You girls are crazy for thinking protruding or uneven labia minora are ugly or a turn off. Youve not even reached your sexual peak yet! Let me give you a clue. Men like naked...fat naked, skinny naked, dark naked, light naked. Men like vaginas...small ones, big ones, long ones, short ones, shaved ones, hairy ones! I cannot believe any of you would consider cutting off a body part because you don't look the same as the porn c**p you see. How about you look at other threads here and read what the men have to say about it...From what I see, the majority actually prefer longer lips...do you want to look like a 12 year old?!?! ugh no thanks...
Trust me when I say that you don't know what it's all about until you've reached your 30's. Everyone is different and YOU ARE NORMAL! Enjoy your unique body. (besides, most boys your age don't know what to do with it anyway xD )
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I have the exact same problem. my left side is substantially larger than my right and it is visible just looking at my naked vagina. I have been so self conscious about it for years, I was so afraid of sex or having a guy finger me or do any kind of oral because I thought he would be freaked out or disgusted. I have definitely considered cutting it off because I don't have many nerves in it and can hardly even feel pinching it, but that could've lead to infection or worse so I'm glad I chose not too. I have a long term boyfriend and the first time we had sex he asked me about it and I was so embarrassed but I said that all girls have different ones and mine just happen to be like that. HE WAS COMPLETELY FINE WITH IT! He is not at all bothered by it and it doesn't effect our sex life at all. I think that I might still get the surgery one day just to make me feel better about it personally, but if you have a partner who is not okay with your body the way it is, then you shouldn't be with them because there is someone out there who will love you exactly how you are even with your imperfections.
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OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I HAVE HAD THE SAME PROBLOM!!!!! and guess what... IM ONLY 13!!!!!!!!!!! And their huge!!! i didnt tell my best friend and when i told her about that she started saying how hers is "tight" and "fresh".. and said that that kind is lookse, jiggly and unattractive! i got so uncomfterable! i considered saving up money to get the surgery! and i still am.. a little.... but i hope guys find it attractive because my worst fear would be to be in the midle of "doing it" and then him stopping and saying "gross"! i wouold totaally freak. but these comments helped me feel more comfterable in my own skin! thanks guys <3
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I'm so happy I'm not the only one! I'm a teenager and I have become aware recently and I thought I was diseased or something, I'm so relieved that its quite normal!!!
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I've just being reading the comments, a lot of people have this? My led vagina lip is a lot bigger that the right lip? It as if the left lip has an extra lip attached if you understand I am only 14 and it's distracting my I have to tuck t in when putting pants on as it hang low and distracts me when I walk, I'm at a young age and not like anyone else I'm embarrassed:'( I want it gone but I'm up young for surgery:/ ive cried over it and told my bestfriend and my man? what can I do, someone please give me some advice?
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IT"S NORMAL>>>>> I'm happy to see I'm not the only one. I, not being a virgin, and happy that I have it. it makes me different than all the, "Perfect Lipped PornStars" out there. xD Besides My man has never said anything and loves playing with it so.. RELAX>> Just be yourself.. It is anoyying when it gets irritated but other than that we are all perfectly normal girls. In reality we have something extra that other girls don't, if you think about it. Besides, for those of you who have done things with your partner you can probably say that A OVER SIZED LABIA is the laaaast thing on their minds ladies. ;D
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Yeah my left one is bigger than my right. it gets really irritated. It kind of hurts too sometimes. Should i get it checked out? Im really too embarrassed to tell anyone about it. Can you cut it off yourself? Someone please reply. Thank you, Guest
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jeez i cant believe im not alone! i havnt said a word to anyone about it because in so ashamed of it. thank u so much for being brave enough to bring it up all of u guys have made me feel a bit better about who i am now thanks to everybody!
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thank God this website exists. We are all different. Glad there are options, but more happy to see this a NORMAL variation. Who ever we each end up with love the whole LADY. And just think, if your man loves it great. If he doesnt and he disrespects you for it, you have the power to say " Whatever man" and leave him! Dont think of guys leaving you, think of you leaving them bc they arent good enough. If a man is going to have an uneven vag be the "deal breaker", well then, I'd guess he's probably doing a few other things that are "deal breakers" for YOU. Who cares what guys talk about in their guy worlds. I've been around that c**p for years and its just that, c**p. They are superficial in groups, so disregard what comes up at those times, maybe ask your BF if something that was said bothers you, but really, men say the worst things. Its like they are an inferior species...lol..which is great to realize, bc it gives us more confidence and control over our thoughts. Its rare, but they exist: a good man you want to hang out with will be respectful and kind.
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I'm glad that I'm not the only one I found out that on my right side one is bigger when I was 15 and I'm now 18 and still a little cautious about it even though a guy has gone down on me and wasn't bothered at all by it. I normally tuck it in seeing as its uncomfortable when I leave it out. I actually thought I wasn't normal but I'm glad to know that some women have it too, I'm glad I found this site :)
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My one side was longer than the other and then I started pulling on the short one a little bit and it stretched it so now the two are even. Didn't hurt at all. I think that's how the first one got long in the first place too, but I wish I hadn't done it at all. Anyone hating that they don't match could give that a try, but be careful how far you go. Now both of mine stick out past the lips and they stick together. It makes sex hard, I have to reach down and unstick them before my boyfriend can get inside.
Just tonight, while trimming, my scissors slipped and I snipped a small part off the end of one of them. Took a few seconds before it started hurting, but now it does, and from reading other boards on cuts and knicks down there it looks like I'm in for a painful week or so while it heals. I had long since considered asking my doctor about surgery to shorten them, and often wondered if I could do it myself because they are pretty thin and pretty purple toward their ends, so not too too much blood, but knew it was a dumb idea to do myself (and now with this recent accident, I've reaffirmed that - ouch!). Still thinking about asking my doctor about surgery though, I hate that it makes sex feel like a clinical procedure and less like a loving melding of two bodies.
Just tonight, while trimming, my scissors slipped and I snipped a small part off the end of one of them. Took a few seconds before it started hurting, but now it does, and from reading other boards on cuts and knicks down there it looks like I'm in for a painful week or so while it heals. I had long since considered asking my doctor about surgery to shorten them, and often wondered if I could do it myself because they are pretty thin and pretty purple toward their ends, so not too too much blood, but knew it was a dumb idea to do myself (and now with this recent accident, I've reaffirmed that - ouch!). Still thinking about asking my doctor about surgery though, I hate that it makes sex feel like a clinical procedure and less like a loving melding of two bodies.
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Oh my god i am the same way. My left one is bigger than my right one, its like my right one isn't even there and my left is taking over. And it scares the hell out of me cause im like this is not normal. I am so glad this isn't just me!
I have never masterbated in my life and it is still like this and i don't understand why. And its so embarrassing, i hate hwen guys touch me down there because im like oh my god im f*****g messed up and it makes me scared. Thats naother reason i won't let any guy go down on my because they will freak out and be like, see ya
I have never masterbated in my life and it is still like this and i don't understand why. And its so embarrassing, i hate hwen guys touch me down there because im like oh my god im f*****g messed up and it makes me scared. Thats naother reason i won't let any guy go down on my because they will freak out and be like, see ya
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I think EVERYONE should check out the site called sexy labia AND female with images. Please please check them out. I was SO self conscious about my labia minora because the right is large and hangs out. I would tuck it in. I have never ever thought about cutting it off but being 15 your bound to have sexual contact and although I'm hesitant..confidence is key. An also, the female with images.. It explains why it's dark in color.
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wait so the left labia being larger and darker doesnt mean i have a disease or cervical cancer? its normal?
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