Too much anal sex?

I don't think men, unless you are both men in a gay relationship; like to have anything up them. But hey I've only ever been with 4 men in my 21 yrs. but a way to make it not hurt so bad, is you both laying on y'alls side, then slowly getting him in. Let it sit inside of your ass while he kisses your neck, playing with your clit(or penis if you go that wayy) and grabbing your buttcheeks. Then let him go slowly(do not let it go out of you). Just keep goin back and forth for five or so mins, then go crazy when it's not hurting so much. It will feel amazing. We were able to make it with him on top of me. Felt amazing!!

Hey!
I'm so happy to hear that you can do anal so much! I've recently started to do it, and its amazing!

I was just wondering about the cleaning process for girls! I have one of those things you put up you anal to clean yourself, but it takes me about 4 hours and 7 cleasings to get a proper clean. So I was wondering are there any tricks?

Thank you,
Jessica

To the OP: Anal every day should not be a problem if enough lubrication is used and there are no signs of injury to the anus or rectal passage. Hemorrhoids shouldn't be an issue, though I guess they could make anal sex less enjoyable, depending on the location. My wife actually says it doesn't bother hers, but if they're bad enough to bleed, it may not be a good idea. The amount of lubrication needed seems to vary for my wife, though some is always used, I've actually used so much before that it was too slick in there and I really couldn't feel much.

My wife and I just had our 22nd anniversary a couple of months ago. Up until 3 years ago we had only had anal sex 3 times, maybe 4. Three years ago she bought the book Fifty Shades of Grey and even though anal sex was only mentioned once or twice in the book, and the heroine drew a hard line at that and absolutely refused, the book completely changed our lives in and out of the bedroom. Turns out my wife likes being submissive, and for her, part of being submissive means anal sex. She actually just blurted out during sex one night "OH, God, f*** me in the a$$!", and then proceeded to have the most intense orgasms she'd ever had when I put my penis in her butt and began f***ing it. Since then there has been no turning back, we don't do it every time we have sex, but the majority of the time we do anal only and she likes it when I pound away like you see in porn movies, we even joke that she sounds like a porn starlet during her anal orgasms which usually start soon after entry and continue until I finish. She's usually a little wobbly and "bubble headed" as she put it, afterward. Anal stimulation has become an integral part of our foreplay and she has several toys she likes me to use on her. I credit that book with bringing out the sub/Dom in both of us and probably saving our marriage, we were not headed in a good direction before that. I'd always had leanings in the BDSM direction (more BD than SM), but never explored them because she had never shown any submissive tendencies, turns out even after so many years of marriage she was shy about asking for what she wanted sexually and I was too much a gentleman I guess, to push the issue. Communication and trust is KEY in any relationship, especially a sexual one. We all have fantasies that we'd like to explore, but societal pressures and taboos can quash them if we let them. All I can say is GET YOUR FREAK ON!

Jessica, sometimes s**t just happens, literally, and there's not always a lot you can do about it. If you are one that experiences frequent constipation or you feel like you don't get it all out sometimes, then about all you can do is an enema, but you shouldn't do a deep enema regularly, just enough to clean out the rectum which is only about 6 inches long, beyond that and you get into the colon and you could be flushing out needed bacteria. If you watch porn, the girls on those usually do all kinds of things, multiple enemas, phospho soda, not eating, etc. to make sure they're cleaned out for the movie, and it's not healthy to do that on a regular basis. Diet is key also, garbage in, garbage out. If you eat lots of fruits and veggies, not a lot of meat, and as little processed food as possible it'll keep you regular and should lessen the amount of poop that stays in the pooper. Diets that are high in fiber content generally create less "sticky" poops and the rectum walls stays cleaner. Also, drinking a lot of water every day, at least the recommended FDA minimum of 64 ounces, can be of benefit as well. That is actually a lot easier than you'd think. I hardly ever drank water until a few years ago. I used to drink at least a six pack of soda every day, and figured if I could drink 72 ounces of coke why not at least 72 ounces of water instead? Now I generally drink at least a half gallon a day and my own #2 bathroom issues have cleared up a lot. I have found that it is easier to drink a lot of water in the summer when I'm more active, but I drink as much as I can all the time. Who would think that drinking a lot of water would lead to more regular and less messy poop?

Very nice post, my hubby and I have been into anal for about ten years, we started because one of my girlfriends told me about it, we trained my bum first stretching with ever increasing sizes of butt plugs and dildos plus plenty of lube, he is just over 7 " and reasonably thick when hard so I did not want to get hurt and give it away, we took our time about 3 months before I was comfortable but it was well worth it and got us both very keen, the initial mounting was fantastic we showered, dried each other off then I got on all fours on the lounge mat hubby lubed me and climbed on inserting slowly at first no worries it was just so great I had 3 terrific orgasms and it was so fabulous when he came, we have done it all the time sinse last time we had vaginal was my birthday last year that is how good anal is

You just can't get too much anal sex, my husband has been humping me for about ten years now, we only have anal sex it is so enjoyable for both of us, we do it as much as we like whenever we like but I do really enjoy him climbing on in our back yard out in the open particularly on a nice sunny day both totally naked

Wow, sounds great:) We are like almost the same. But there is one thing no one mentions:
There comes a time when you can't get enough..i think. You want it more and more and more. It becomes like an obsession. More like a drug. And so...What is the solution? You can not have it 24/7.

I don't think of it as an obsession it is just the way we have sex now because we both adore and enjoy anal so much, we have always loved our sex and love each other very much if you are the same you are a very lucky girl and your husband as well, try it in your back yard on a nice sunny day that is so fantastic particularly if you both walk out naked because there is the ever present possibility of being seen it gives an extra nice element and the orgasms are extreme, all the best darling "Robin"

I appolize for your expercience....I tried it with my boyfriend about 2 months ago......After research water base lube is my friend. Our steps are.
1) foreplay a must.
2) allowing your anaul muscle to relax
3) lube up pour it in your anual
4) allow him to put it in as far as the lube
5) when you start feeling the pain pull out and re lube insiden the anual

Love anual now my partner he lt

We have been doing anal for about four years it is just great, about three months ago my husband advised me he would like to have a go at chastity so we purchased a plastic devise with internal lock and I locked him in never knew how much I would love that feeling of total control it is fantastic he is now such a submissive I have him wear panties, bras and nighties around the house and occassionally make him up with a wig as well, he has to refer to me as mistress when I release him to shave and clean he is handcuffed behind and can only root my bum other than that he satisfies me with tongue, fingers and toys I have him clean me with tongue when I have been to the toilet oh yuck how gross but I like it, how wonderful it is to have a nice little slave

i want to be your little slave too

Would you really? how would you go cleaning me with your tongue after I had been to the toilet, my husband had to have a bucket handy and was sick the first six times, he is good with it now, he has this punishment because he got cranky that he had not had any sexual release for five weeks well I was not putting up with that and threatened to flush the keys in the toilet he soon quietened down, apologised and promised it would not happen again he also received a severe batting on his bare behind while touching his toes, the next time I cuffed him and released him so I could shave, inspect and clean him and the device I grabbed his penis and nuts very tight from behind and squeezing walked him around the house backwards his tackle was very sore and red for two days, I am certain we will not discuss release or orgasm for him till I bring up the subject, I like my many orgasms, so tell me again you would like to be my slave we might be able to arrange something darling "Helen"

People talk some nonsense about it causing anal cancer or erosion of the lining - ignore that. Only danger is: too harsh / too little lube = bleeding

Anal sex can be very pleasurable for both of you. Most men are very sensitive about the topic because of the connotation that somehow having a woman's fingers or a toy inside their butt makes them gay somehow. Not true by any stretch of the imagination. My fiancé uses both her fingers and toys on me, and not once have I ever thought, "wow, I'm suddenly attracted to men and want a penis in me!" The male prostate is located inside the rectum and is a huge pleasure Center for men. It's basically the male g-spot. He will enjoy the most intense and long lasting orgasm he has ever had if it's stimulated properly.

As far as you having anal, it's all about preparation. You can't just put something that large in a hole that small without preparing for it first. There are many ways to do this. You can use a finger and move it around to stretch the opening then progress to two fingers when you're comfortable with it or use toys in the same manner. Once you can fit something relatively the size of him in there, you'll be ready to try it relatively painlessly. My fiancé has incredibly intense orgasms from anal, as do I. It's a trial and error process that you must engage in with someone you trust. If you both prepare and are able to relax about the situation, both of you will have an incredible time enjoying anal stimulation. I know we both do.

I tried anal for the first time 5 weeks ago with my guy. Since then we've had PIV maybe twice? I absolutely love anal, I agree the orgasms are out of this world. I also agree about when he cums inside me, it's an amazing feeling. We've tried multiple positions, my fav being bent over the bed the only problem with this position is it gets very intense and I have to ask him to stop because it just feels TOO good.. I hate asking him to stop but being the considerate lover he is he doesn't mind. Anal has very quickly become my fav sexual act along with giving him head. I tell all my close friends to try it, I recommend it to anyone. It changed my sex life.