Hey kiddo, older male here, most food grade are ok to use, coconut butter/oil is really safe to use. You can go to the store and buy this, peanut oil, castor oil (thick) mineral oil etc. Best of luck
Gotta say, if you have access to a hand spray wand,(warm water) using it around your boys can really help with enormous orgasms. Best of luck
I mean spit is fine, but it does kinda suck. The day or 2 after its really irritated and red. I would use veggie oil or Lotion
Damn bro you’re brutal! That would be some funny sh*t. Try IcyHot
Do not use neosporin it will burn real bad and a trip to the hospital.
For penis and anus masturbation try baby oil, baby lotion, cooking oil, olive oil, Goose Fat, lard and even butter (all available in the average home or easily bought from local stores). I us something called Masons Dog Oil (on the internet). Do let us kow how you get on and good luck!
And you can eat it all up later.