i have a loose, spongy, and sort of gross looking labia minora...its not like ive seen anyone elses, so i have no idea what is considered "normal". also there are many very small bumps in that region...is that normal?
it's perfectly normal, everyones looks different :-)
yes, I agree that this is perfectly normal because this is a "disease" of the 21st century, and there are so many ladies who have problems with it. also, you should know that you can get larger labia minora as you are getting older. you need to know that nobody is staying young forever. I don't know how old are you, but maybe that is why you are dealing with a loose vagina in the first place. anyway, I know that it is hard for you to accept it, but you don't have to be ashamed because of this. also, it is important to know that women who lead sedentary lifestyles also tend to have a flappy cervix, so that is one more possibility.