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Oh thank god there are others who have been through this!

My period was due on Monday and I had agonising period pains suggesting that my period would soon arrive. It's now Thursday and there's no sign of bleeding, even though I have slight cramps. I'm so scared I'm pregnant and I'm doing a test tomorrow, even though my boyfriend and I are really careful and use condoms. I have been extremely worried over something else this week so I'm wondering if it is stress/anxiety related. I don't mind not having a period, I could happily skip the horrible thing every month, I just really don't want to be pregnant.
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Wow I'm so glad other people have been through the same thing.

I've got all the symptoms of starting my period but...NO BLOOD!
I do have a boyfriend but we've never ever had sex, I'm only 14.
I'm thinking my period is just off by a week because school has started and I'm really stressed out. Also, last month my period was quite late. So I think the cycle is just changing a little bit.
I'm gonna see a gynecologist anyway just to make sure.

Speaking of which, my cramps are flaring up now so hopefully it'll start soon.

Good luck to everyone else!
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i completely agree im in the same boat! i need to kno whats going on or if this is bad?
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Ok wow, no body has answered as to why this is going on with all of us! My periods have been crazy since I had my baby ex. 28, 31, 32, 33 days. I'm about a week late, everything is exactly the same except no bleeding. I did have unprotected sex, but this feels nothing like pregnancy did. I just went through a bad breakup & was pretty stressed out the week that my period should've been so I'm hoping that maybe my body decided that the period was less important. I don't know!!
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Ok....I totally have been having all the symptoms of a period...headaches, cramps, bloating, and fatigue... Problems is, I started my period when I was about 11. I am now 13. I have not had my period since Febuary of this year. I have went to a doc. but they have not told me anything. Also, my headaches are starting to get so bad! They will last for hours at a time..... HELP!!!!!!! %-) :-(
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Wow...Same problem here. In 10 years I've never missed a period. All of a sudden this year it started to be off. I feel like I should have it for like the past 4 days but no signs of it. I keep telling my b/f it's because of stress. This month has been extremely stressful. I really hope that is it! I feel better hearing other people having the same problem.
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Okay, so my period has been crazy the past 5 years.
I was normal until I got on the pill. Then I got all messed up and I was going 6-8 months at a time without a period.
Then I went to the doc and found out I have PCOS. (Poly-cystic overian syndrom). Well I got back on birth control to give me a period again, which worked, but I stopped it after a month because I wanted to get pregnant and the pill makes me gain weight. (I gained 40 lbs in only 3 months)
Well I started taking Metformin for about a month but that was making me sick. My periods were kinda normal for a while, I'd be late and not know when I'd get my period, that kinda thing... but August and September I got my period around the same time, and then I didn't get it in October, and now it's the middle of November and I have cramps and bloating and feeling nauseated. I am not stressed out. I haven't had sex in 2 months because my fiance is out of the country until next month. I want my period to just come right now so that when I am visiting him in London next week, we can try for a baby.
This is so frustrating. I hate my body for all the drama it is causing me.
I don't know why I do not have my period, but I have cramps and pressure down there.
I am so sick of this game.
Somebody... Anybody... Advice??
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Hi All,

I am 5 days late for my already irregular period. We have been trying for a baby and I am anxious to start trying again since my HPT just came up negative. Does anyone have any information about when we can start the process again?
Thanks, I am so frustrated!
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Thank goodness there are more women with my same problem!! I'm only 16 and my boyfriend and I have had sex about 5 times since my last period, we use condoms and withdrawl at the same time, and are very cautious about all of it. My period is just 2 days late, but I'm beginning to panic! I've been searching everywhere to find ways to figure out if I'm pregnant or not. I have slight cramping (not the usual, horrid pains), moodiness, headaches, somewhat nautious, but I do not have sore breasts, no voluntary light bleeding, no regurgitating. I have been extremely stressed out these past few weeks, and I haven't been eating so well either :( I'm so glad there are more ladies sharing the same problem!! I pray that we'll all be alright!
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I am so thankful for this forum for the past two weeks I thought I was about to have my cycle. Cramps zits, mood swings, bloating... I had tampons on me at all times. Last night I thought something was wrong so I googled it. And found out I could be pregnant the thought didn't even cross my mind I thought I would start my period. Today I took a hpt it came back positive so I took two more all positive! So thank god for forums like this... And good luck to everyone!
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Hi all. I started the search because of the triumphs that I've endured over the past few weeks and it led me here. I have been experiencing cramps, bloating, and mood swings since the 9th of April. Here it is the end of April and I still have not had my period although the symptoms continue to lurk upon me. I took HPT's and all of them resulted in negative conclusions. I am very worried as to what may be happening to my body. Now I know that it may be stress being as though I am a college student, but I've been more stressed in other situations than now and I've never had anything like this happen. I read the food comment from another woman, but I highly doubt that is my issue due to the fact that I only eat grilled food, salads, and things like apple sauce. Don't get me wrong, I do have my occasional chocolate. I am happy to know that I am nt the only woman experiencing this. Hopefully we will find an answer.
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Well for the most part I've been having the same symptoms. I'm 17 years old and I've been having irregular periods for years. I do have an active sex life with my long term boyfriend. I've been getting cramps and achy muscles since the ending of last month but to no avail. It's the 3rd of the following month and I've yet to bleed. I fear that I could be pregnant but I gain a little comfort in knowing I'm not the only one suffering from this.
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Hi, i stumbled upon this post looking for some answers. my girlfriend has been experiencing period like symptoms, but unlike her norm. she usually doesn't get tender breasts or very bad cramping. These and more are now happening, but no bleeding (she tells me). I was afraid because many of these same symptoms are the same for pregnancy. She has taken 4 different HPT and all came out neg. but im still worried, searching the web i haven't found a clear answer to this but i will keep an eye on this post. i wish all of you the best of luck :-)
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I am sooo relieved to see that I am not alone or going crazy! I am only 16 and my boy friend and I always use condoms. But sometimes we fool around without one for a few minutes. Only a tiiiiny little amount of time. Anyways, I heard that if a guy cums once already, there could still be sperm inside his premature ejackulation, so I am absolutely terrified. I am having all the symptomes of my period but no blood. I have cramps, horrible migranes, and some back pain. I have extra discharge and I don't know how to explain it. I am losing my head over thinking I'm pregnant and wondering why it's late, that I'm hoping it's just late because of stress. I haven't taken a HPT yet but I think I'll buy one tomorrow. I am so scared. I don't know what to do. I wish someone would have some answers for us! this is rediculous! :-( I'm so scared :-(
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scaredtodeath69, I am in the same situation as you. I am 15 years old and my long term boyfriend and I use the same sexual methods as you described.

I am going through the same thing. Cramps, bloating, fatigue, sore boobs...no period!!!! I am so disappointed the web has no extra info on this. I do not have a gyno that I regularly go to and I feel so weird talking about this to my mother---she doesn't even know I'm sexually active!!

I'm afraid I could be pregnant but that would shatter my whole life and complicate it so much...although it would be a blessing in disguise.

HELP!!!!!!
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