i know this probally sounds really stupid but im a 12 year old male almost 13 and ive just started out mastrabating and im not sure how to do it, but if any of you have any ideas that dont involve buying stuff and can do around the house that would be REALLY apperciated and that also wouldnt involve my parents finding out because they would get REALLY mad at me if they found out i dont wanna ask my bro cause hell think im weird and i also fell embarrsed about asking other people :$
Dude i know how u feel just when you are alone just do whats right and go in the shower and get alatta shampoo and just do what feels good. I was in the same position you where in and im 13 2 :P. But just do what feels good and dont worri about ppl judging you cause this is completely normal. GOODLUCK!!!
Welcome to the world. 95% of all males masturbate and 85% of all females, so it is not weird. However very few talk about it. Don't use soap or shampoo, cream rinse for hair works great.
Sounds like you have an older bro. Don't you think he went through the same thing, he's a guy! When your somewhere you can ask him and he knows your serious, say "I really need your help, It's personal, and I want your opion,can we talk in private?" He will most probably feel honored that you came to him for help. It may be the only time it's mentioned, if he has hangups, but he will understand and try and answer your question. And probably give you a few pointers you wouldn't have thought of.If you get kicked in the nuts, you get more sympathy from a guy than a girl, cause they know how it feel. I'm sure your brother will feel the same way,he really does know what your going through.
mikerubin777 wrote:
NOOOOO!!!! Do NOT use soap or shampoo!!! The soap will make your skin raw and it will irritate it, also if you get any in the urethra it's going to burn and cause lots of issues.
it depends on if you are circumcised or not on how you may want to try but don't worry I'll help with each.
Circumcised:
-use lube, best thing for lube is lube, there is no age limit on it so feel free to pick some up
-if your penis is big enough use a full fist and just pump up and down at whatever speed you want (you can do whatever form you want this is just a normal one)
-the frenlum is the most sensitive area (the triangle shaped thing on the bottom side) so focuse a couple of fingers there when pumping
-keep pumping away until you get a feeling thats like having to pee, keep pumping, actually go faster that means the orgasm is close
-orgasm and possible clean up, you'll know when you orgasm its pretty incredible also when you're old enough you will ejaculate (sperm/cum/etc) use a kleenex, napkin, sock, underwear, and some people eat thats totally your choice, not everyone does.
Uncircumcised
-lube isn't needed but its your choice
see circumcised tips
Also if you are uncircumcised it's time to make sure you can retract, mostly to clean. if you can't retract all the way start working on it in the shower pulling back and stretching out (don't overdue it) The only reason is is that if you start to jack and use lube then you'll have some smegma building up under the skin if it's not clean.
If you have any questions feel free to message me, I'd be more than willing to help.
jakeman wrote:
i know this probally sounds really stupid but im a 12 year old male almost 13 and ive just started out mastrabating and im not sure how to do it, but if any of you have any ideas that dont involve buying stuff and can do around the house that would be REALLY apperciated and that also wouldnt involve my parents finding out because they would get REALLY mad at me if they found out i dont wanna ask my bro cause hell think im weird and i also fell embarrsed about asking other people
Dude i know how u feel just when you are alone just do whats right and go in the shower and get alatta shampoo and just do what feels good. I was in the same position you where in and im 13 2 :P. But just do what feels good and dont worri about ppl judging you cause this is completely normal. GOODLUCK!!!
NOOOOO!!!! Do NOT use soap or shampoo!!! The soap will make your skin raw and it will irritate it, also if you get any in the urethra it's going to burn and cause lots of issues.
it depends on if you are circumcised or not on how you may want to try but don't worry I'll help with each.
Circumcised:
-use lube, best thing for lube is lube, there is no age limit on it so feel free to pick some up
-if your penis is big enough use a full fist and just pump up and down at whatever speed you want (you can do whatever form you want this is just a normal one)
-the frenlum is the most sensitive area (the triangle shaped thing on the bottom side) so focuse a couple of fingers there when pumping
-keep pumping away until you get a feeling thats like having to pee, keep pumping, actually go faster that means the orgasm is close
-orgasm and possible clean up, you'll know when you orgasm its pretty incredible also when you're old enough you will ejaculate (sperm/cum/etc) use a kleenex, napkin, sock, underwear, and some people eat thats totally your choice, not everyone does.
Uncircumcised
-lube isn't needed but its your choice
see circumcised tips
Also if you are uncircumcised it's time to make sure you can retract, mostly to clean. if you can't retract all the way start working on it in the shower pulling back and stretching out (don't overdue it) The only reason is is that if you start to jack and use lube then you'll have some smegma building up under the skin if it's not clean.
If you have any questions feel free to message me, I'd be more than willing to help.
trollh8r wrote:
hey was that safe? eating the sperm/semen/cum etc.. i believe that can cause some disease from your throat..
mikerubin777 wrote:
jakeman wrote:
i know this probally sounds really stupid but im a 12 year old male almost 13 and ive just started out mastrabating and im not sure how to do it, but if any of you have any ideas that dont involve buying stuff and can do around the house that would be REALLY apperciated and that also wouldnt involve my parents finding out because they would get REALLY mad at me if they found out i dont wanna ask my bro cause hell think im weird and i also fell embarrsed about asking other people
Dude i know how u feel just when you are alone just do whats right and go in the shower and get alatta shampoo and just do what feels good. I was in the same position you where in and im 13 2 :P. But just do what feels good and dont worri about ppl judging you cause this is completely normal. GOODLUCK!!!
NOOOOO!!!! Do NOT use soap or shampoo!!! The soap will make your skin raw and it will irritate it, also if you get any in the urethra it's going to burn and cause lots of issues.
it depends on if you are circumcised or not on how you may want to try but don't worry I'll help with each.
Circumcised:
-use lube, best thing for lube is lube, there is no age limit on it so feel free to pick some up
-if your penis is big enough use a full fist and just pump up and down at whatever speed you want (you can do whatever form you want this is just a normal one)
-the frenlum is the most sensitive area (the triangle shaped thing on the bottom side) so focuse a couple of fingers there when pumping
-keep pumping away until you get a feeling thats like having to pee, keep pumping, actually go faster that means the orgasm is close
-orgasm and possible clean up, you'll know when you orgasm its pretty incredible also when you're old enough you will ejaculate (sperm/cum/etc) use a kleenex, napkin, sock, underwear, and some people eat thats totally your choice, not everyone does.
Uncircumcised
-lube isn't needed but its your choice
see circumcised tips
Also if you are uncircumcised it's time to make sure you can retract, mostly to clean. if you can't retract all the way start working on it in the shower pulling back and stretching out (don't overdue it) The only reason is is that if you start to jack and use lube then you'll have some smegma building up under the skin if it's not clean.
If you have any questions feel free to message me, I'd be more than willing to help.
hey was that safe? eating the sperm/semen/cum etc.. i believe that can cause some disease from your throat..
If you eat your own why would you get an infection from your own stuff? sure you can get STD's from other peoples but from your own? I don't think so.
Some one is feeding you a line of c**p. I've always swallowed, and never had a problem,and when it hits your stomach, from swallowing that is, the acids that digest your food kills anything that would be there. You should at least taste it once, then at least you know how it tastes, if your gettin a bj, the person sucking will be tasting it. If it is not good, it is something in your diet, yes what you eat effects the way your cum tastes. Most common is beer, but I'm not a big beer drinker, But I've heard it makes it a little bitter. Mine has always tasted fine. It is actually the seminol fluid, that carries the sperm out that has the taste .Good luck.
If someone else's gets in your mouth, if there is an std, it tranfers right away, even if you don't take any cum.If you have your hand on another person's genitals, male or female, and then handle your penis, you can transfer it, but you can't catch fom a toilet seat or anything like that, that's bull. You just ask about yourself, but the more you know the better.