Hello, I am Riley, 14 years old, uncircumissed
I have been on operation, when my foreskin attached to my glans.
I had really bad time after it, it hurt me all time like month-two, and I just got trauma from that.
I was young, I didnt care about my penis so much, and in some time my foreskin got tight
When I was 12, we went on preventative visit to my basic doctor, where she took a look on my penis. She told Its the same again, and we should visit Urologist. When I remembered on my trauma, I really didnt want to go there, so I begged my mum, and she left it go. 2 years went away, no problems, just couldnt retract my foreskin. Today we was again on preventative visit, again, she said, we should visit urologist really, that because we werent there 2 years ago it can be only worse. I have still trauma..really dont want to go there, so my mum told that she gives me month to be able to fully retract my foreskin, and if I cant, we will go to urologist. I checked on internet some strechings, and I started right from now on. As I was always being able to retract more, I found a weird blue part of my glans, and even lower a bloody line. I thought I went already down enough from the one side to see that the foreskin ends, and that its again attached to my glans. I only think that, but Im scared, I really have big trauma, and depressions..And also already now in the evening I find whole foreskin very painful on touch. They said that the blue part of glans is normal, that it just has to be loose a bit more time again, but I found that the attachment can be cured only by the surgery. Please please, I really need help, I got really bad trauma, I cant even say how bad pain I experienced after the first surgery, and they said its not normal, that it shouldnt happen. So if there is any cure...I would be so happy if I could make it without that surgery..I got month ! Until the end of December to cure it, or my mum will go with me to the Urologists..Thats what exactly I dont want to.
If any advantages happens, I edit it, but still, its only month, please help.
Forward Thanks, Riley.
Hi Riley,
First off, it is very NORMAL for you not to be able to retract your foreskin at 14. Most guys can't do that until around age 16. Your female doctor may not be aware of this.
Please see the urologist. This is their area of expertise - not your GP's.
Hopefully your urologist is male and can explain to your mother that it takes time to "stretch." Without an examination it is hard to know exactly what you are seeing.
Hang in there. Good luck.
Thanks alot Dan,
However, my problem isnt retracting, I think with some strech I can get it until good, Im just scared that I think I have attached the foresking to my glans and that is according to my information able to cure only by surgery.
If I am not right, please reply.
Thanks, Riley
Hi Riley,
See the urologist, for the exam. As I said, it's hard to know what you are seeing.
Hang in there and keep us posted.
Thanks again,
THe problem is, that I got trauma from Urologists overraly. Thats right what I dont want to do and I need help. Hard to know what am I seeing? I got a little tight foreskin, but I can see pretty big part of glans, So I think that will be okay. The problem is that if I retract too low from the front side of penis, I see there like a tissue that goes to the top of my glans and I think its the problem, that can be solved only with surgery. And thats actually what I just want to leave alone the best way ! I am so scared..trauma..
Thanks anyways, hope you understand now.
Riley.
Riley,
Look up "frenulum." It may be what you're trying to describe. If so, it's normal.
An examination shouldn't hurt. Tell the doctor your concerns, not the GP, the urologist.