Is there a way to cause a miscarriage at 20 weeks pregnant?

What the hell is wrong with you judgemental jerks. First off if you care so much about saving babies why are there so many in foster care. What do ppl only care about babies that we think look like them because there are plenty dead Pakistani and Arab babies lining the streets but we sit here doing nothing about it except condemning a woman cuz she doesn't want to have one @ 41. Which is f*****g reasonable.

Isn't it better to raise a child when you can? Don't you want to spoil your kid and give it everything it needs?

You can't do that if you don't have money. You would rather have a child suffer a bad childhood than to be with god and his angels? You are the ugly one here.

We don't have money for that. That's why we rather risk miscarriage. We're not as privileged as you.

Because we need to work and a pregnancy will get in the way.

For everyone who stumbles upon this!!

Listen. The only way I know how to miscarriage naturally is through intense workout.

Now, let me share you my experience. I grew up with a terrible mother. She was crazy and abusive and hurt me in so many ways that I tried killing myself when I was only 9 years old and I never stopped making attempts. I became pregnant, with a part time job that gives me 8.80 an hour and schedules me for 5 hour shifts twice every week. My boyfriend was in college and I couldn't afford to go to one.

If that child hadn't miscarriage on its own, and I had kept it. My emotional suicidal ways would have destroyed that child like my own mother had destroyed me. I wouldn't be able to live with myself if I caused any pain to my baby. And on top of that having no money to buy it whatever they wanted. Or to give it a good home. Good food. Be able to participate in school activities....

Everyone has their reasons for abortion or miscarriages.

If you're old, then it's clear that you don't want to be the 60 yr old mother with a 16 yr old son that everyone makes fun of. Who can never introduce his grandkids to you because you've already passed away.

If you're young with a bad job, obviously you want better for your own baby. You want to build yourself up first so that you can spoil your love one.

Or maybe you're a mess inside the head that knows you'll cause the same pain to your kid as your parents did to you.

"You need a license for fishing. But any bastard can be a parent when they shouldn't be."

For all you religious people out there. God is not going to give these women the help they need to raise a child. But he can love and keep their child safe with him in heaven.

Let him.

And for the record. My boyfriend now husband got his degree and I'm finishing my last year of pharmacy at FIU. And we're gonna have a big family once we buy a house together. My therapist has declared me fit to take care of another. And I won't let our first be forgotten.

We names him Cory. And big brother Cory is in heaven. I hope I can see him on day and tell him I'm sorry that he couldn't be alive with us. And thank him for giving us a chance at a better life.

To everyone judging

I sympathize with you. Many people judge what they can't understand. Maybe they would never do this but they are not in your situation either. And at the end of the day you're the one that has to try to raise this baby. If you strongly feel this way look at adoption or other states that offer abortion later in pregnancy.

Omg why don’t you get in others shoes. Shut up!

All I can say is your disgusting and I don't care who disagrees with me!!!! My son was born sleeping 12 weeks ago at 19+6weeks and it shattered my heart. No matter how much it hurts me (and believe me the pain is unreal) my son was ready to leave and fly YOURS IS NOT.
Why not help make some couple who don't have the blessing you have in side you bring up the baby you so calmly wish to destroy and make their family complete. the baby deserves a chance of a happy healthy life too!!!!!!!