omg the woman needs support not lectures! its up to her what she wants to do at the end of the day that is her decision and people should respect that decision. i have had 2 abortions in the past and yes i regret ever getting pregnant but theres nothing u can do once you are pregnant except make that big decision which is hard enough as it is without other people saying that it is selfish.. birth control doesnt always work it is not 100% effective either so i think you people need to GROW UP! people are in different situations in life and i dont think its fair at all if she decided to keep it as she would not have enough money to care for it. so before u share ur opinions have a little think because every1 is different out there and it might just be for the best. and people that have already had abortions should practice what they preach before saying it is careless as you must have been pretty careless if you had 1 too! :$
hi i had an abortion and if thats what u want to do than do so these women are tellin u what THEY would do they are not in ur shoesbut when u come on these kindof sites and ask for their opinions this what u get so pleasetry to stay off these kindofs sites call a 1800 number if u have to that will support and help u not lecture in not of these women are GOD so who cares what they think its up to u :-)
Hi,
Im not going to judge you for having another abortion , only you know your circumstances. But I would suggest you take some kind of birth control in the future. To keep goin through an emotional process will upset you in the future when your much older. i know ive never forgiven myself for my past mistakes and am now 37 (young 37 ) Please think long and hard for waht you are about to do and if you decide to go ahead with the abortion then I really strongly advice you on birth control methods. You are still very young and might want another child in the near future and sometimes not all the times can do harm to you womb can leave scarring making it hard to have any more children when your older. We have all made silly mistakes when we were young, so dont listen to people who judge you because they wont be perfect. Good Luck on what you decide and pray all goes well. :)
Im not going to judge you for having another abortion , only you know your circumstances. But I would suggest you take some kind of birth control in the future. To keep goin through an emotional process will upset you in the future when your much older. i know ive never forgiven myself for my past mistakes and am now 37 (young 37 ) Please think long and hard for waht you are about to do and if you decide to go ahead with the abortion then I really strongly advice you on birth control methods. You are still very young and might want another child in the near future and sometimes not all the times can do harm to you womb can leave scarring making it hard to have any more children when your older. We have all made silly mistakes when we were young, so dont listen to people who judge you because they wont be perfect. Good Luck on what you decide and pray all goes well. :)
well i have had an abortion 2 times..well this is the second time..and then right after i stopped bleeding in about some days i had sex with my boyfriend and we used the postinor 2 birth control pill....well is it possible for me to get pregnant again..because i have been waiting for my period to come and it does not show up...so someone advise me on what to do pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
I have had 2 abortion and this is the second one..well right after i stopped bleeding and days after i had sex with my boyfriend..and after we had sex we use the postinor 2 birth control bill..well but then i have been waiting for my period and its not comming..is it possible that i am pregnant again?Please help me out
You need to chill out lady. Some people like myself had an abortion and were in no way shape or form ready for a baby. Abortion isn't something to take lightly I agree completely. I was one of the few people who was on birth control (never missing a dose) and using condoms. I STILL got pregnant. Even after an abortion using these methods you can still get pregnant. You also have to remember that not everyone has the finances to afford a box or condoms or birth control every month. It is rather expensive and the "free" stuff isnt always great. The ingredients (active and inactive) arent the same from pill to pill unless you get brand name which can cause pregnancy. Im in pharmacology and have done research to prove it. You can say to not have sex but that's hard for some people. You just had a huge decision to make and you want to be close with your loved one and sometimes that means intamacy. As for adoption, some people don't want their kid finding out that they were adopted. It doesn't matter if it is a closed adoption that child will one day know the truth. It's not hard to find out with the technology these days. Instead or being a cold harted (you can finish the rest) be supportive. People don't come here to keep being hurt and judged. I'm sure that they hurt enough knowing what they did and that they might be pregnant again. They aren't asking for your criticism they are asking for your help. If you are only here to discourage, put down, be harsh, and ridicule people don't reply. Yes the truth may hurt and some people need it but from everything I've read these people are reaching out for help and guidance. Your comments are neither. It takes a lot for someone to ask for help especially for this. You don't need to take your pain out on other people. If you are still hurting then you need to get help somewhere else because you aren't helping anyone here. I'm an truly sorry for your losses but you aren't one to judge anyone else on this topic. If you didn't want or couldn't keep those children you should have used contraceptives, the morning after pill, or kept your legs closed. Maybe you should practice what you preach. I don't care how old you are birth control and condoms have been around since my grandparents were teens and they're in their 70's.
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guest 1 - sort your life out and be a bit more considerate.
is it safe to have a baby after abortion? Im getting married next year and I'm ready to have
a baby after my abortion about a year ago.. I never visit a doctoc after having abortion.
Im worried about my baby's health if ever.. PLS help..
a baby after my abortion about a year ago.. I never visit a doctoc after having abortion.
Im worried about my baby's health if ever.. PLS help..
People keep saying why don't people who have abortions be considerate, who exactly are they being considerate of when it's their body? Personally I'd rather have abortions then to have children brig adopted and me never knowing them, now that sounds crazy. People say things like the women should keep their legs closed or stop having sex, what if someone is married like I am? People assume people are all teenage single mothers but many of us are married or in long term commited relationships and therefore stopping sex is not an options. My situation is I was infertile for over 17 years and then out of nowhere I started becoming extremely fertile and popped up pregnant twice. Ofcourse I was not in birth control since that was something I need had to worry about in really 17 years of having sex. Now all of sudden I have to worry about getting pregnant when for some odd reason I never ever seemed to get pregnant after more then a decade. So before people judge know the situation.
Well obviously you did do it again because you did it for a second time! So practice what you preach!
I totally agree - I had an abortion 20 years ago and it has ruined my life - it's like a ticking time bomb- it's not always at the time when your young and foolish - it's later in life it can hit you, the psychological damage can affect you for the rest of your life
How anyone can go through it more than once is beyond me. It's caused depression, PTSD and I have had counselling for months now. It has taken me 20 years to have the courage to have further children because of the trauma of having a termination - I will say I was cocerced into it by my husband at the time who I trusted - however , I'm now pregnant with IVF and possibly having twins - but I don't care - I will embrace how ever many babies I am blessed with. Young women Please, please please get proper counselling before your abortion ...20 years ago it didn't exist. You need to know the long term risks - not physical but emotional and psychological !!! It's terrible pain and suffering for the rest of your life. If only I could turn the clock back ....think long and hard !!!!
Hi I just had an abortion on the 25th of August and I had sex on the 6th of September. My boyfriend messed up three times... I wonder if I'm pregnant but if I am I'm definitely keeping it this time. I'm just wondering if you could be pregnant from that couple times after an abortion so recent... If yes, would I still be bleeding? I been bleeding like a period since the day after sex again which I thought it stopped the night before. I think I was just wrong that it never stopped... Please let me know some info??
Oh my gosh! There are people out here that can't have babies and you are getting an abortion. WOW! You are sick