So.. My mom and dad divorced and I went to live with my dad in Belovo instead of with my mom in Aksay. (I'm in Russia) My mom had some mental/anger problems or something. On the way there my mom did suicide. After while my dad starting being really friendly with me and it was very unusual because he's not that kind of person. Recently he started to make me naked with him and he touches me and I'm scared. I can't tell anyone. And even so, who? I don't want to live with foster care or be an orphan. I like to live with my dad I just don't want him to touch my like this. When I say no he gets mad and he does it not gentle anymore. I have a stuttering problem now and I'm very afraid of men, androphobia. Advice is really important to me, thanks.
I know you are scared, but you HAVE to tell someone! I am so sorry for all you've been through! Do you have aunts, uncles or any other family you can contact?? I'm praying for you!
I told a friend and he offered his house for living at but I don't want to get him in trouble or make my dad upset.
Sorry about that you just have to tell someone or else he his going to do the worst past for you, tell your aunt or uncle so that you can move away from his house before he have sex with you.
relax and think if there are other people you can go to. Be confident and confront your father, tell him clearly it's wrong what he does and he has no right to be intimate with you, it's his job to take care of you not yours. You don't like what he does and he must stop, it's wrong legally and morally to be sexual with one's own child, otherwise you'll have to leave him. Don't worry about him getting upset, that's just a way of making you feel bad and let him continue do his things. If situation still doesn't get better, seek police before the situation get worse or you might regret later.
Nicky- PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE tell someone what is going on. Sexual abuse is wrong on so many levels! It is NOT a display of love or affection- it's control & it's damaging.
Why are you so scared to go in to foster care? Your father is a pedophile & he needs punishing for what he is doing. At least, you'll be safe in foster care- you are not safe now. I know it's a hard situation to contemplate, but you need to get out of that house & soon.
First things first- if he tries to touch you again- scream. Tell him he's wrong & what he's doing is sick- also tell him someone else knows about what he's doing. Pedophiles get away with what they are doing because they depend on the fear & silence of their victims.
You have been through a hell of a lot & your father has taken advantage of that. You need support & love- not some sick B****** taking advantage of you.
PLEASE get help- tell the police or tell someone at school. Sexual abuse not only affects the victim, but the victims children, etc. It causes life long trauma- stop it NOW.
Good luck & all my best wishes in getting out.
V
Why are you so scared to go in to foster care? Your father is a pedophile & he needs punishing for what he is doing. At least, you'll be safe in foster care- you are not safe now. I know it's a hard situation to contemplate, but you need to get out of that house & soon.
First things first- if he tries to touch you again- scream. Tell him he's wrong & what he's doing is sick- also tell him someone else knows about what he's doing. Pedophiles get away with what they are doing because they depend on the fear & silence of their victims.
You have been through a hell of a lot & your father has taken advantage of that. You need support & love- not some sick B****** taking advantage of you.
PLEASE get help- tell the police or tell someone at school. Sexual abuse not only affects the victim, but the victims children, etc. It causes life long trauma- stop it NOW.
Good luck & all my best wishes in getting out.
V
I think you need to weigh the options here. I was in foster care. Once a foster dad finds out you've been molested, you're basically just fucck meat from then on. So my advice would be to just let your dad enjoy you. Make him happy. If he wants to lick your lil cunny, let him. Enjoy it. It feels so good. So just take a deep breath and ask yourself if you'd rather be molested by your dad or a bunch of foster dad's from now on. Personally I'd choose foster dad's. More the merrier.
He probably learned it from his mom and your mom probably learned it from her mom. Your mom and dad probably were upset that you didn't develop boobs as early as she did. I had a mother-in-law who told me she was glad she didn't have big tits as I do but she was also glad that I had bigger tits than she does and she always made light of it to me.