Yup, i'm not gonna tell you that that couldn't happen, but if you are good kids and raised well with good God fearing parents, then i wouldn't think mom/dad would give you guys the boot. Pregnant women always seem to touch a soft spot with parents eventually. Don't worry about that right now anyway. Stop reading and stop listening to every one else's nightmares. You sound like a sweet and intelligent young man and if this is any indication of how your parents are, i wouldn't worry about sleepin in the streets.
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thank you very much! and lets say c**p does hit the fan, and I needed a job. would you recommend the military?
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Well that's one way to make a good income, but why would you want to leave your women holding the bag? She will be scared to death and would want and need you and your support. I'm not saying not to enlist but wait until your son/daughter is born, and make sure your women is secure and has a roof over her head, then join up if you want.
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well, its not that I would want to leave. I love her very much, but I would need a way to support her financially. Not being with each other would be VERY hard on both of us, but I dont know of any other way. I mean, we would put the baby up for adoption. It would kill us, but theres no other way. And I DO NOT want that baby to suffer because we made a poor choice. Ill go hungry before I let Chelsea and that kid starve. But if I cant support my girlfriend (who would be my wife if we were to have the kid) and the baby, then Ill have to give the little one to someone that can.
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Oh honey, please don't get that far ahead with your thinking, your not even sure if she is pregnant. When she comes to you and announces that she got her period, your going to need to re route your sex life a little. As i told you before, as long as she is taking her pill faithfully every single day withouthout a break, she has a 1% chance of conception. The only way she is sure to not get preganat is by having NO sex at all.
I honestly don't think she is pregnant.
You mentioned adoption, what a selfless and wonderful gesture on your part. I am so happy that i did not see the word "abortion" any where in your posts and replys. But that is a whole different issue.
Do you and your gf have strong ties with your parents? Do your parents like her? Do her parents like you? If you can say yes to these questions, half the battle is won.
I honestly don't think she is pregnant.
You mentioned adoption, what a selfless and wonderful gesture on your part. I am so happy that i did not see the word "abortion" any where in your posts and replys. But that is a whole different issue.
Do you and your gf have strong ties with your parents? Do your parents like her? Do her parents like you? If you can say yes to these questions, half the battle is won.
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Neither of us believe in abortion. We dont really have a "sex life". We are both devout Christians. This wasnt a normal thing, it just sort of happened. We both feel horrible about it. But her parents are VERY strict. And my mother and I get along but my relationship with my dad is shaky at best.
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You just managed to get yourself in a bad spot for a minute, but i really think that you two will come out of this okay (no baby) Stuff happens, but it will make you stronger. Just re evaluate things a little and everything will work.
For now, just be there for each other and make sure you tell her how much you care and how "with her" you are, no matter what. She is freaked to, just know that.
Don't say much to your friends right now, friends are friends, but many have big mouths and before you know it, your scare is spread all over the school, only to find out that is really was just a scare.
Let me know if you two decide to take an HPT, it'll be okay, just breath.
For now, just be there for each other and make sure you tell her how much you care and how "with her" you are, no matter what. She is freaked to, just know that.
Don't say much to your friends right now, friends are friends, but many have big mouths and before you know it, your scare is spread all over the school, only to find out that is really was just a scare.
Let me know if you two decide to take an HPT, it'll be okay, just breath.
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I will DEFINITELY keep you posted. And thank you so much for all your help! Its really brought me a lot of relief!
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Hi jeffricon,
bbfeet is a real helper around here. She has helped so many that if you put all the names in one post, that post would be very long.
It has been few days since your last post so I was just wondering how are you? How is your girlfriend?
Best wishes
bbfeet is a real helper around here. She has helped so many that if you put all the names in one post, that post would be very long.
It has been few days since your last post so I was just wondering how are you? How is your girlfriend?
Best wishes
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