About 2 days ago my groin lymph node became swollen and difficult to deal with and was extreemely painful. Next thing I know a day or so after (in which time i did shave) my outer vaginal lips swelled up and i had 2 or three bump like things that kind of look like scabs but aren't, and they're kind of hard. They make it very difficult to sit, stand, and even walk. I've been trying to find an answer and like anyone else, all I'm getting is told that it's genital herpes, which wouldn't make much sense being that me and my boyfriend of 3 years are clean and have only really had sex with eachother. My mother says it may just be irritation from shaving and the clothes I'm wearing but I'm not sure. It's unbearably painful, but she could be right. Please help as soon as possible. Thank you.