My boyfriend is always masturbating to porn on the internet but wont have sex with me even though he knows I am always wanting it. He tells me to go and shower and get ready then he falls asleep and about 2 hours or so later I find him masturbating to porn on the internet. Even then he still wont have sex with me. I feel that something is wrong with with me and now I am leaving him because of this. Can you help???
Hi Lyn,
NOTHING is wrong with you, nothing. It's his problem.
He may like to masturbate because it's "easier" than having sex. Or, maybe he just doesn't like having sex. He could also be addicted to porn.
Leave him. Find someone that will spend time with you and not with his computer.
Good luck.
Yeah, if this is a problem that has happened over and over, time to move on. If it is just once, give him a chance, but that doesn't sound like the case.
Thanks for the reply. It really helped