I feel so relieved women can have healthy pregnancies after abortion. I was very unsure and scared from some things I have read!
thanks.
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I recently had an abortion, but now I think I did it purely because I was freaking out about everything. Are these feelings normal after abortion? Do people look back and think they were just too panicked over the whole situation? Anyway, I now want to try and get pregnant with my boyfriend (soon to be husband) again asap. When can we start trying?
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Ames, I recommend waiting to have a baby until after you are married. Enjoy married life. Children change everything. Trust me on this! Enjoy your role as wife, and enjoy your husband.
Anyway, i had an abortion after I already had my son mainly because I knew I couldn't afford another baby without a father. I was already on public assistance, and I wanted better for the son I already had. Do I think about it? Sure, but at the time, it was the right thing for ME to do. All you can do is move forward, and realize the past stays in the past. Think about your future with your husband :-)
Anyway, i had an abortion after I already had my son mainly because I knew I couldn't afford another baby without a father. I was already on public assistance, and I wanted better for the son I already had. Do I think about it? Sure, but at the time, it was the right thing for ME to do. All you can do is move forward, and realize the past stays in the past. Think about your future with your husband :-)
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Hi, i'm 25 i have just found out i am pregnant, but i do not wish to continue this pregnancy, as i had a hard time splitting up with my ex the past month or so, i've taken drugs and drank alot of alcohol, plus i have been ill and was on a range of antibiotics - which is the reason for me wanting to terminate - BUT I DO WANT A BABY!!! I want to try again as soon as i have had the abortion and do things right, can anyone tell me the best time to start after an abortion? Thanks - BTW, me and my ex are back together now and have made all decisions together!!
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bexx wrote:
It isn't pro-life I would say...more so pro-responsibility....pro-intelligence...and maybe a little anti-stupidity. Abortions should be a last resort to a necessity to terminate a pregnancy for whatever reasons...not the first line of defense against irresponsibility.
thanks for your open-mindedness, hhr. how helpful of you to come on to a health advice forum to spew your pro-life propaganda and your "original" views on the topic of abortion. Gosh thankfully your mother decided to keep you! Look at the contribution she made to the world!
It isn't pro-life I would say...more so pro-responsibility....pro-intelligence...and maybe a little anti-stupidity. Abortions should be a last resort to a necessity to terminate a pregnancy for whatever reasons...not the first line of defense against irresponsibility.
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I have to agree, having three abortions in less than one year seems a little ridiculous. I had my first (and last) abortion at the end of October, and it was the most physically and emotionally draining time I've ever been through. At the time my boyfriend and I were only using condoms; however, after my abortion I went on birth control and we still use condoms EVERY SINGLE time we have sex. If you don't want to get pregnant why wouldn't you use every single line of defense to make sure that it doesn't happen again?!? It's really not that hard to be responsible.
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I had an abortion 7 years ago when I was 17 (I'm now 24). I'm not planning on even thinking about having children for another few years but when I do I can't help but be afraid that there will be complications or the baby won't be healthy when it's born. Does anyone know of any statistics about babies born after an abortion?
Also, a little off topic, does anyone have any insight on promiscuity after abortion as well as low sex drive after abortion?
Thanks in advance for any advice!
Also, a little off topic, does anyone have any insight on promiscuity after abortion as well as low sex drive after abortion?
Thanks in advance for any advice!
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Hi, I have had 2 abortions, the first about 2 years ago and the 2nd 6months later! I would like to point out that i was NOT irresponsible as the first time i had the implant and the second i was using the patch! both of these proved ineffective! I have been with my partner for almost 4 years and we both decided that it wasnt the right time to have a baby as i already have a now 4year old! I have just found out i am pregnant again! This time it is planned after having an IUD removed (this was put in after my 2nd abortion as all other contraception fails)! We are very happy i am pregnant after only having my IUD removed 3 weeks ago!!! If anyone has any advice about side affects that my previous 2 abortions may have on this pregnancy i would be very grateful!
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p.s Abortions are performed for a reason, they are there for a reason! Sometimes you can try everything not to become pregnant but believe it or not, these things happen!!!!
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p.s Abortions are performed for a reason, they are there for a reason! Sometimes you can try everything not to become pregnant but believe it or not, these things happen!!!!
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What makes you so much better than any these women to disrespect them like this and called them names. If you really think about your life i'm sure you can think of a few things that you've done which could sent you to hell. I don't believe your name is God. I feel very sorry for your girlfriend to have to be with some one so judgemental and inconsiderate and small minded as you. I wonder how you would feel if you were the one pregnant. This is not the page to voice your opinion. Please do it else where.
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hhrlover06 wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
this year i got pregnant in mar and had an abortion, then i got pregnant again this year in july and had a second abortion in at the end of sept, its the end of nov right now and i am pregnant again
What the hell is wrong with people! SEX CAUSES PREGNANCY. Did you not get educated as a teen? Jesus Chr/st. There is no excuse for that. Grow up and use condoms. Get on the pill...better yet. KEEP YOUR DAMN LEGS CLOSED. You kind of people make me sick.
hhrlover06...thank you for making us all aware of what exactly causes pregnancy. Sex? Really? Now to clarify a few things...just because someone has had an abortion does not make them a s***, unintelligent or uncaring. Nor does it give you the right to judge. If you are speaking from a Pro-Life Christian point of view, I must say as a Christian that has had an abortion, that I wonder where your anger comes from. Why do we make you sick? Because we weren't ready for a child? Because perhaps we became pregnant from a result of rape? Or maybe because we knew God offers unconditional forgiveness & knew in our hearts it wasn't the right time for us to bring a child into the world? Also, as a Christian that has had an abortion, or just as a Christian period, keep your pro-life protests where they are appropriate, and this was definitely not the place. You came off simply as arrogant, ignorant & ridiculously angry. Perhaps you can learn to deal with your anger in a positive way & learn when & where the right time is to express it. Having an abortion doesn't make anyone a bad person, it simply makes them human...which is what you are. Not God. Please try to remember this & maybe get some therapy for your obvious anger issues. Best of luck!
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Its pro-responsibility? Responsibility would be portraying yourself in an appropriate & reasonable manner, which you obviously did not do. Abortions are legal for a reason, and its a personal choice that doesn't deserve the judgment of someone who obviously has never walked in the shoes of a woman who has become pregnant when least expecting due to whatever reason. For most women, I know for myself at least, abortion was a last resort. You seem to fancy yourself as intelligent, but I wish you could just see how ignorant you come off as. You speak of abortion & the results of abortion that a woman has to deal with as if you personally know what its like. When you find yourself raped by an abusive ex-boyfriend and you have just enough money to barely live off of, then feel welcome to judge some of us. Until you do, step off, grow up & realize we all have different paths in life, none of which you have the right to judge, regardless of whatever calibur of intelligence you would like to think you behold.
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If you have tried for a year and have yet to get pregnant... you should go to a specialist. there is a problem somewhere that needs to be found.
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I had thre previous abortions over the course of four years. I am now presently pregnant and I am lost about what to do. I know that pregnancy is possible after abortion. However, I am not sure I am making the correct decision this time. I am battling with this decision because I feel that I will have to struggle on my own without the help of the father. In addition, I worry about what the future holds for me being unwed and pregnant. I work, have my own place, and completed school. However, a part of me still feels there is more to accomplish out there. Moreover, I am 26 and I feel like I am running behind on allmy childhood dreams. Please advise How does one decide when the timing is right? Is it ever?
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Hi,
I do have a question. I had an abortion in mid-april 09 and me and my husband are trying to get pregnant again. The thing is this, we are constantly having sex and have tried all parts of the month, except during my period but i still havent had any signs at all. Im concerned that i may not be able to get pregnant. And im pretty sure we have been on time through my ovulation period. Do anyone have any information that they can give? I have had constant nausea but thats it
I do have a question. I had an abortion in mid-april 09 and me and my husband are trying to get pregnant again. The thing is this, we are constantly having sex and have tried all parts of the month, except during my period but i still havent had any signs at all. Im concerned that i may not be able to get pregnant. And im pretty sure we have been on time through my ovulation period. Do anyone have any information that they can give? I have had constant nausea but thats it
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hello. i recently found out that i am pregnant. i am assuming i am probably 4 or 5 weeks. i have had my thoughts about going full term and raising a child. i am finally in school full time, and working for very little money. i have been in a relationship with the father for only about a month. we used protection, which failed, and i have decided, with him, to have an abortion.
we haven't been dating long, but i dont know if i even see this relationship working out. it is possible that he could have a child with another girl! He has promised to stand behind whatever decision i make, but i feel awful and selfish for say this... i just don't feel that i am ready for a child yet.
any advice?
we haven't been dating long, but i dont know if i even see this relationship working out. it is possible that he could have a child with another girl! He has promised to stand behind whatever decision i make, but i feel awful and selfish for say this... i just don't feel that i am ready for a child yet.
any advice?
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