn't get pregnant for the longest time and now that i have it came at the wrong time and with the wrong person. I want to start my life and i cant do that and start another life on top. I don't have a perminate place to stay. I'm going from home to home. I don't have a job, money, or any type of medicaid. I really just need some advice on where to go to have an abortion that will help me because i don't have anyone else to help me. I'm all alone on this one. Please Help!!!!
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has anyone realized this person asked for help and not accusations or questioning? sweetie if you waited this long only you know what stopped you from getting yourself situated. find out what the statute of limitations on elective abortions in your state is because you need to make sure you dont go to a butcher shop...most states allow from 20-26 weeks but educate yourself. posting questions on a forum is opening a can of worms for yourself be careful and dont take anything hurtful anyone says to heart. an abortion clinic is the safest way and call hospitals to see if they do it, if not call your primary care doctor you may find a better source of help there
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Saving one life is not worth ruining many life (aka the family of both parties involved) when its unwanted...
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