You know ... when my daughter's breasts are already developed and she wants to go topless anyway ... that's her problem. The fact that it's not particularly terrible to be opless with you, because you're just her parent. However, it is important that she also has someone trusted outside the home with whom she could also stay topless. It's really fun when a teenage girl tries to go topless because it proves that she is a daring, brave girl, without complexes.
Queen Victoria died a long time ago. Why won't she stay buried?
I say let her go topless
I was raised naked and to this day remain so even after marriage. I am proud of my body and work hard at keeping it so. It was a shock to most of others but now they got used to seeing me naked. I also have a younger sister who feels as I do. I am 26 and she is 23 and neither of our husbands object. Most of others call us exhibitionists but we love our freedom from clothes.
well if your parents raised you naked it's good for you and for them
we didn't raise our children like that and it is a shock to us, all this fashion about braless, belly-free and, yes, even topless and not only at home
they tell us it's all about body-freedom but we feel it's plain wrong
we didn't raise our children like that and it is a shock to us, all this fashion about braless, belly-free and, yes, even topless and not only at home
they tell us it's all about body-freedom but we feel it's plain wrong
"even after I got remarried"
New daddy. That's why she wants to go topless.
New daddy. That's why she wants to go topless.
Everyone commenting saying they would let their teenage daughters go around naked are weird ass white people. That would never fly in Morocco. You Europeans are strange.
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We have a similar situation. My daughter is 13 and likes to go topless around the house. She doesn't ask permission and she even does it when I have company sometimes. It freaked me out the first time. It hasn't been a problem though, except some of my friends want to come over all the time now.
My daughter went topless around 11 for the same reasons. My son(is 2 years older) and I were shocked but let her. Then a few years later she went full nude. As soon as she gets home from school everything comes off. She is very at ease with her nudity so we decided to try it. We been nude for that last 2 years now and very comfortable.
did you just say her brothers looked at her INTERESTED!?!?!?!?!?! that is not normal, women are topless in some tribes and it is not a sexual thing to them. i really think media makes all the difference. do your sons watch porn? or even just watch youtube often or sexual movies???
I think thats beautiful. i wish we all had grown up with toplessness normalized just like in topless tribes where it seems completely normal. perhaps if we all normalize it within our own homes, then it could also be normalized outside of the homes more easily?
From a psych perspective this is a classic sexual deviancy found mostly in preteen and teenage girls. I've counciled many girls over the years and it is the same story every single time. They will lie about why they want to be topless, or even nude, in order to manipulate their parents. It often takes a while for girls to open up enough to admit it but, eventually, they always do.
They will tell their parents things like "I feel more comfortable that way", "It's more natural" or "It helps my self-esteem" when eventually they'll admit that they're doing it for sexual attention and gratification. Stating that it arouses them to be exposed like that. Not only are they developing low moral standards, a lack of boundaries and promiscuous tendencies, but they are also developing a narcissistic personality disorder and lack of empathy for the people's feelings.
As a woman, I can attest to this.
For many girls, this type of behavior leads to further sexual promiscuity and poor life choices. I've seen it countless times and it always begins in the home. Speak with any credible therapist, or psychotherapist, who deals primarily with these types of issues to find out more.
They will tell their parents things like "I feel more comfortable that way", "It's more natural" or "It helps my self-esteem" when eventually they'll admit that they're doing it for sexual attention and gratification. Stating that it arouses them to be exposed like that. Not only are they developing low moral standards, a lack of boundaries and promiscuous tendencies, but they are also developing a narcissistic personality disorder and lack of empathy for the people's feelings.
As a woman, I can attest to this.
For many girls, this type of behavior leads to further sexual promiscuity and poor life choices. I've seen it countless times and it always begins in the home. Speak with any credible therapist, or psychotherapist, who deals primarily with these types of issues to find out more.
Let her be topless is not like she trying to promote sex. She just likes being natural and it’s actually healthy for breast muscles and everything.
i would let her - panties are just fine.