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whenever my bf tries and rubs my clit i get a feeling that is too strong like my legs shake and i cant handle it. I know it cant be an orgasm cause whenever i masturbate its fine. is he doing something wrong or is there something wrong with me?
i m a boy and after i orgasm i cant keep going because theres to much pleasure but if you have somebody else to keep going for you thats how you get stuff like those scenes on tv where women scream from pleasure
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well it might be because you boyfriend gives you more pleasure then you by your self mybe thats why you get that feeling
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tell him not to be so rough even i no that and im 13 yrs old
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maybe ur clitoris is very sensitive,don't forget the clitoris has thousands of nerves so u feel anything,Y don't u let him gently touch it and see how it feels or if he wants to he could lick it and u can see how that feels
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After a woman comes, her clit can become more sensitive. Further stimulation of your clit can lead to more orgasms (multiple orgasms, where you keep coming for minutes at a time in waves) or it can lead to pain. Tell your partner to regulate his stmulation to keep you on the boil without causing you pain to get multiple orgasms, i.e, "harder", "slower". The amount and intensity will be something learned with experience and communication with your partner. Have fun!
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Why do you say “it cant be an orgasm”? If its not painful its an orgasm.
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Orgasms given to you by someone else can be much more intense than ones you get when you masturbate. It sounds like your partner is doing it right . :-)
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XD mayb its bcuz u have an orgasm b4 he touches u and then when he touches u ur so sensitive that its starts to contrct and tighten up really hard to the paoint it start to hurt
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uhm no I'm a girl and when I masturbate I feel exactly how your exsplaining and it's normal to feel that way and I have to stop too. maybe if he keeps going you will squirt , I don't know
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He's doing it WRONG. My boyfriend does that, applies waaayyy too much pressure so that all the nerves in my clitoris can't take the direct (and painful) contact which seems to travel to my legs, making them shake. It's a joint reaction sweetie. Solution - instruct him to go gentle!!
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i have the same problem..even when i do it myself i cant handle it and my legs shake too i try to keep going idk if it will make me orgasm or not haha but i guess some people are just alot more sensitive than others.
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...Its not pain shes talking about... Theres no bad feelings to it... it just feels WAYYYYYY too good .-., why the hell did everyone think she was getting hurt?
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Does it hurt? My bf does the same thing but I can't handle the direct contact and it hurts insanely but I'm too scared to tell him that. He must be overstimulating you. Does it feel really good or is it uncomfortable and hard to focus?
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My legs shake when my boyfriend rubs my clit too. It feels amazing, but its like.. I can't take it. Like i want him to stop & keep going at the same time. Ya know?
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