:( please help
When you masturbate do you run your fingers over the dry head and how does that feel?
I'm not circ'd but my head always felt like you describe until I got sick of it and decided to desensitize it. When I did that I reasoned that I had to dry it off and rub it while it was dry in order to desensitize it. I figured that because when I was young and us boys got together to masturbate I was totally amazed that the guys who were circ'd could rub their heads with their fingers without having to be scraped off the ceiling afterwards. I figured that was because their heads were always rubbing on their clothing so they got used to it.
It took me several months of dry rubbing to get to the point where it was comfortable and now I prefer it that way. However it does hurt if it's a little damp causing my fingers to pull the skin but not at all if it's wet enough to lubricate it properly.
The only thing I can think of would be for you to dry rub the head when you masturbate if you're not already doing that. If you are, maybe rubbing it a little harder will desensitize it better.