Exactly what are you doing now?
It seems like so many girls who write in here are shoving something in and out of their vagina as a means of masturbating. Sticking a penis in and and out may be the most effective way to produce a pregnancy but it's far from the best way to produce maximum pleasure for your partner, male or female.
Are you working on your clit too?
regards
kara
im 13 also and first i felt like a freak but now not so much lol i like to use the end of my hair brush but its a flat end... im kinda scared to out fingers/ other object in my hole... can that harm at all?
I find masturbation completely healthy, it releases endorphins and Immunoglobulin A. I'm fifteen but I just can't bring myself to orgasm with my fingers alone - I found that I'm most stimulated by a bumping my clit against my boyfriend's penis. It's an amazing sensation that makes my toes curl.
what i do is i grab anything thats thin enough and quite long and use that and sometimes i sit on the sink and put the tap up my but then turn the tap on and wait till im full and watching it online really helps sometimes i also use the toilet scrubbers lid and its my fav i alway do it but my parents and brother nearly catch me doing it so i have to be careful so im sooo sad i cant do it as much you can also try fruit like bananas
;-) im a girl and im 13 years old
Not a good idea to use fruit, it could give you an infection. If you really have to, put a condom on it first.