Hey everyone I'm 13 and cannot stop masterbating. I've tried just about everything and I want to stop or if not limit this behavior to at least once a month. I have been weaned off porn but when i stand up i'm dizzy and (this is a sad one.) :$ I have musle spazzems in my ass! Ugh I hate it! Can someone help? No the religioun and guilt thing hasn't worked for more than a week. Help! (I'm a girl.)
There are a lot of young teenagers going through exactly the same thing as you.
If you really want to stop, its going to take a lot of dedication. A good way to help though is to keep yourself busy or around other people a lot. Every time you think about it, try and find something else to do.
Going to have to wait for some girls to come on here about the symptoms your experiencing though I wouldn't like to have a guess.
Hope I've helped a tiny bit :-)
If you really want to stop, its going to take a lot of dedication. A good way to help though is to keep yourself busy or around other people a lot. Every time you think about it, try and find something else to do.
Going to have to wait for some girls to come on here about the symptoms your experiencing though I wouldn't like to have a guess.
Hope I've helped a tiny bit :-)
Why do you want to stop doing something that's so enjoyable? Do you really think it is causing the dizziness and muscle spasms?
If it is I think you're doing it wrong. The guilt thing never works because to a reasonable person there is nothing to feel guilty about. Masturbating is not bad, it's not wrong and it's a lot of fun. It's a great stress and tension reliever. It's also great experience for when you get married. Believe it or not, you ARE going to have to show your guy what you like best and where the right spots are. We have to learn from you because every girl is different. So you need to figure all that out yourself before you get there.
If it is I think you're doing it wrong. The guilt thing never works because to a reasonable person there is nothing to feel guilty about. Masturbating is not bad, it's not wrong and it's a lot of fun. It's a great stress and tension reliever. It's also great experience for when you get married. Believe it or not, you ARE going to have to show your guy what you like best and where the right spots are. We have to learn from you because every girl is different. So you need to figure all that out yourself before you get there.
Know what, there's no big deal with masturbation but too much of that may lead you to some certain problems like soreness especially when you do it in a rough way. You can have it atleast once or twice a day, come on, control yourself. I'm not saying to fully stop from masturbating, take it step by step. For example, you are used of 5 times masturbation a day, the next day make it four then the next day make it 3 then two then until there's one.
I hope this helps. Enjoy life, don't stress yourself. ;-)
x megan
I hope this helps. Enjoy life, don't stress yourself. ;-)
x megan
I'm almost 40 and I still can't stop...
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