natural vs enlarged….breasts…guys opinions only

I like natural breasts. And I dont like doing surgery. If you have smaller, perkier, lifted breasts I will suggest to keep them that way. Sure in future you will miss them :-)

Appreciate your bf for being honest and frank about his desire. Compensate that with something else. There should 101 ways to do it if you love him. All the best

Hye, in response to your query, I would like to first of all state the fact that smaller or moderate sized breasts are much sensitive to touch and offers much more pleasure during sexual actives, which is missed out in case of larger breasts. Second, There is no harm in going for implants but as far as one can avoid it, is the best. Moreover, larger breasts are not only appreciated by a majority of males, it also gives a high feeling of womanhood (feminity) and confidence to the carrier... so you should try to measure the benefits and decide...

i am someone who has implants...i did NOT do it for a man...i have 3 wonderful boys...take extremely good care of my body and after three pregnancies wanted to give myself a little gift for being such a wonderful mom and person...it's a personal choice and just be sure it's YOUR choice...my husband was supportive either way...it's for me first ..just my opinion! :-D

An opinion without posting your breast pics? KIDDING! Tell the man he needs penis enlargement surgery and see how he feels. I have a feeling you tend to choose the wrong type of man, the "bad boy". They may seem exciting but they are selfish and spoiled. Choose a "nice guy", he may be a bit boring but much better in the long term.

While I'm not of the male gender, as a lesbian I figure it's close enough.

I realize that the pressure of surgery, especially in order to keep a relationship can be overwhelming, however something like breast implants is a very big decision that should be your own.
Personally, I like breasts, real or fake.
If it's solely for yourself and your self esteem, go for it. I know cases in which women -good friends of mine- have had implants and they're all the more happier for it. But it wasn't a gift for somebody else, it was all for their own benefit.
I am of the opinion that that something as drastic as this shouldn't be influenced by your romantic partner. What if you and he don't stay together?
Not to mention there is the cost of the breasts as well as the maintenance, remember you have to go approximately every ten years to get new ones, do you think you'll be able to afford it in ten years, can you now without going into debt?
This being said, don't criminalize your boyfriend on expressing his thoughts, instead try to explain to him your thoughts and hesitations on the surgery.
Good luck on your decision.

Hi Jentsch, I'm a guy who likes small breasts, and I will let you in on something that I have discovered over the years. Most guys prefer small to medium sized breasts, despite all you see on TV, despite the fact that they say 'whoah' when they see some big ones. When I was young I used to think I was rare in preferring small ones, but it turns out that most guys I know (friends and work colleagues) prefer nice small ones to big ugly ones. They will still point out chicks with big knockers and make jokes and sounds of appreciation. If your boyfriend is one of those who find it so important for a girl to have large knockers, then really he should be finding someone else, not trying to change you. He should leave you so you can find someone else who will appreciate you for what you are.



Also you really need to think of yourself here - of what you want, not of what he wants. Are you going to be happy with bags of silicon inside you for the rest of your life. And if you get them taken out later, what are you left with? A pair of damaged saggy breasts with scars. Instead of the nice small natural breasts that you have now. And if you and this boyfriend break up, I think you'll find it a lot harder to find a new guy to accept scarred fake tits than one who will accept real natural feeling tits which are smaller or bigger or saggier than his perfect ideal.



Also, the fact that your boyfriend has told you you should have breast implants has probably contributed to you thinking your breasts are actually smaller than they are in comparison to everyone elses breasts. Remember he has high size expectations so even average sized breasts are probably 'small' to him. If you really look around at girls your age, you will see most young chicks breasts are not that big - and remember that most of them are probably wearing push up bras and that sort of thing too!



anyway it's been 2 years since you posted your original message and I hope you decided not to get surgery!

I can't stand breast implants. They're a great thing for cancer survivors if they choose to make use of the surgery. But me personally, I wouldn't care to date a woman who got implants just for cosmetic reasons. I love natural breasts and I prefer small to mid sized breasts. Small breasts age like a fine wine and tend to be appealing for decades. Large natural breasts or implants may look great with a woman's clothing on, they rarely look as good with her clothing off. Long live the natural A & B cup women of the world!

I like tits period

To hell with what your boyfriend thinks. What do you think? If you're not sure how you feel about it don't do it. Myself I love natural breasts of all sizes and shapes but I hate fake boobs with a passion. Breasts are supposed to be soft and jiggle not sit there like a rock on your chest.

Small and firm breasts any day.  They show a nice pair of areolae and nipples off in the most erotic fashion.  No matter what, don't destroy the most uniquely feminine and sensual features you were born with and take a health risk just to please someone who doesn't appreciate the whole package; you are more than just a pair of "lady lumps".

Sorry, but in my opinion this first statement is incorrect, all the women I have dated who had larger breast, said there breasts were more sensitive and it turned them on to have them touch etc.. But women I have dated with smaller breasts have had no sexual arousal associated with they're breasts at all. My current girlfriend freaks out every time I touch them because she says it tickles too much, (not in a pleasurable way) so I just avoid touching them, which kinda sucks, but I'm used to it. So my experience has been completely opposite to this.

It is so weird how women are so different than men sexually from women to women. Its frustrating. Each women has different ways to turn them on and some are so difficult to work out that you can barely get weekly sex. Others just demand sex on a daily basis, even if its just to please you (my preference of coarse). Whereas men pretty much all want the same things. Whether we admit it or not, we mostly want dirty sex, like in porn, lots of blowjobs and for the girl to offer kinky stuff. We just want our partners to be slutty in bed, but not in life.

Your man sounds like a jerk, but at least he is being honest. Because if he is saying that to you that means he badly desires larger breasts and will probably end up cheating eventually. Honestly I really believe that, the fact that he manipulates you to get breast implants says a LOT about his personality, morals and ethics. It is a clear indication (not a guarantee) of the possibility of future cheating. I can assure you that actually love trumps looks everyday, I would be questioning if the person actually loves you if they want you to change your looks. Your man probably watches heaps of porn with fake tits and then wants you to be like that. I used to find small boobs the hottest of all, then I preferred massive natural boobs (even if it meant the girls was kinda fat), now I just like a mix, but it kinda changes for me from time to time, its weird. But one of the hottest things I go for that will never change is if the girl has a petite body with a really nice big round bubble butt (like a bit to big for her body lol) and thick legs (not fat though), it doesn't matter what size the boobs are. But most of all its just a jerk move.

I had a mate that pressured his girlfriend into getting implants, he was such an id**t because she was already amazingly hot, I wouldn't have changed a thing. Anyways she went from like and A to a C and it didn't even make a difference to how attractive she was in my opinion. The small breasts she had suited her petite body. Anyway this same friend treated her like dirt most days, ended up becoming physically abusive, I also watched him cheat on her one night when we were out. Eventually after like 4 years of abuse the finally woke up and dumped his ass, I had also decided the dude was a tool and stopped talking to the clown as well. Pressure to get implants = Jerk boyfriend that doesn't really love you and watch's too much pron. Sorry but that's the blunt truth.

EXACTLY RIGHT- Duh

I wish I had read this when you posted it last year. I hope that it isn't too late. My answer: get a new boyfriend. His desire is indicative if his objectification of you.

I love women and enjoy them for who they are, and personal uniqueness is what the romance and enjoyment is all about. I love the breasts that came with the women I've loved. I love titties, don't get me wrong. But if that wasn't an attractive feature of the woman to begin with, maybe I wouldn't have been attracted to them? Small breasts are just as incredible as larger ones.

I agree. Your boyfriend should love for what you are, not the size of your breasts.