ALRIGHT IM A LITTLE WORRIED MAYBE ITS JUST ME.. BUT IVE GOTTEN TESTED WHEN I FIRST GOT PREGNATE FOR EVERYTHING I CAME OUT CLEAN. THEN I GOT TESTED FOR JUST CLAMYDIA AND GNORREHA. LAST YEAR AROUND DECMEBER.. THAT TOO CAME OUT NEGATIVE.. K WHEN I FIRST HAD MY BBY.. I SAW A BUMP ON MY BOYFRIENDS PENIS.. IT WAS WHERE HIS BALLS AND HIS penis MEET NOT ON THE HEAD OR SHAFT THE BUT BOTTOM PART WHERE THE BALLS AND penis ARE.. I TOLD HIM ABOUT IT AND HE SAID IT WAS FROM THE CONDOM AND IT WAS LIKE MAY-ISH JUNE SO IT WAS HOT AND HE SAID FORM THE HEAT.
.K I NEVER SEEN ANYTHING ANYMORE AND WE HAVE BEEN HAVING SEX UNPROTECTLY EVER SINCE THEN.. I GOT TESTED FOR HERPES LAST MONTH CUS I GOT A CUT AFTER HAVING SEX WITH HIM AND ME THINKING BACK ABOUT THAT BUMP GOT ME THINKING.. WELL MY HERPES TEST CAME BACK NEGATIVE FOR BOTH ONE AND TWO OF THE SIMPLEX VIRUS. I NEVER HAVE ANY SORES OR BUMPS ON MY VAGINA EVER EXCEPT THAT ONE TIME WITH HAVING SEX IT WAS KINDA ROUGH SO THAT WAS I GUESS THAT WAS THE CAUSE..BUT OTHER THEN THAT I DONT HAVE ANYTHING THAT JUST APPEARS ON ITS OWN LIKE HERPES WOULD..
.MY QUESTION IS COULD MY BOYFRIEND HAVE SOMETHING AND US HAVE SEX WITH VISABLE BUMPS OR LESIONS AND NOT PASS ANYTHING TO ME?? I NOE YOU CAN PASS HERPES WITHOUT HAVING ANY SYMPTOMS AND ME MYSELF NOT HAVE SYMPTOMS AND STILL HAVE IT.. BUT IS IT POSSIBLE TO PASS IT TO ME AND HAVE A NEGATIVE RESULT WITH A BLOOD TEST?? IM KINDA FREAKED OUT TO HAVE SEX WITH HIM NOW CUS I SAW A RED BUMP LOOKING THING AGAIN TOWARDS HIS SACK AREA AND IT WASNT OPENED IT KINDA LOOKED LIKE AN INGROWN HAIR.. I ASKED HIM ABOUT IT AND HE SAID HE GETS THOSE CUS OF US HAVING SEX AND HIM NOT TAKING SHOWERS RIGHT AFTER.. WELL ACTUALLY HE DOESNT TAKE A SHOWER FOR A COUPLE OF DAYS AFTER SEX!!!! GROSS I NOE BUT COULD THIS ALSO BE POSSIABLE JUST CUS OF HIM NOT TAKING A SHOWER RIGHT AWAY LIKE AN CLOGGED PORE OR SOMETHING..
IVE ONLY SAW ONE SINGLE BUMP TOWARDS THE SACK AREA.. AND FOR HIM TO SEE IT HE HAS TO LIKE LIFT HIS BALLS AND M0VE HIS penis TO THE SIDE AND GRAB THE SKIN TO SEE IT... SO WOULD THAT BE CONDISDERED HIS penis OR BALLS?? IM REALLY CONCERNED.. WHENEVER I MENTION IT TO HIM HE BLOWS IT OFF AND SAYS IM CRAZY AND SINCE I HAD A NEGATIVE RESULT HOW THE HELL COULD HE HAVE SOMETHING AND I DONT... SOMEONE GIVE ME SO FEEDBACK IM I JUST TRIPPING>??? ? ? o.O
.K I NEVER SEEN ANYTHING ANYMORE AND WE HAVE BEEN HAVING SEX UNPROTECTLY EVER SINCE THEN.. I GOT TESTED FOR HERPES LAST MONTH CUS I GOT A CUT AFTER HAVING SEX WITH HIM AND ME THINKING BACK ABOUT THAT BUMP GOT ME THINKING.. WELL MY HERPES TEST CAME BACK NEGATIVE FOR BOTH ONE AND TWO OF THE SIMPLEX VIRUS. I NEVER HAVE ANY SORES OR BUMPS ON MY VAGINA EVER EXCEPT THAT ONE TIME WITH HAVING SEX IT WAS KINDA ROUGH SO THAT WAS I GUESS THAT WAS THE CAUSE..BUT OTHER THEN THAT I DONT HAVE ANYTHING THAT JUST APPEARS ON ITS OWN LIKE HERPES WOULD..
.MY QUESTION IS COULD MY BOYFRIEND HAVE SOMETHING AND US HAVE SEX WITH VISABLE BUMPS OR LESIONS AND NOT PASS ANYTHING TO ME?? I NOE YOU CAN PASS HERPES WITHOUT HAVING ANY SYMPTOMS AND ME MYSELF NOT HAVE SYMPTOMS AND STILL HAVE IT.. BUT IS IT POSSIBLE TO PASS IT TO ME AND HAVE A NEGATIVE RESULT WITH A BLOOD TEST?? IM KINDA FREAKED OUT TO HAVE SEX WITH HIM NOW CUS I SAW A RED BUMP LOOKING THING AGAIN TOWARDS HIS SACK AREA AND IT WASNT OPENED IT KINDA LOOKED LIKE AN INGROWN HAIR.. I ASKED HIM ABOUT IT AND HE SAID HE GETS THOSE CUS OF US HAVING SEX AND HIM NOT TAKING SHOWERS RIGHT AFTER.. WELL ACTUALLY HE DOESNT TAKE A SHOWER FOR A COUPLE OF DAYS AFTER SEX!!!! GROSS I NOE BUT COULD THIS ALSO BE POSSIABLE JUST CUS OF HIM NOT TAKING A SHOWER RIGHT AWAY LIKE AN CLOGGED PORE OR SOMETHING..
IVE ONLY SAW ONE SINGLE BUMP TOWARDS THE SACK AREA.. AND FOR HIM TO SEE IT HE HAS TO LIKE LIFT HIS BALLS AND M0VE HIS penis TO THE SIDE AND GRAB THE SKIN TO SEE IT... SO WOULD THAT BE CONDISDERED HIS penis OR BALLS?? IM REALLY CONCERNED.. WHENEVER I MENTION IT TO HIM HE BLOWS IT OFF AND SAYS IM CRAZY AND SINCE I HAD A NEGATIVE RESULT HOW THE HELL COULD HE HAVE SOMETHING AND I DONT... SOMEONE GIVE ME SO FEEDBACK IM I JUST TRIPPING>??? ? ? o.O
If your boyfriend has a bump like that, he needs to get tested as well. Tell him that you will not have sex with im again (because you can still get infected) until he has it looked at. It may turn out to be nothing, but this is someone you are having sex with. He should not put you in harm's way! Would you be able to do that?
THATS WHAT I TELL HIM BUT HES SO STUBBORN IT REDICKOULUS.. HE SAYS HE NOES THAT HE DOESNT HAVE ANYTHING AND IF I DONT BELIVE HIM WE DONT HAVE TO HAVE SEX!! THAT I MAKE HIM FEEL UGLY BOUT SAYING THAT HE HAS BUMPS DOWN THERE!! HES WIERD!! ANYWAYS IVE BEEN LOOKING ON THE NET AND IT KINDA LOOKS SIMILAR TO SEBACEOUS CYSTS.. AND FORDYCE SPOTS ON THE LOWER SHAFT AREA TOWARDS THE SROTOM WHERE THE HAIR GROWS INTO IT.. COULD THESE HAIR FOLLICES GET INFECTED?? HE DOESNT HAVE THEM ALL THE TIME WELL THE FORDYCE SPOTS HE DOES.. COULD THEY JUST BE PIMPLES ON THE SROTOM?? HE SAYS THEY DONT HURT SCAB OR WEEP.. AND THEY POP LIKE A PIMPLE AND GO AWAY WITHING A COUPLE OF DAYS..
Alessia, seriously, please stop havings ex with this man. He doesn't respect you enough to get tested and he could be infecting you with something. Can you please promise me that you will stop until he gets tested? I think it's very important that ou don't.
im not promise!! we broke up.. but what i dont understand is why do i have a negative test if ive been having sex with him for over two years now and he said that he has had sex with me when he had a pimple.. if he slept with me while having a disease shouldnt my test come out positive.. i mean its been a year ago since i saw that pimple so anti-bodies whould have already shown up right?? if im clean doesnt that mean he is to??? espically having sex without condoms??
Not necessarily. He could have an infection but you may have gotten lucky. Plus some people are naturally resistant (well, very few) and I've seen instances where only half a couple will get an STD. Does that make sense?
you mean like one has it and the other doesnt?? well im making an appointment with my gyno.. and hes decided to get tested himself as well even though he thinks im crazy but he knows it will make me feel better.. ill let you noe the turn out of everything thanks for listening..
Thanks so much. Yeah, sometimes, a partner can have it while the other doesn't. But getting tested will at least give ou peace of mind--and it doesn't hurt to hvae it done anyway!
It doesnt mean it's anything lots of guys have it without it being a sexual disease.