ok im a 14 year old boy i lost mine recently with my girl friend and she lost hers a year ago but she only did it once and she was tight and said it hurt about a 5 its the greatest feeling in the world you pre lubed condoms and it should go in fine it will hurt less if he goes in slowly
First thing you have to reflect about it is why you want to have sex, it is because of you or because of your BF, I lost my virginity when I was 17 and I am married to the same guy, for me was an experience that I will never forget, I did not feel much pain, because my husband was gentle and loving, he did put me first not his pleasure, so we did both enjoyed very much…it was a awesome moment…be sure to use protection especially if your BF is not a virgin, you have to be safe always…not just because of STDs but also to avoid pregnancy. Just ask your self if you are really ready for it, loosing your virginity it is a very special moment, you will remember this for a long time…so be sure and be safe.
About your questions: If will hurt: It wont hurt much if he goes slow and if your vagina is stimulated and wet. Believe me it will go in, just make sure he will go slowly and gentile don’t be afraid to tell him when to stop and when it’s okay to go again. How it feel like: it depends on the bout of you for me it was awesome, but I have a friend that for her it was very painful because her boy friend was also very young and didn’t know much and didn’t listen to her so it was very painful to her. Just think about it…be sure and be safe!!!