Concerned wrote:
I'm a female and I'm totally obsessed with anal sex. To be honest, I'd rather have anal all the time than vaginal at all. What really concerns me is if my preference can turn a guy into gay?
I started it, nobody ever pushed me into it, it's like happened by curiosity - stuck my finger up my butt and came right away the same second, since then - hooked up on it like crazy.
My partner really enjoys anal sex with me (we are over 5 years together now) and by the looks of it I'm pretty much succeeded in getting it from him all the time. Let's say that our sex life is mostly 99% anal sex and only meager 1% vaginal (which I do only to remind myself I still have a vagina). He doesn't fight with me over it and pretty much ok with whatever wind blows as long as sex is involved. I know, it sounds ridiculous but I have such intense orgasm from anal it can't even compare to vaginal sex at all... I sort of *probed* him a lot here and there about anal sex and he seems ok with it and doesn't show any interest in guys but isn't it strange that we enjoy anal sex so much... To add more, I really like to play with his butt a lot and at first it creeped him out but after some time he became comfortable with my *attacks*. I have no idea why I'm so crazy about butts, I even check them out all the time, no matter girls or guys...
So, asking guys, is having heterosexual anal sex kind of pushing them into gay territory?
don't think so. Nearly everyone would agree tha tsexuality is nore than just the activities involving the plumbing fittings!
I do not think so. I have been have both anal sex done on me by females and I now use anal masturbation. My current partner is anti-anal in any way. Although I had a few homosexual encounters when I was a pre-teen, anal sex nor anal masturbation has not pushed me toward homosexuality. I also understand the intensity of anal orgasms! They are pretty great. I have been searching for a woman that will do a strap on sex thing with me, but no luck so far. Usually women who are willing want $500-$1,000 a session.
I consider myself to be heterosexual and I like anal sex with men. I am happily married with children and my wife knows my fetishes and of course I know hers. I like having vaginal sex with my wife, but I prefer to have anal sex with men. The thought of having anal sex with my wife or any woman turns me off, but when I think about vagina sex, I get totally turned on. When I have anal sex with guys, it is totally physical. There is no relationship, no emotions, no touching, no kissing, no making out, and very little talking. I just like getting my penis sucked on by men and f*****g their ass sometimes. I have a couple of regulars, one married guy and a gay guy. On rare occasions, I get screwed in the ass, but I don't really like being on the receiving part, however, it does feel strangely good and painfully pleasurable. I don't find myself sexually attractive to men like I am to women. Sometimes I just have an urge to flip a guy over to f**k his tight ass. If his ass is not clean and tight, I lose interest and my hard on. I'm not really phyiscally attractive to the way men look. I've been with different races, colors, sizes, shapes, and a broad age range over the years. I know quite a few married men who like hooking up with guys occasionally with no strings attached. They are just looking for some good one-on-one man sex before going home to the wife. Many people will probably be surprised with how many wives out there that allow their husbands to do this. Like myself, I'm sure these men practice safe sex with their sex partners. We tend to easily place lables on people when it comes to sexuality. Can we just like sex with other consenting adults and not be judged so harshly by hypocrites. When I have sex with a guy who is on the DL and married, it doesn't phase me; it's not my problem because I'm just there for the sex, not a relationship. When I was younger, I seduced a lot my straight male co-workers just for the excitement of knowing how easy it was to get another guy in the sack and I'm just an average guy. Sex is powerful, regardless of your sexual orientation.
My mistress wants me to be trained to only orgasm through anal sex with her using a strap on, Is this possible?
She can probably train you to do whatever she wants with a big enough Taser.
We'll I love anal with my wife but would like to a male butt