I am really nervous about becoming sexually active with ANY guy because my Labia seem WAAAAYY too long. I feel like they're gona take one look at them and go eewww?? I'm also afraid when a guy goes to finger me, he will get turned off by how much is down there. Seriously my labia, when stretched, is 2 full inches long, on both of them. Now I would think any guy would think thats gross?
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HELP ME!! "/
Okay I'm not sure if this will ever be read, but it's worth a shot. :-)
I'm currently 14. And I have had the same problem but with only one inner lip. If you're happy with them being longer, then that's fine, it's YOUR body. :-) If not... read on,
A few months ago I told my Mum how I was feeling, I explained the situation and how it made me feel, it's uncomfortable when I'm on my period, and gets quite cold and moist. She took me to my doctor straight away... I burst into tears when she asked to see my vagina, I wasn't emotionally ready. I knew I would have to show people to get it fixed, but I didn't think I would feel so bad. Last night, I was searching the internet, and it looks like some guys like it, but the majority don't. I personally don't like it on myself. I'm having surgery to trim my labia, my parents have both agreed it's the right thing to do. We're hoping I can get it done when I'm 15 and in the 6 weeks holidays privately, it will have time to heal during the holidays and I think I'll be old enough to cope with it emotionally. By doing this I will feel a lot more confident when I do eventually decide to have sex with the right person.
In my opinion, if it bothers you that much you feel rubbish, get surgery.
I'm currently 14. And I have had the same problem but with only one inner lip. If you're happy with them being longer, then that's fine, it's YOUR body. :-) If not... read on,
A few months ago I told my Mum how I was feeling, I explained the situation and how it made me feel, it's uncomfortable when I'm on my period, and gets quite cold and moist. She took me to my doctor straight away... I burst into tears when she asked to see my vagina, I wasn't emotionally ready. I knew I would have to show people to get it fixed, but I didn't think I would feel so bad. Last night, I was searching the internet, and it looks like some guys like it, but the majority don't. I personally don't like it on myself. I'm having surgery to trim my labia, my parents have both agreed it's the right thing to do. We're hoping I can get it done when I'm 15 and in the 6 weeks holidays privately, it will have time to heal during the holidays and I think I'll be old enough to cope with it emotionally. By doing this I will feel a lot more confident when I do eventually decide to have sex with the right person.
In my opinion, if it bothers you that much you feel rubbish, get surgery.
hey mine are 2 inch. long is that normal? eh
My labia minora is really long on the left side. It hangs out of my vagina about 2 inches and i can stretch it to 3 and a half inches. I am 15 and I am embarrassed to ask my mom to take me to see someone about it because my right labia is REALLY short. It looks like it isnt there. I don't know what to do...
Im 15 and I have an inch long of both my labia minora and I could stretch both of them. Im insecure too but I try to not feel bad about it. If you already have enough money then you could go and take surgery, if not tell you're parents. Have the courage and tell them, they are your parents afterall. Being shy could bring you nothing.
hello did u have the surgerg i just founf out that i ahve got t to and there is a nothway to get rid it but i carnt found out i dont want to go to my doctor too.
I'm 21 & have always been extremely self conscious about my longer/uneven inner labia. I've had 5 sexual partners all of whom didn't mind or even notice the difference we all stress over. I've never told anyone about it but it's something I think of pretty much daily. I've always been very comfortable with my looks aside from this up until recently. After reading previous comments/posts, I am SO glad to know I'm not alone.
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Honey,if your lips down there are bigger,it means u taste damn good dont go to remove them God gave them to u to please some1
I have an extremely long labia and a very short labia too. One is barely non-existant and never stretches but the other one keeps growing and is now 1.5 inches long when fully stretched :/
Hi do you when you say one labia is longer than the other do you mean one side of your labia minora (inner lips)?
Mine are about two inches and are not uncomfortable, my main concern as they are not painful or irritating, is how they look in my underwear, I personally am worried that I look like I have a flappy lump, and would be very self conscious in swimwear or with a partner. In swimming at school, I hold my hands together in front and noticed that no one else seemed to have the protruding labia problem, it worries me but I worry about surgery
Hi guest. Just like every part of you is slightly different to the next person so is your vagina, what you describe is perfectly normal and it is more the fact that your self conscious about it why you notice it where it really isn't that visible to others.
Don't be ashamed of the way your body has developed be proud that your different :-)
I'm 16 years old and last year I went to see a doctor about the exact same thing, I was really worried also that it seemed to be thicker on the longer side in certain spots and I thought I had a tumor or something. I think labia don't stop growing until you are around 16/17. But anyway, I went to a doctor with almost the same situation and she told me I was perfectly healthy and normal, you have nothing to worry about
It is not a negative trait at all because some or maybe more than one guy may never touch you down there. You think of it as a blessing because for sure at least a guy who "Loves you" will get to know you very intimately and deeply. It's never gonna be and never was the size of your labia. Nor any other physical trait you have. Imagine how it looks...btw. It does not matter if he is not interested in a loving relationship with you.
I'm 15 and I have this problem too. I tried to tell my mom about the procedure and how it is uncomfortable but she completely shut me down and didn't want to talk about it and it is getting worse. Having to deal with the uncomfortable feeling when wearing pants and my labia literally falling out of my underwear makes me so self conscious. I've never been sexually active and I tend to avoid it because of everything going on down there. I don't know whether or not I should tell my dad or just make a doctors appointment myself. My dad is a doctor so I think he would understand but it is still kind of awkward...