For those women concerned about the appearance of their labia, I have to say it's just esthetics and it's possible some guys wont' like it but it's not a condition or anything else. It's like breasts some guys love them big, some guys love them small, and some like them in between. My wife has large labia, and was very self-conscious when we first started dating. I had never been with someone with large labia before, but let's be honest I'm a guy and I was getting in her pants, who am I to complain. What I did find is that, I very quickly became of huge fan of how they looked and felt and how much more I enjoyed giving oral to her. After a year of being together, if we hadn't stayed together and I was still dating, I think I would feel a little disappointed with another woman who didn't have large labia. That's not fair I know, but it's just one of those things that for me, makes her sexier and more desirable that any before her. So although I won't fault you for being self-conscious I would say try and be proud of those large lips, my guess is the guy lucky enough to get to experience them will be a new found fan of your special appearance.