Make SURE it's what you want. Reguardless of the father being there that baby is part of YOU. Having an abortion is something you will have to live with the rest of your life. Taking your babies life is a heavy load to carry. I know this sadly from experience. Once it happens there's no going back. It leaves you with an emptiness no one could possibly describe. The ONLY people I would even advise to consider abortion would be rape victims or maybe people bringing a child into an abusive situation. I don't mean to offend ANYone. I had an abortion due to inconvience (school,money,etc.) and would do anything to have the opportunity to make the decision again. I would definately still be pregnant. Good luck with whatever you choose.
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I agree- Really think hard about whether it's what you want. On the one hand, there are so many unwanted, and mistreated children in this world. On the other hand, if children are something that you know you want, really really think hard about it. I know also from person experience. I fell pregnant 5 weeks into a new relationship, after the condom split and the morning after pill didn't work. Children are something I've always wanted, but I decided, with the 'help' of my partner and mother, not to continue with the pregnancy- it was the hardest decision in the world, and partly made through a feeling of lack of support if I went ahead (although my partner said he'd support me whatever, I also knew it was something he didn't want at this stage in the relationship. I now regret it every single day, and the pain doesn't get any easier, even 18months on. I am at a stage of my life where many of my friends are having children, and over the last 2 weeks have had 4 new pregnancy anouncements, and in the last month a handful of births, with a couple more due in teh next month. While I'm happy for my friends, each time I hear it, it is a dagger in my heart... One of the things that was a deciding factor in my decision was I wanted my relationship to work, and it has- we're strong and happy...although I wonder about my sacrifice for it- the life of my first child...
It's not an easy decision, but whatever you decide it will change your life forever. Please think hard and talk it through. And best of luck with whatever you decide...
It's not an easy decision, but whatever you decide it will change your life forever. Please think hard and talk it through. And best of luck with whatever you decide...
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yes i am sorry you aborted your baby. you really should know that the life that was conceived was a baby. you can probably get prego agian but pls stop aborting babies. this is not to you but to everyone. thank you
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When I lost my virginity, I got preg and mom took me to get an abortion. After being married for 8 years and having 2 daughter already, my husband and I divorced and I was preg. Again, I had an abortion. Now 6 years later, on and off birth control, but now off....I had a new boyfriend and 1st time with him ended up in pregnancy. We thought it was best to have an abortion again, that was in June of 09. I went back on birth control and decided in Oct 09 that yes, indeed I loved this man and wanted to have a child with him and got off the pill. I have been taking my temps and ovualtion test and last month the 1st month of temp taking, i missed ovulation because I went out of town, we tried anyway for several possible fertile days, but not preg. This month I closey temped and OPK'ed No sign of ovualation at all. Could this last obortion ruined my chances? I also had an ovarian torsion right after I fet my husband.
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Hi,
Are there any support groups and/or retreats to help men & women deal with the emotional aspect of dealing with an abortion? Ideally something in TX but I am curious is anyone is aware of any of these that they have found helpful.
Thank you.
Are there any support groups and/or retreats to help men & women deal with the emotional aspect of dealing with an abortion? Ideally something in TX but I am curious is anyone is aware of any of these that they have found helpful.
Thank you.
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hi, i had a termination just over a year ago but i had complications with the placenta and had to have evacuation to get rid of it all. me and my partner are trying for another baby but still no luck. has anybody else had this procedure done and go on to have any more babies. i really do want another baby but im worried if this has affected my chances
help!!!!!!!
help!!!!!!!
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If you keep having abortions, why do you continue to have unprotected sex? Abortion is not a birth control.... Use your head a little more, otherwise, don't have sex.........
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I HAD A MISCARRIAGE ON 6 JULY, 2010 AND AFTER THAT FOR 2 WEEKS I WAS WITH MY HUSBAND. NOW UNEXPECTEDLY I FIND MY SELF PREGNANT. IS IT POSSIBLE WITH OUT A SINGLE PERIOD AFTER ABORATION ? SHOULD I WORRY ABOUT THE HEALTH OF THIS CHILD ? THE EXPECTED DATE OF DELIVERY IS 30-04-11 AND THE BABY IS 32 WEEKS OLD IN MY WOOMB.
IS PREGNANCY POSSIBLE WITH IN A WEEK AFTER ABORATION ?
RUPSONA S
IS PREGNANCY POSSIBLE WITH IN A WEEK AFTER ABORATION ?
RUPSONA S
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hi i was readin some of your stories and they seem pretty interesting my birthday was june 6,2010 i had just turned 18 i guess that about a month or two after that i got pregnant but i knew i wasnt ready to be a parent because i was so young so i decided to have an abortion im september i was two months pregnant i thought that i wasnt going to be able to get pregnant again it is now march 19,2011 and i just found out i was pregnant agian march 17,2011 i think the pregnancy is going fine except the cramps that i get sometimesbut it is possible to still get pregnant even if you had an abortion i did and this time i did plan it.
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hi I had an abortion a year ago stupidly just because I freaked out at what people will say-which I regreat so badly now.Well my period was iirregular but has been 24 days now for 4 months.When is the best time for me to try to conceive.I have tried a few times but looks like most people have a 28 day cycle which is on the 14 day and I really dont know when I can ovulate.Please I need help.I know I made a stupid decision and will never make that mistake again.I am married now and ready to start a family with the same man I was pregnant with.I am getting worried.I also feel my breast do not get swelled up as it used to when I am getting my period.Is that an effect of the abortion.Pls help
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Just curious. I had an abortion a year ago. And I am pregnant now. I have been having episodes of bleeding (looks like blood clots). I have had three of these episodes over the past 3 weeks. What should I do? Is this normal? I am not able to see my doctor for two more weeks.
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Hi, Can I please have your email address I would like to ask you a few questions concerning this topic thank u
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after second time abortion a women can get pergnancy i mean third time she will get
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thank u.. your mail is inspiring for most of the ladies who have lost hopes.. thank u so much once again....cheers.. god bless u and ur family
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