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Thought I was the only one, Im only 14 and a virgin
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no joke i have the EXACT same problem!
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Girls, really you need to stop this worry, I'm a guy, I'm also a model photographer, and ya know what? I SEARCH for that kind of girl with larger labia, it makes for a more beautiful nude image, and as a man, many want some kind of substance, otherwise it's just what I call "flat butt vagina" where there is nothing but a slit, which is weird to have sex with, girls may tease each other because they don't know better but it's very natural and very beautiful and on another note, if a guy doesn't "love" you because of you're vagina shape, he doesn't know what love is, nor is he worthy of you. And the majority if girls have labia that hang out in some way, it's actually less common to have none. And without being too graphic, a "meatier" vagina feels better because there is more friction so to speak, more pleasure. Be happy with who you are.
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Omg. Thank god other people have it too Im Jess and I'm 16.. It's been like that forever. I've always been so embarrassed about it. But my ex boyfriend didn't seem to mind though. I talked to him about it and I talked to him and he said that it's no big deal at all.. Every vagina is different.

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Hey I'm Jess and 24!

believe me...you are all healthy!! I use to worry about my vagina because a bf had told me it was larger than their ex-gfs.

However. guys don't really care...if they care about you and that is why you are sexually active together, they are just happy to see you naked! lol

I was always concerned about the inside of my vagina because one side is purple/blue and way longer than the other. But I've had several pap smears and my doctor has never commented so I guess it's within the normal range.

Also, to make you feel even better! I have recently been waitressing/bartending in a strip club and have seen (not by choice lol) all different types of vaginas and have begun to realise that there are huge variations in that area........and its all normal!!!

Personally, I think the vagina is damn ugly and I wish mine was smaller etc.... but if your not in pain and are with someone who loves you...who gives a sh*t how big your flaps are!! Who really looks there anyway...? lol

 

 

 

 

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hey I am only 13 and one of my flaps are long and purple and i think it is really embarrassing but now that i think of it and have read other messages boys say it makes them turned on ? haha <3
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Wow, so, uh. It's a great relief to find out this is normal! Still an awkward topic for me (it's taken me years to just freakin' google this) but I'm glad I did! Most of my childhood memories are surpressed and many people in my life have speculated that I was molested as a child and so I was sort of thinking that it, uh, got stretched then...I suppose that still could be the case, but I've just been worried that...I dunno, it was wrong and I needed to fix it. While I'm quite content not being sexually active, I still worry about how things will go down when that happens and all. It's really nice to know that, regardless of how it happened, I'm not alone.
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this made me feel so much better! I'm 16 and I'm so worried about this because somebody at my school has the same problem. nobody knows about me though. people have picked on her about it and were both part of the bigger crowd. I've been fingered but they didn't notice, the reason I'm on this is cos i was looking for surgery options and stuff, but that would be my last resort cos i have a phobia of needles. cos I'm part of the bigger crowd I'm obviously gonna have sex and stuff soon and i go to loads of parties, I'm worrying so much still though...:s

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Don't laugh, but I'm 14 and I have one labia more stretched than the other. I can't seem to understand how it got like that or how to fox at all. It's quite embarrassing and I worry about what people would think. I already know others have this problem too. Does anyone know a solution OTHER than surgery?
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Well that's not uncommon at all , and the majority of men really love a woman with bigger "lips" , I know I do .
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There is absolutely nothing wrong with you, I promise. I've had to assure my wife that her vagina isn't weird. I know it sounds cheesey, but I use the analogy that vaginas are like snowflakes. No two are alike. For many of us guys, large labias are a huge turn on, and almost none of them are symetrical. You are fine! Try to learn to love your body, and enjoy it!!!!!
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The stretching started when I was like 13, mum took me to the doc and she said nothing was wrong. so don't fret.

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We are all unique I have both of mine outwards kinda feels like i have balls. but i learned that its normal and not every person is the same im proud to look how i look. and you should too!

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Lol its all cool ur your young so u u all don't know any differance from what a p***y is supposed to look like But in the same sense but take in consideration if your concerned about how big or sloppy it looks now if your already showing it to boys and other people or considering intercourse its going to be a lot worse by the time you really develope take my worde for it this should b ur least concern u prob have the preatiest puussy n dnt know it and dnt need to know it ;) positive fEedbac hmu for eastcoast modeling and bookings
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what happens if u cut it?

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