Omg, that's crazy. I have the same thing, my right... It's really weird. I'm 16 and have a steady boyfriend. I'm a virgin, and sometimes I feel weird when he fingers me, but he seems to just get on and do it and enjoy it.. We're pretty open sexually, and it hasn't come up. I'm a bit nervous for when we're actually ready for sex, I don't know what he'll think. To be honest though, I think I'll just be confident with what I have. It doesn't cause me any bother anyway. :-)
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i am the same as well. they both grew during puberty but one became longer than the other and i was very paranoid about it for a long time. i also thought about cutting it off myself. i always had to have sex in the dark. but i've had sex with 7 people now, 3 of whom have seen me in all my womanly-ness and they don't think anything of it. one of them actually loves my vagina and he is a professional piercer so you know he's seen many vaginas.
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I had d same prob. My left labia is quite bigger dan d right n since i'm a hostelite, i often face urinary infection whch swells my labia. Itz vei difficult 2 put on my panties n dat i put on tight jeans sumtyms meks it difficult 2 walk. Bt den my boyfrnd neva had a problem wid dat n neva complaind. I dont bothr bout it, i thnk its so normal n harmless.
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i have the same problem!! im so glad im not the only one. and everything everyone said hear i completely considered because its so weird and odd to have. but now that i know i am definitely not the only one with the same concerns and such i actually feel a lot more comfortable with it. i am still a virgin because im afraid of what the guy would say if he noticed. some people said that their partners really didn't care so i probably shouldn't worry about it
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i have the same problem but its ok because i have a boyfriend that doesn't even care that much about it. Mine is on the right side and its always bothered me. When me and my boyfriend started to get sexual it was really nerve racking when he started to go down on me and feeling in that area. He doesnt even care and i started to not really care. I dont think that surgery should be an option because its you and who you are... why change because you dont feel normal? What is normal? I ask myself that everyday and came to the conclusion that there is no such thing as normal, and that we must love what we have because not alot of people are blessed with what we have.
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im so relieved! i just asked my mom lol but she said its normal, everyone has something different about them that they dont like. but its awkward lol. thank you so much i feel way better now!
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Yup!
I have this too, and have had since about puberty. The only problem with it (apart from being shy about what guys will think), is that it 'gets out' and rubs on my underwear. So long as it's inside the labia majora, though, it's not a problem.
No one should get surgery for this unless it's becoming too much of an irritation. If guys have a problem with it, then it's just that - *their* problem. If someone told you to get your breasts done, would you? Even a small operation as it would be is a big step, and I'd rather not have anyone cutting at my gentiles, thankyou!
I have this too, and have had since about puberty. The only problem with it (apart from being shy about what guys will think), is that it 'gets out' and rubs on my underwear. So long as it's inside the labia majora, though, it's not a problem.
No one should get surgery for this unless it's becoming too much of an irritation. If guys have a problem with it, then it's just that - *their* problem. If someone told you to get your breasts done, would you? Even a small operation as it would be is a big step, and I'd rather not have anyone cutting at my gentiles, thankyou!
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hey dont worry im the same but with my left . Its not only that but all the skin on that side is baggy too. I heard that you can get plastic surgery to "cut it to size".
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I finally decided to look this up, and im NOT the only one. Great! My boyfriend and I are getting serious, and things could go farther between us.. and because of this problem, im hesitant. especially because he brought it up about some girl he knew or saw that had the same thing and he thought it was so gross.. so now im a little nervous.. but.. its just natural, i cant help it, right?
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I finally decided to look this up, and im NOT the only one. Great! My boyfriend and I are getting serious, and things could go farther between us.. and because of this problem, im hesitant. especially because he brought it up about some girl he knew or saw that had the same thing and he thought it was so gross.. so now im a little nervous.. but.. its just natural, i cant help it, right?
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I have the same problem, except mine got bigger after sexual intercourse. Is that normal? Should I see a doctor?
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Ladies, it only matters if it bothers you. As a guy I'm inclined to believe that whatever you bring is worth enjoying. Who would want you to come from some genetic cookie cutter. If the woman we are with has large labia, learn to enjoy large labia. If they are recessed, learn to appreciate that. They are a part of you and should be admired, appreciated and complimented as such. We like your stuff and the mystery that surrounds it. Enjoy yourselves. :-)
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I too have this problem. and i dont like it one bit. i am very self concious because none of my other friends have it, and theirs seem "normal" but i guess if im not the only one then is it really abnormal? i mean i know every girl is different but its still nothing to be proud of, i propbably have looked at 500000 labiaplasty sites and seeing the results really makes me want to get it, but ther is no way i could afford that i just with that i actually was like everyone elsee...
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wow! thank goodness i found this! my left one is like, HUGE compared to the right. i just woke up one morning like a year ago and it was like this... im 16 now and lost my virginity to my bf 2 years ago.. even though it might be weird to us... i dont think men care all that much. ive been kind of avoiding having sex in the day time because of it. after reading through this site i finally told my boyfriend why and he said "well i like it. and if thats the reason you dont like showing it anymore than thats stupid. you dont have to be embarrassed babe."
so i guess it doesnt bother him! :)
i definitely dont have the guts to cut it off myself haha but im considering surgery when i get older... it would definitely make me feel better about myself!
so i guess it doesnt bother him! :)
i definitely dont have the guts to cut it off myself haha but im considering surgery when i get older... it would definitely make me feel better about myself!
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omg, i was always so scared that there was something wrong but now i feel so much better. ive had a swollen right labia minora since i started puberty. it never hurts or anything but its really irritating to have. im 16 & still a virgin, me & my boyfriend(who is also a virgin) have been wanting to take it further(meaning sex) but im so scared & embarassed about what hes gonna think of me. should i see a doctor, or is it really nothing to worry about?
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