Labia swelling after losing virginity?

So last week on Saturday I had sex for the first time ever and it was with my boyfriend. He has had se before in the past with his ex. Well he had a condom on, it was a good Trojan one. It was latex and had lubrication and spermicides on the outside of it. He went slow for me and I remember it hurt a bit. He had said before we even had sex that I was kinda tight down there so it might hurt. Well he was right, but the pain was bearable. We had said he should pull out before he finishes just in case, but he didn't. I didn't take a shower until two days later, which was Monday. I checked down there to see if it was all good, but I noticed it was swollen on the inside quite a bit. And it was just on the inside. There was no pain or discomfort. I noticed there was a tiny bit of white, slightly chunky discharge. It smelled slightly like the condom. It wasn't a horrible smell though. I looked online to see if I could find anyone else who's had this same issue. I could only find people who've had similar, but not eact issues. Mose saying they had pain or itching, or that the swelling was on the outside of the vagina, but I had none of that. So I figured it was just because I had had sex two nights before. I put the thought out of my head until I took another shower two days later on Wednesday. I checked down there again and it was still swollen, however there was no unusual discharge. I searched online even more but still found nothing of any help. I texted one of my friends who's had sex before and she said swelling is completely normal after having sex. I believed her but I was still worried since it had been four days since I had sex. Then on Friday I took another shower and it was still a bit swollen down there, but I noticed the swelling went down slightly. I had sex again last night with my boyfriend and beforehand he put his finger down there, yes I'm sure you know what that means, and he said it didn't feel any different to him. And while we were having sex it hurt just as much as it did last weekend. But then I noticed today as I was taking a shower it was even more swollen than it was on Friday. So I'm thinking that the combination of me being tight down there, plus possible lack of enough lubrication leading to friction which would lead to pain, might have caused the swelling? I'm just not sure and I want to make sure just in case. I'm supposed to be getting my period this week and I already have the painful boobs as usual, but nothing else yet. I feel like I might be a bit late because of this damn swelling. So yeah if any of you have had the same issue or know about this kinda thing, please let me know so I can stop freaking out about this.