I hadn't logged into this website in a long time. It's me harmony and I just wanted to say I kept my baby I couldn't abort. I was 8 weeks pregnant when I went to the doctor for the last time (supposedly me because I was going to abort) but my baby already had a heartbeat and I fell in love with him. I told my boyfriend who's now my husband he was so happy. The hardest ones were my parents but they warmed up to the idea. My baby is now almost 6 months. A beautiful healthy baby who fills my heart with happiness. He's a boy and I love him and I regret ever thinking of abortion. He's my my life.
Im so glad. good for you and him. lots of love to all.
This is an old post, but just wanted to say, whatever you decided, you keep your head up. I've been there. I think about my choice and I feel shame and regret that it may have been my only chance to have a baby. And then I think about everything I have now and how I wouldn't have been able to provide for a baby back then, not even myself. So you just keep on keepin on girl
I was in the same position except my boyfriend wanted me to end the pregnancy. It's different for all of us but I wasnt ready nor had the money to support a child. The main thing is you do what's right for you. I didn't tell anyone as I wanted to make sure no one pressured me into doing something that I didn't want to do. I'm now 46 with a healthy 2 year old happily married and I've not regretedmy decision, sad I had to make one but pleased I knew it was my choice
You were just 19 and you managed to keep the baby!!! thats crazy but am really glad for you. I dont think i'd have the guts to keep a baby when i am just 19 and my family has been thinking of me as the youngest and innocent. I chanced upon this site as i had my periods on 27th March. Had unprotected sex on 4th April 2014. i got brown discharge for about 3 days(11,12,13th April).Never happened in my entire life.This was followed by clear vaginal discharge at night. I still have about 14 days left to do a hpt. please advice
have you thought about adoption? it would be a really loving choice. There are all kinds of adoption agencies out there who would be willing to help you, and lots and lots of families who can't have children who would be wonderful adoptive parents. I highly recommend you go that route.
that's wonderful! congrats!
when was this posted cause my husband and I are trying to have a baby with no luck and we would gladly welcome an unwanted baby. message me back if this sounds like something you would like to do.