When you guys have it frequently & raw, do you always prepare prior to letting him inside. Not saying it's a hygiene issue but I'd probably be a little more comfortable if my lover used an enema or cleaned herself out 1st. It's been said Anal can sometimes go wrong lol....no matter how nasty you enjoy.
Listen, no matter how thick he is, you can have enjoyable anal sex, if you take your time! Drink some wine, put on some romantic music, light some candles, smoke some pot, whatever...give each other oral, then put a lot of saliva on his penis, lean against the bed post in a half upright position, and slowly guide him in. Once the head gets in have him stop while you relax your ass muscles. Have him maintain a firm but not shoving forward pressure, so as your ass muscles relax, he will naturally slip deeper into you. Once he is all the way in he should very slowly start to move in and out, and you will both start to enjoy it....the juices from his penis and inside you will make their own lube. In this position you can rub your clit, put fingers around his penis, or rub his balls...have fun!
I just started having anal sex a month ago. It's incredible, it's all I think about. He introduced me to it. He started very slowly. Kissing, fingering, & toys. He took me to the adult bookstore & bought me a butt trainer. He said he wanted me to train my ass as much as possible. I did. I keep it in while I'm cooking, cleaning, showering or just relaxing. I use a enema first than I began to lubing my trainer. One night he was feeling extra. He started rimming me until I was completely relaxed. He use saliva to lunch e me. It went in like a charm. It was the greatest feeling I ever experienced. I'm glad I read these blogs. I was beginning to think something was wrong with me. My butt throbs everyday. I want it every day. It feels way better than vaginal sex. I don't even know if I want to have vaginal again. What's even better are the different portions. Anal Sex Rocks.
I was with my girl friend for 7 months and she only ever wanted anal sex. Since the first date we've been bumming but she always kept her clothes on (it was kinda her thing). We had so much fun and couldn't have been happier until weeks later I saw her standing going to the toilet when I got back from work. She was a dude!! I was heart broken but no one else knew so we kept having anal sex for a while. I decided it wasn't for me so broke things off but now I'm programmed for anal sex. The vagina just doesn't feel as good and now I'm questioning whether I'm gay as I like giving it so much. Not the best situation to be in...
Anyone had a similar situation
Anyone had a similar situation
Relax is your answer and let you're anus invite him in I have been using it myself now I'm so use to it we are going farther then just his penis now we us but plugs the ones you pump up and now we are into fisting clean you're self out real good with water like in the shower let the water get in there and let it all come out and nasty free use an enema before you use anal sex I use to cry if he touched me there but now ain't no stopping I am in love with this
Same, it's awwsome
What's with all the yelling? All Caps makes you look like you are yelling at all of us.
The way I explain it is to gauge your anus slowly so the muscles have time to expand, and stay relaxed. So a couple fingers to all five fingers. It helps to get a slim dildo if your husband is really quite large. You will need to figure out how to control that muscle as it is not a muscle we usually think about controlling. I don't mean to get gross but the initial feeling is like that of pooping.
My wife and I have been with anal sex for 5 years, we expanded her with butt plugs, dildos and plenty of lube for quite a while so she could comfortably accept me, we only have vaginal on our birthdays and new years day, I get a blow job once a week and masturbate (leg pressure) once a week while my wife watches and plays with me, usually we do anal at least three times a week our best day is Sunday after we finish all our housework we take a long shower together, towel each other down then my wife goes on all fours on the lounge mat waiting for me mount, she gets a good ride and cum's at least 3 times then I can let go, we only use 2 positions doggy and front on with her legs high on my shoulders, both are great, she does tell her best friends about it and a couple say their husbands are really good and keen and they love it too, I am so happy to see on this site others that are the same, keep it up
You certainly went about it the right way, I am so proud of you and your partner for being patient and expanding your rear ring prior to penetration, you did it so perfectly you will not be hurt and both will just love it if your first experience is fantastic and as you know yours was you will just go with bum for the rest of your life, my wife and I virtually only do bum now, she has such a sexy one that is nice and tight for me while being very comfortable it is so fabulous we just get into it mainly doggy all the time, like you
I really love this site the comments are just so honest and informative, my husband and I have been into anal for 10 years we just adore it, initially I stretched my rear hole to make access a lot easier and I am glad that I did, now he just uses a little lube and I am quite tight for him but very comfortable and sexy for me it is just so great having him in my velvet hole it is virtually the only way we have sex now, that is really how great it is, I have two of my best friends in training at the moment they come to my place for experience in stretching so I help them a lot, they should be ready to let their husbands in pretty soon, thanks for all the posts
Im 33 and a female. I love anal sex. My husband in me toys his fingers my fingers.. it's not for everyone but it is for me. I basically use a water douche in my butt about 20 minutes before i want butt sex. It for me cleans everything out. Now if it's a spur of moment it may get a little messy but never bad or smelly. I also wouldnt say the butt is tighter than the vagina i think the muscle is just stronger. The key is when starting before you are a pro lube lube lube. Maybe put a toy inside your vagina while playing with your butt to help relax you. Play with yourself with fingers or toys. Make sure you use an anal lube waterbase lubes wont help with someone not used to anal also there are lubes like anal ease which numb the butt so it wont hurt at all.
I am 39. My husband and I have just started anal sex. We have the same issue of him being very large and me very tight. We use an anal cream to help desensitize me (you can order it online or go to a shop.) It helps. It made it very pleasurable for me. Also make sure you are keeping her excited by playing with her and go slow. I am on here to see if you could have anal too often. I am pleased to see that you can't.
He doesn't sound like that at all. He feels guilty for not being able to return the favor of satisfying her since she has had female problems.
Girlwhonwantstotry: Ask him what he thinks about anal. That is how I broach stuff with mine...I am very shy about telling him what I want right out. So asking him what he thinks about it in general allows me to work up to something I want but am not sure what he would think about it.
Girlwhonwantstotry: Ask him what he thinks about anal. That is how I broach stuff with mine...I am very shy about telling him what I want right out. So asking him what he thinks about it in general allows me to work up to something I want but am not sure what he would think about it.
Great to hear you are enjoying bum sex it is so fantastic,maybe you should consider stretching by use of butt plugs and dildo's I did and it was well worth it, took a while but when hubby entered it was really nice for both of us, even now after four years ( don't often do vaginal or oral now) he sometimes pops a butt plug in for me to wear Saturday or Sunday says it keeps my mind on the right spot and it certainly does, we use only a small amount of lube now just a lot on his finger to run around my rim and a push in, then he mounts and it is just so fabulous for both, no mess ever I always use the toilet regularly prior and we both shower before and after, hope you keep it up xx