So my boyfriend and I have been together for a few years now and up until about 8 months ago the sex was great. We were having sex nearly every day and we were both achieving orgasm almost every time. Now for some reason, we have been having this problem for quite a while. First, it takes a LOT of stimulation for him to even get an erection ... sometimes more than 10 minutes of oral sex for him to have a sustainable erection. Secondly, either the sex lasts literally 20 seconds and he comes or the sex lasts 20 seconds and he suppresses the desire to orgasm and then immediately loses his erection and cannot get another one. It has really put a strain on our relationship and it has gotten to the point where having sex with him is so frustrating that I would just rather not have sex at all. Please help us!
Is there something going on in his life that may be stressing him? Now that he knows that things might not work between the sheets, this could be weighing heavy on him as well. Lots of times it's phycological, and what used to be predictable could suddenly become un predictable. If you make a big fuss out of his inability to perform, he will have this on his mind everytime you two try to become intimate.
It's probably not his fault as something is going on with him.
Instead of getting angry at him, have you tried talking it out?
Leave it alone for a while, then try again. Is he on medication? Does he drink? Are there drugs involved?
Are you taking birth control? Sometimes guys fear getting their partners pregnant and it comes out thru their inability to perform.
Stop and think of what could have happened 8 months ago that may have put a damper on things. Could he be having problems at work?
I hate to even ask this but is there a possibility that he is seeing someone else?
If you want to save your relationship, you have to back track and do the process of elimination thing. If you can't conclude what it could be, maybe a trip to the doctor would be in order. He may need some help with male enhancement medication and maybe only temporary until he gets back in the groove.
It's probably not his fault as something is going on with him.
Instead of getting angry at him, have you tried talking it out?
Leave it alone for a while, then try again. Is he on medication? Does he drink? Are there drugs involved?
Are you taking birth control? Sometimes guys fear getting their partners pregnant and it comes out thru their inability to perform.
Stop and think of what could have happened 8 months ago that may have put a damper on things. Could he be having problems at work?
I hate to even ask this but is there a possibility that he is seeing someone else?
If you want to save your relationship, you have to back track and do the process of elimination thing. If you can't conclude what it could be, maybe a trip to the doctor would be in order. He may need some help with male enhancement medication and maybe only temporary until he gets back in the groove.
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