Hello, i'll try to be as clear/fast as possible; I really need your help.
- Info : 18yo Male. Never had sex or smth more than kissing. Masturbates aprox 5 times a week.(decreasing with this problem)
- Problem : After I ejaculate, the next erection in less than 8h will hurt A LOT. Peeing during that time is also really painfull.
- What I know : Not related to how long i masturbate or if i do it gentle/hard (i've tried everything). also, if i masturbate (even for a long period of time) but i dont ejaculate, the pain wont be there on the next erection. Im 99% sure its directly related with sperm or the act of ejaculation.
- Additional information : The pain feels like a lot of pressure, mainly on the head, which looks redish and the lower part (like the head border-thing) bigger. If i 'bounce' it while having one of these second erections, the lower part of the shaft will hurt like hell (wont happen on first erections). I've had this problem since i started ejaculating, if i recall correctly
- Conclusion : I really need your help. I searched online and i only find people with the same/similar problem but not a single solution. Thanks for reading (ended up a little bit long)
Hey there sorry to hear of your issue. It is a bit confusing and I am not totally sure what could cause it . It sounds like tissues are being strained/stretches and almost bruised and if not given enough time to recover say less than 8hours you get pain. How large or hard does your penis get? Are your ejaculations powerful ? Is there usually a large volume of semen ejaculated?
Hello, thanks for the answer!
I dont really know how to qualify my erections, i can tell its aprox 10cm flacid and about 16cm when erect. Refering to hardnes...i guess its okay :/ there's 0 pain if i havent ejaculated before and it doesnt feel like if it was 'too hard'.
I'm also a little bit confused when it comes to quantify ejaculation. They are powerfull, i believe, it goes out quite fast. It surprises me how clear my semen is, compared to the super-white one in porn. The quantity of it looks normal. It's not a flood but neither too little.
If you want some extra information, i tend to edge when masturbating, but tried to retain myself from doing that in order to fix this problem. Didnt work.
Maybe its related to semen that stays in the urethra? Nornally i drip some after ejaculation for some minutes
Thanks for your time :)
Some more information! My erections have a slight curve downwards, like it comes out perpendicular to my body and arches a little bit down. I assume that 'normal' penis arches up? Thats what i've heard. Also im uncut, and had some trouble when i was little pulling it back, but now it retracts easly when flacid and a little bit more tight when erect, kind of discomforting if it stays 'trapped' pressuring the head when erect. When i give it some action down there, i move my foreskin up and down, most of time i dont go all the way down the glans, but no problem if i do. I dont use lube.
Im just trying to give all the info i can, i've talked this with really close friends and i know its not normal :(
Your penis actually sounds normal to me!!! They come in all shapes and sizes. Some stick straight out some curve up some down some to the left and some to the right. It does seem to me that the "heavier" penises that are longer and thicker seem to curve down more often than thinner smaller ones but it's not always the case. As for your semen color it actually can very quite a bit. From clearish to very milky white or yellowish. Some is more watery others thicker. You should never compare yourselves to what you see in porn. There are a lot of tricks they do t make things look bigger or different colors or amounts. Do you notice any changes in the pain or semen based of your diet or the amount of water you drink? How much water do you think you drink on average and do you drink energy drinks?
I think my diet is good and I haven't changed it like...never.. Since my parents get to to all the cooking, I have to eat all variety of foods. I think it's not diet related, i eat more or less the same things as my friends and they don't have this awful problem.
In some of my eternal researches on the internet about this, i've found people talking about hydration. I dont eat energy drinks except for some Cokes, maybe 2-3 per week (some weeks even 0). I just drink when i'm thirsty and i always have some water close to me. Since I read this thing about hydration, I tend to force myself a little bit more on drinking water (nothing excessive). What other symptoms would dehydration have? my pee isn't strong yellow like when you haven't drink much.
This just reminded me of some extra info! When i pee after having ejaculated, foam is created.
PD: I'm really thankful for your time, for real. Let's see if we can get to the end of this!
**Sorry if i don't explain myself really well, english is not my main lenguage.