Hi* i'm 19 years old and about 9 weeks pregnant. I am going through alot with my family because they want whats best for for me, since i'm young they want me to enjoy life and get a good career. I am against getting a abortion but is it the right this to do right now? I'm currently not working, and this situation is hurting my parents alot. No one is telling me what to do, they tell me to do what is in my heart. My boyfriend also is against having an abortion. He told me he will never respect me again. I am very scared and confused and not really sure what to do about this. I love kids with all my heart, but i'm not sure if i'm ready to have my own. Any advice would be helpfull, I feel lost and emotional PLEASE help!!
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I was in the same situation that you are in a few years ago, so I know what you are going through..You have to decide for you what is best for you, dont listen to what others want you to do, cause you may regret it later on...I was 18 when this happened to me, I wasnt ready and scared sh*tless, but I decided that I was going to continue on, and today I have a beautiful 4 year old daughter...I believe that everything happens for a reason, and your not given anything that you cant handle, its going to be rough for a while but everything will work out for you in the end..I promise...There are many people out there who you can talk to other than who is around you right now...Planned Parenthood is a good place to go they can help ease your mind on things..Believe in yourself, youll know when and what to do...You can still enjoy your life and have a great career, its just going to take a little more effort, when I started out I didnt finish school (I wasnt a trouble kid, theres more to that) and didnt have a thing going on in my life, but after I had my daughter I went back to school recieved my ged and then continued to go to evening classes at Ivy Tech, my fiance helped out a lot, I could stay at home with our daughter and he would watch her at night when I went to school...Everything just works out..Dont give up on yourself, your life is not going to end, just think you have someone else who you can spend your time with. and live each day to the fullest....
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