Men...what is better to you? Large or small labia?

Guest over a year ago

This was interesting to read, thank you for posting. I've looked at some of the labiaplasty sites and I'm surprised how small some of the labia in the before pics are. It seems like some women consider any amount of inner labia showing thru the outer labia as too large and too much. So I was wondering what you meant by "large" labia as everyone seems to have different ideas as to what is considered 'large,' but then I read the quote you posted mentioning 'big flaps.' I think I fall into that category. I have large, thick inner lips and I mean truly large and thick, the kind that show thru my undies and wrap around a man during sex. I've always felt I got lucky in that department and have never felt pressure to change them. So take heart, not all of us women with large inner lips are looking to have our gifts surgically reduced. You may find your woman yet.

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freshman noise over a year ago

You truly are gifted with your angel wings, it is a great feeling during intercourse to feel them wrap around the penis and grip it tight and to see the prominent bulge of a large labia through the underwear is also a real turn on to most men.
Most woman that want surgery to remove there large labia minora do not realise the risks involved from infection to total loss of sensation and even ending up with a totally misshapen vaginal because the surgery went wrong.
If any of you do think of having surgery then make sure you do a lot of research first not just on the operation but also the after effects and on the surgeon doing it and also from people that's had it done, big is beautiful :)

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Guest over a year ago

Well, well, well, if it isn't an ignorant man who thinks his preference dictates THE standard for all mankind to follow. Excuse me, but there IS such a thing as labia (minora) that are too large. That porn star you mentioned doesn't even have big lips! She has a hooded clitoris! Learn the difference! Have you ever felt pain while walking because the way your large lips rubbed together felt like friggin sandpaper? Have you experienced them falling out of your underwear? Have you felt enough discomfort that exercising becomes too difficult?? Yea, you can have an opinion when you have (big) lips, son! And you know what I did? I reduced them. And life has been GREAT. Sex doesn't hurt. I can actually achieve my fitness goals now. I can wear thongs! It's not all about what men like. Honestly.

Original poster - who cares what men think? As long as YOU like what you have, that is all that matters. If your lips make normal activities uncomfortable (walking/running, hygiene problems, etc), then change it. But if it doesn't and all you're worrying about is what men like, don't change anything. Make yourself your priority and you will find someone who loves all of you.

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Guest over a year ago

How do you know every woman who gets the surgery did it due to feeling pressured? Maybe, I don't know, they decided to do it for themselves? I'm one of them. Do you think I did it because I was pressured? Helll no. I got them reduced after over 6 years of living in friggin hell. Lips chafing like sandpaper no matter how much I adjusted them (and they were BIG if we're talking about "big lips" here. I don't think you understand how big they were). No matter what underwear I wore, they would slip out to the sides as soon as I walked (imagine the band of your underwear cutting off the skin part of your testicles, I don't know). Imagine wanting to get fit, but struggling to ignore the discomfort every type you did a rep. Labiaplasty exists for this reason.

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Guest over a year ago

I don't know how the f**k I'm here but I guess as a male i would like to reply. I fantasizes constantly about woman with a big outer labia so I will not stand for a gf without one.

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Guest over a year ago

What most people are talking about here are large INNER labia. So do you mean large outer labia (the labia majora) or large inner labia (the labia minora) that protrudes outward and is visible?

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Guest over a year ago

Protruding clit and big long hanging labias,are my favorite and is hard to find a woman like this,I think it is a big blessing and you should be proud to show it off and not be embarrassed about it.

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Guest over a year ago

Everybody has different opinions about size and length, of labia size, not all guys love small labia, just like not all guys like big labia s , you just have to find a guy who prefers his girl to have big labia inner or outter with big clit is a plus for me,I'm one of those guys that gets turned on only by big labia an big clits,and I won't go down on her if she doesn't have big labias eaither. Be glad you have them, it's truly a blessing in my opinion.

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Guest over a year ago

I like them big

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Guest over a year ago

Labia are distinctly feminine features. The appearance of large labia at peak arousal...engourged, full of color, emitting moisture, the scent sex...a feast for the senses...I cannot imagine any feature more sexual appealing. Anyone who would debate this has some serious hang-ups or is in denial about their sexual predilections.

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Guest over a year ago

Large are the only ones worth exploring. Small ones are just too mean.

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Guest over a year ago

Long labia is the greatest turn on LOVE to lick them mmmmmmmmm

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Guest over a year ago

Oh my God, that was so hot to read, and made me feel great about having large labia!