My boyfriend, Joel and I had vaginal sex for the first time yesterday. We were both ready and I was on birth control and he wore a condom. But it hurt like a mother f*cker. How can I make the next time more pleasurable for me? He loved it... It's just me. I talked to my doc and he said that there isn't anything wrong like I don't have a yiest infection or anything. Before we had sex we both got checked for std's and stuff and we don't have anything. Just thought I would say that because some of you might ask that. But anyway can you just comment some stuff that could help me make it more pleasurable?
Hi Guest,
Did you use any lube? That helps to ease the pain from him inserting his penis into you. You need to stretch as that was your first time and you will and it will become more enjoyable. Also, get him to eat you out and making you wet this way. Or, play so much with your clit that you are soaking wet. These are ALL very pleasurable ideas and anything will work.
For lube: vaseline, baby oil, saliva, or the pharmacy has lube or a sex store has edible lube
Hope this helps and good luck next time.