You really need to shove this woman out of your life, She's not worth it dispite loving you or not, If she actually loved you back in any sort of way. She wouldnt do those careless things to you. I hope you've already done so and if you did i congratulate you, you need to try to keep the manipulators out of your life no matter how hard it is, no matter if you love the person or not. It will destroy you and you're going to be you sitting alone, miserable after beeing with this id**t for way more time then you should have. cheers.
WOW!!!, I read your entire post tonight and felt your pain. I was in your shoes for 4yrs and went thru everything you said. I am just like you in caring for the one i love and I wasn't appreciated or loved in return. My girl ended the relationship because she was being control by family. My being with this girl changed my entire life from good to bad because I loved her and put in everything to keep her. I thank God today that she dumped me because steeping out of the relationship made me see things differently. I stayed single for 1 year while she was dating another dude, but I didn't keep speech from her. infarct, I offer her my assistant in anyway possible while apart. After 1 year, I decided to start dating again and in march 2011, I found someone way better. After two and the half years of being apart, she started begging to come back saying she regrets her actions. She said she didn't know what she was doing and that she would do anything to keep me. She said so many things about her wrong doing and who she understand me to be. She has asked me multiple times and my answer to her was clear '' I have met someone that I love now and I can't leave her for someone. she doesn't deserve to be hurt''. I told her I am available to help her in anyway possible and that we can keep being friends; I no longer have love for her.My friend, God has a reason for creating every human on this planet. God has a man/woman for everyone. This post is about 3yrs old now, but I will still throw my words. Thank God that you were able to ask for help because I didn't because of love. Your question was answered by everyone above. DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME BEHIND HER. YOU DESERVE SOMETHING BETTER. Hang out with friends, exercise, put yourself together for few months and start dating again. God bless
Hi! I am 25, female, independent. I would love to find a sensitive, wholesome and honest man like you. I was touched by your post, this reminds me of a relationship I have had with an alcoholic, it seems that this girl is not ready for marriage as she has some control issues with her family, and substance abuse issues. You are a man who has served his country, she is a girl, not ready for anything. It's a shame, if you loved her. You should move on, my sympathies. But on the plus...
I take a relationship much more seriously than your girl is doing. If I found a man as committed and hard-working as you I would fly!
Stop messing around with women who are manipulative, you only encourage them, instead give one of us decent women a shot, we would consider your needs as a man for freedom, self respect and loving support, and not be cold to you, sharing your goals!
The decent women of this world need more men like you, so do not give yourself to this user, it is a crying shame! Get your own home so you can call the shots in your own life and relationships! You will attract more healthy, independent women, who will be on your level emotionally. Good luck friend x
I take a relationship much more seriously than your girl is doing. If I found a man as committed and hard-working as you I would fly!
Stop messing around with women who are manipulative, you only encourage them, instead give one of us decent women a shot, we would consider your needs as a man for freedom, self respect and loving support, and not be cold to you, sharing your goals!
The decent women of this world need more men like you, so do not give yourself to this user, it is a crying shame! Get your own home so you can call the shots in your own life and relationships! You will attract more healthy, independent women, who will be on your level emotionally. Good luck friend x
Being alone is not a bad thing...At lest you have peace of mind. To plan. YOU need to set new goals for yourself. But first forgive yourself. Forgive your mom dying early. Forgive your father for all the abuse. Forgive your girlfriend and her crazy family. Why? Cause it set YOU Free! Forgiveness is a act of love. YOU are able to love yourself in a healthy manner and other. Hurt can turn into bitterness if you don't walk in forgiveness. YOU would be alone or worse yet be around bitter people. Misery loves company. Bitterness is a toxic it would warp you persception of yourself and the world around you . It would jerpordize your happiness in anything that you accomplish so that you won't be able to enjoy it. Most importantly you wont be alone long. YOU just need time to plan and set new goal for yourself and you woulld be able to sorround yourself with good people....
Hi. I know your post was over 3 years ago now but i do hope you have found peace with yourself. I say that because it sounds like, even if you have gotten away from this girl and her toxic family, your next relationship will be exactly the same and i feel so sad for you if that is the case now. Our childhoods follow us and you were raised by an abusive mother and it's clear that you surround yourself with abusive women. Perhaps you have broken this cycle and wherever you are and whatever you are doing, i hope you are very happy in your life. PEACE :)
Your post is so sad. I hope you are now happy and doing well :)
Idk what ur girlfriend was goin through, but she's a disgrace to girls
U seem like u're a very understanding and loving person. Find someone who deserves you for u are worth more than what u think
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tl:dr
To long didnt read
You have posted your thoughts in one Single Sentence, i.e "TO LONG
DIDNT READ"
I am unable to understand what you have in your mind. Kindly explain to me in detail.
HAVE A NICE DAY
RAMAKRISHNAN
Man his girlfriend is the same as my husband. Minus the drinking. Were seperated now, im much happier. Its happiness i never thought i could experience again. Yay!
This story is too long... If you love her, show her how much...
Oh my goodness i just read this i had an experience myself very similar to this a few years ago hopefully your doing better now and got this pathetic excuse of a human being and her horrible family out of your life!
Ick the other guys ass
I know u provaly wouldnt want to do this but thay girl is a girl that isnt sure wat she want u should just man up tell her ofc about how u fell and make her feel how u fell when she gets mad at u and move on in life knowing that thing happen for a reason man hope u find a girl that respects and loves u man good luck
Honest you should have RAN right after living with her parents a month and seeing that they were abusive. You should just break it off and find a nice girl around your age. You complained about her drinking too much so don't go to bars to look for girls ;) There is a lovely girl in this world for you. Defiantly not her if she won't try to defend you and is maybe sleeping with another guy. Hell by reading the stuff she does I'm more mature than she is and I'm only 18! Also that part where the mom was in your face...you should have roundhouse kicked her. Haha I know it would be bad but then she'd shut her trap at least.
If you do go back there GIVE THEM NO MORE THAN 20 DOLLARS!!!! Put every cent you can into having an apartment, of course get food and whatnot but don't buy stupid stuff.