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I have only had sex 3 times. All three times have been with the same guy. The problem is i havent had an orgasm during sex yet. Is something wrong with me? ?
Hey,

My teenage sex hasn't abound with orgasms every intercourse. The guys have hard job to make us happy, and this cannot be done by every one!

My first 5 or 6 boyfriends left me without orgasm experience. For someone it sounds pretty oddly, but I think most of woman haven't exceed the orgasmus level with first boyfriends, most of all, because the young guys ejaculate just too fast! Hope that sex with skilful and experienced man will bring you more satisfaction. Also you can enforce your boyfriend to continue to play with your cliet after he ejaculate. He can use his fingers as tool to bring you to the seventh sky, because his little friend won't be able to fullfil this task right after first ejaculation. You should lead the game, just go for it and you'll get it!

However, I just want to say, don't worry, this is normal process. Hopefully you can do it by yourself when you play with your p***y alone, or?
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How can i get it to where i do orgasm or does it jsut depend on my partner? %-)
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this is really stressful... im 19, i've been w/ my boyfriend for 3 years and i've never had an orgasm NEVER.
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I hope you do know that it is much harder for women to have an orgasm. First thing to do is talk to your partner. This shouldn’t be a problem bc you have been together for 3 years, and tell him what is going on. Just by having sex ( his penis into your vagina ) is hard for women to cum. And it takes a lot of time to find a g spot. What may help is clitoris stimulation. I think you two should play a little and see what works for you. It is the only way for you to find out how you work and what works for you. You can always get a book with a guide on good sex or female stimulation or something like that. How long have you had sex?
My friend started a relationship when she was 14, and they were making love since she was 15. For more than I year she couldn’t cum at all. You are also still young, and if both of you are inexperienced, there could be a problem like this. So, I don’t think it is something you should be worried about, only something you should work on! Good luck!!!!
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i seriously think i am broken lol because my bf and i have had sex in tons of different ways except anal... He's known about this and he's very patient while i try to feel good.. but it doesnt, it doesnt feel like anything.. i have sex because i love him, and i guess i've gotten so used to it that it doesnt matter that much anymore.
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I don’t think you should just stop there, because getting an orgasm is something really fulfilling especially if you are with somebody you love. What happens when you masturbate? Did you find anything that you like or makes you very sensitive while touching specific parts of your body? Is there anything that excites you…let’s start from the excitement first!!!! Then you may come to an orgasm later. Have you sought any special articles on this specific topic?
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