My boyfriend is 19 and he can't seem to get an orgasm from intercourse or oral sex, but he can get it from masturbating. He has only had sex with two girls and experienced this problem with both.
Is there anyway I could help him?
Is there anyway I could help him?
Sounds like a mental problem and not a physical one. Can he orgasm while masturbating in front of you or only alone? Can you masturbate him to orgasm? I have a feeling he was unable to reach orgasm with his first experience and it has left him a little scarred. Have him concentrate on something other than his orgasm while having sex and see if that helps. Good luck! :-D
He might also hold off from masturbating for up to two weeks before he attempts intercourse again. Maybe he can't go that long... maybe a week.
If he's staying firm, then the increased "internal pressure" from lack of climax will make it much easier for him to climax. However, this may also mean that he will climax much sooner than expected... and so, you both should be ready in case that happens. She may need a lot more attention, by hand or foreplay or otherwise to reach sastisfaction.
You asked if there was anyway that you could help him.
Be understanding and supportive. Let him know that you care about HIM, not the climax... that's just the frosting on the cake. And that you're with him on this.
If he's staying firm, then the increased "internal pressure" from lack of climax will make it much easier for him to climax. However, this may also mean that he will climax much sooner than expected... and so, you both should be ready in case that happens. She may need a lot more attention, by hand or foreplay or otherwise to reach sastisfaction.
You asked if there was anyway that you could help him.
Be understanding and supportive. Let him know that you care about HIM, not the climax... that's just the frosting on the cake. And that you're with him on this.